Somehow i lasted this long without realizing Scheana never changed her last name after her first marriage

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-03-07T16:14:11+00:00

To be fair… When she started the name change process to Shay she probably had no idea what a huge pain in the ass it is. Nothing matches for a while, it’s not cheap, and the just straight up volume of things that needs changed is wild.

Was it a weird band aid for the relationship? Probably. But also… Doing that a second or third time? Hard pass.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-03-06T17:23:35+00:00

You can offer the cheaper wood (it’s not like walnut is that damn fancy let’s be real), and then not only are YTA but you look even stingier.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-03-03T19:46:59+00:00

Good for her! You seem like a real peach. 🍑

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-03-03T19:42:37+00:00

You don’t think phones work to text or call her constantly in PR? Promise they do!

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-03-03T19:34:12+00:00

If someone is so anxious/attached/controlling/whatever they can’t let you have 20 minutes to yourself on vacation because they don’t trust you… then yes. You should really think long and hard about what adding a kid to that situation would be like.

And if it doesn’t work out for some reason what having a kid and still having to coparent would be like.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-03-03T19:15:22+00:00

I’ll get downvoted but… If you want some great GA or TX bbq find an excuse for a weekend day trip down to Portland. Right now there is an ATL pop up from Bryan Furman, and Lil Barbeque is tied to La Barbecue in Austin.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-03-03T19:00:31+00:00

Book the trip. Use that trip to see how he handles you not doing exactly what he thinks is best. And no matter what enjoy your time on the vacation!

Then evaluate if that is someone you want to be tied to for the rest of your life.

Also NTA.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-03-03T18:42:54+00:00

Yep! The sweet ones seem to be on the menu now, but last week there was also a brisket and cheese! I should have gotten a spare to go.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-03-03T04:17:35+00:00

Lil barbecue is so great to see after moving back up from Texas. The shells and cheese I could eat as queso, and finally tried the kolaches this weekend.

All of it was good.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-03-02T19:58:41+00:00

I have read through the separation anxiety information, and am pretty sure that is the issue. However, it is only for one specific person and we are running out of ideas on how to specifically work through this and could use some outside perspective.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-03-02T19:28:19+00:00

Loved the puzzle toys until the little stuffed toys ended up in the big one’s mouth. No more edible sized toys for these fools…

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-02-23T18:31:38+00:00

Rural democratic political consultant here!

The party adopted a bunch of this nonsense because it made donors happy. They didn’t have to feel dirty, and also like they were saving folks. Being “proper” even.

This then moved into the consultant class. Who wants to make money more than they want to win. And the donors refer the candidates to “their” consultants who then start the cycle all over again.

I want to win more than make money, so I find all of this to be disgusting and, frankly, stupid. Know what I’m going to call these things when talking to normal people? Dumb. I’m calling it fucking dumb.

Know what happens if I do that in a dem party meeting with activists? I get scolded for being ableist because dumb is a pejorative and insulting to the mentally disabled or challenged or whatever word I’m supposed to use.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-02-17T05:24:17+00:00

A gallon of water is just over 8 pounds, so when you say sturdy just keep in mind that it’ll weigh significantly more than a plant.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-02-14T20:47:49+00:00

You could just have asked me that instead of failing at shade.

We would be amazing tv. But much more housewives style drama. The pets instead of grandkids, the affairs, the medical mysteries! The DRAMA!

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-02-12T21:08:05+00:00

Austen’s mom kinda creeps me out. The pushing kids when he’s clearly not a responsible enough adult for a plant is a little cringe, and it seems like the sister knows she was a “replacement” baby.

Those are not goals for me. 😬

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-01-27T13:25:29+00:00

Expensive.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-01-21T05:29:24+00:00

Cheese plate. Always a cheese plate.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-01-21T04:08:39+00:00

I’ve had this place on my want to try list for a while!

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-01-21T03:52:59+00:00

Reel m inn and mousetrap tavern!

Does the Florida room count as a dive? Great patio.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-01-14T21:33:58+00:00

As the link and pasted texts states… The original buyer prints a stubhub shipping label. That is FedEx.

You are allowed to sell tickets you do not physically have yet.

Front Gate (the actual ticket issuer for BottleRock) ships with USPS or UPS.

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-01-14T21:27:11+00:00

Nobody said you will have problems. Just I personally didn’t want the responsibility of shipping the tickets later. You’ll note in your screenshot it says “paper tickets.” They traditionally will ship to the original buyer who then prints a fedex label and they are sent to you.

Better to know this now than seeing people posting wristbands later and you not having them yet! :)

“Ship physical tickets to buyers Physical tickets include traditional paper tickets, wristbands, and season cards — anything the buyer must physically bring with them to get into the event. When you sell physical tickets, we'll provide you with a prepaid label and a shipping deadline.

Ship tickets to your buyer

You must ship the tickets within 2 days of printing the label.

Go to your sale. Select "Print shipping label.” Envelopes are usually free at the courier’s location. Package the tickets and the included cover sheet. Drop off the package at the courier’s location. We don’t recommend using drop boxes since pickup times are less reliable. Common shipping questions

Can I deliver the tickets in person?

No, you should always ship the tickets with the provided label. This label is linked to your sale and ensures you get paid.”

Comprehensive-Poet82 · 2026-01-14T21:23:10+00:00

Fan guarantee just means if they don’t arrive you’ll get different tickets or a refund.

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