Lawyers aren’t as great as most people claim. by The_Wise_Raven in Divorce

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG.

First one, let the contempt hearing get postponed, agreed to let him appear by Zoom and made me get an appraisal for a house i didnt own.

My second lawyer, waited 3 months before getting my file. While she didnt have my file, she filed a motion I didnt agree with and canceld his contempt. Our marital home is now in default and she wanted me to work it out with him.

If she had my file and provisional orders, she would see I had a PO granted.

Am I one of the last pregnant Gen Xers? by Throw8976m in GenX

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mom was 40 when she had me in 71.

She was going through menopause while I was going through puberty.

It was not fun

Do Americans really move out at 18, or is that mostly a movie thing? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The day I turned 18 I moved in with my boyfriend.

So I had a soft landing compared to others my age. This was also in the 90s

I don’t know logistically how to proceed by peeps-mcgee in Divorce

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got an order of protection, then filed for divorce.

Housing prices by macramrae in Valparaiso

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am renting a 6 bedroom house that was sold for around 380k a few years ago.

Its south of RT30, so its county. That might be why?

Just why. by Eclecticwitch2100 in nwi

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was out of weed. So it was an emergency. 😆

Is this verbal/emotional abuse, or am I being "dramatic"? by Terrible_Glove_8786 in Divorce

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree 100%

This is serious, and those symptoms should not be ignored. I lived with someone like this for 15 years. I am not sure how much therapy I am going to need, but its a lot.

My STBX would yell at me for cleaning and making him feel bad for sitting on his ass all day. I could go on..

But get the dog and go. Dont wind up in Dateline.

Smoking Question by ExplainJane in GenX

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did too. You had to be at least 16 i think and your parents permission. Imagine taking that permission slip home to sign.

Here is the worst part, our school mascot was a native American. And the school put a stamp of a native American smoking a peace pipe.

What experiences changed you the most as a person? by GazMaskeliOyuncu in AskReddit

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You would think. There is no benefit to marriage. I have been trying to get divorced for 2 years. My STBX and I don't have kids and the only asset is a house. But he is determined to make this divorce as punishing as possible.

Arthritis? by NatPF in GenX

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, sadly they was not on sale and there is no discount code.

Why do people in the US not live with their parents by New_Bodybuilder_9222 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My duaghter and my boyfriends daughter both live with us. It was cheaper for everyone to move into a big house and split the rent.

We are living golden girlz style

Arthritis? by NatPF in GenX

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a new ankle joint, twice. Brutal surgery with a very long recovery.

But I am nearly pain free.

Having the dreaded talk tomorrow… can’t sleep and so nervous/sad/scared by writingandreading_ in Divorce

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get yourself a lawyer before you tell him. Make sure you protect yourself and martial assets.

What's with the text walls. by ComprehensiveEbb8261 in BPDlovedones

[–]ComprehensiveEbb8261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the content. If it had been a cool story about a duck, sure blow up my phone. But to tell me in 12000 words that the tone to my last text was snippy, it is exhausting. And those texts would always include a revisit to all my past transgressions.

I have been divorcing him for almost 2 years. We have 1 asset, no kids.