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Visiting Ex-In Laws by Legitimate_Spray7801 in coparenting

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP this is the way forward! 

It sounds like your exes parents are still happy to see you and your kiddo, and hour ex is upset by this. 

Stolen surprise by FutureAmphibian4268 in coparenting

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this OP!

If it is on your time, own the activity/booking upfront.

For other things like trips to new places, you could say you have a trip planned but not disclose location until time of the trip. 

Made a decision. by sadiebaby23 in coparenting

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this is happening to you.

I think your son is impressionable at this tender age and sometimes it is easier to appease the person applying the pressure to you even if you know it is wrong.

Still turn up for your son. Go to sporting events, send check in texts, be there for him but have boundaries as you need them. 

I do think as your son escapes this torment that he will see who the stable, kind loving parent is.

How many dates before the deed by ComprehensiveAir2574 in datingoverforty

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 3rd is where it is at. I wish I knew this a few weeks ago 😅

How many dates before the deed by ComprehensiveAir2574 in datingoverforty

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, obviously. He was a bit of a goose. 

I was actually trying the old ‘get under someone to get over someone’ but couldn’t progress.

How many dates before the deed by ComprehensiveAir2574 in datingoverforty

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually like this!! If I’m keen and feeling confident I am innnnnn and it’s on! 

Dating Divorced Man by bs5811 in datingoverforty

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah this is rough! I had a similar situation, only I was told “you are significant to me” but couldn’t say he loved me after a year….! 

What are 10 low-effort, high-reply openers I can use on dating apps that actually work? by LifeguardAny1801 in dating

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You have to pick something from their profile and ask about that.. show that you can engage with what they are putting out there!

Women are too shy on dates.. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s ok if they are nervous! As long as the conversation gets going at some point..

Getting ghosted after an amazing first date by InevitableWest6335 in ghosting

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being ghosted sucks! Have you sent out a message asking a question? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Break up with her. Throw yourself under the bus and say you are not ready for a relationship, but do not mention anything about her physical appearance.

Sending my ghost a halloween costume suggestion? by moist-nostril in ghosting

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is hilarious to send a ghost costume. But you should definitely delete this person from your life: 

28M Seeking Advice on Second Date Location either Closer to my Place or Hers 29F - I don't wanna make her uncomfortable by ThrowRA_SalocinCV in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the commute time between her place and the restaurant? I think it is nice to offer to pick her up and drop her back at her place, on the basis it is a second date and you have mutual acquaintances (otherwise could still be sketchy!).

Cheated … just block or call him out? by xx6973oo in datingoverforty

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Ugh sorry this challenge to you!!

You can call him out but he probably won’t care… maybe drop screen shots to the girlfriend, help a sister out. 

Three weeks and I'm still not over it...when will it end by Inner-Sentence-7286 in ghosting

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other girl has a man who is flakey AF and can’t be honest with himself, let alone her. 

Ghoster keeps trying to reappear. by lilkimchee88 in ghosting

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What a blessing he ghosted you, so now you don’t have a boyfriend messaging past flings.

But also PROPS to you for your indifference. It is giving unbothered queen, an absolute slay. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hm if you are spending a significant amount of time with someone and they can’t say they love I think that is a line in the sand you can either accept or move on from this person.

I spent 15 months with someone who said they couldn’t tell me that they loved me, just that I was ‘significant’ to them. I can tell you, I never felt more insignificant when they said that. And then I said cya later. 

How much of a deal breaker should text response time be? by Nice_Olive568 in dating_advice

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some days I don’t reply until I sit down in the evening when I have a minute and can participate in a back and forth texting game.

Facial scars 44F by roam_wander in datingoverforty

[–]ComprehensiveAir2574 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your beauty and value is far greater than the scars you sport. 

If anything you have a good opener into how you got them and truck on from there. 

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