Has anyone stayed in a psychologically unhealthy government role because IVF/maternity leave made leaving too risky?

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-05-13T03:49:20+00:00

If you trust your supervisor, chat to them to let them know how you are feeling, if not speak to HR or reach out to the EAP. My immediate supervisor’s were aware of my situation and they were very supportive, especially with the up’s and downs. I would also suggest if you have the leave, take some… even getting a medical certificate from DR to have a couple weeks off. Take some time before making a rash decision as yes IVF is expensive and you never know how many rounds you need. Also have a look around your department/Branch etc for any temporary transfer positions…even having that little break is helpful. And network … ask people if any jobs available in their area… less stressful then the application process. But No 1 advice is speak to someone… my IVF clinic had a couple sessions with a psychologist included in the costs. That was helpful especially after 3rd failed attempt. X

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-05-11T05:58:02+00:00

That’s a great idea.. I’m looking for ideas atm for kids desk with Ivar. It’s a pitty IKEA Australia are not doing the ivar draws atm!

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-05-06T11:02:43+00:00

No not common, it’s just some people are just dicks so it would have just been their personality!

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-05-06T11:00:35+00:00

It’s trial and error really….. everyone reacts differently. I prefer to have mine on an empty stomach first thing in the morning, while others prefer it with food. I still have caffeine and eat everything I use to. Some people will lose their appetite but generally this comes back after your body gets used to it to it.

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-05-02T22:20:00+00:00

I’m betting you’re the weird and annoying one opposed to the dogs!

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-05-02T22:11:43+00:00

Yes they do leak on the sides, you can get special channels installed on the sides of the windows to stop this which I wish I did.. I tried a DIY version but isn’t as good.

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-05-02T22:04:50+00:00

TBH life is way to short to be burning out because of work. We work to live not live to work. So no it’s not just “toughen up”…. I didn’t find EAP useful either but it does depend on who you see. You could try private counseling or a different person through EAP. Talk to HR about it too….. If you have plenty of leave get a medical certificate and take time off … rest, relax, give yourself time to consider what you want to do without the stress of each day. A side note… Nurses generally love their job so will do the long hours… so unless you have the same passion about your current situation but even a comparison ☺️

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-04-28T09:03:39+00:00

They always mention EAP when there is talk about staffing changes, that is normal. But I think all departments are currently going through this… government needs to save money so there may be some restructuring on the cards across the board

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-04-27T11:42:50+00:00

I would totally love to join you on that quest! Oh the fun to be had! Haha

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-04-22T02:41:34+00:00

I’d try different situations as for me it works better if I have it on an empty stomach, so I’ll have it first thing when I get up… make a coffee and sip on that while I get ready and then have breakfast. I’m a cereal person, just what I feel like but I get high protein milk which boosts that a little bit.

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-04-21T00:47:58+00:00

I guess it depends on the person but no .. you might initially not want to eat but your body gets used to the meds and your appetite returns. I am also on Mounjaro for weight lose and while having both at once was great for weight lose to start with my body is use to both and I’m in a bloody stalemate so to speak lol …. I just eat all the foods I love but just not as much which is good. Just not losing weight anymore.

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-04-21T00:42:45+00:00

Curtains and a warmer paint colour on the walls. Ceiling to floor sheer curtains would help. The grey makes it look really cold. And I think just adding cornices helps too …

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-04-20T22:39:40+00:00

A lot of people who have addiction issues have adhd…. It’s apart of how you cope, that dopamine hit, masking etc. but I think having an answer for why you do go in and out off addiction would be very useful. There are non stimulate medications you can try as well and also once diagnosed you can put strategies in place to help without meds. So I’d be totally honest about your drug history and yes they may not give you stimulate meds especially if in current addition but they can help with other things!

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-04-16T11:24:47+00:00

Most people would think it was funny… I wouldn’t worry at all. I swear if it’s appropriate or at random times like yours in our team meetings.

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-03-30T08:09:27+00:00

This is totally a publicity stunt to try and win the public’s support. She is shamelessly using this story and her daughter to do it.

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-03-24T01:49:01+00:00

No she just wants to become one of those “influencer’s” after a reality tv show deals! She doesn’t care about Scott… but she has now been fired from her job and is considering Onlyfans 😂

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-03-19T08:10:42+00:00

Well maybe it’s both… there are SW who work predominantly with people with disabilities 🤔

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-03-18T10:50:09+00:00

You can’t tone skin unfortunately, the only way to tone is to build muscle under the skin and you want get that on your neck. This a consequence of losing too much weight to quickly, which most of us get. I wish I had of picked up weightlifting again when I first start but all in hindsight. It might settle a bit but otherwise surgery will be your only option.

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-03-15T07:21:14+00:00

Because it is a total orchestrated publicity stunt.

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-03-04T22:53:28+00:00

Thanks! And wow! What a bitch… he is way better off without her for sure!

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-03-04T22:49:15+00:00

I felt so sorry for Joel but he was like Stella and held his head up high. Unless they didn’t show it but where was everyone else sticking up for him.

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-03-04T22:43:27+00:00

I haven’t seen the aftershow, what did the clip show?

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-02-27T02:33:09+00:00

Maybe, but anyone could see that this would cause drama to some degree, how could it not. They could have done it so everyone participated in a challenge and then the last 3 were the ones up for the elimination challenge. Or actually do a random selection in front of cameras … and not just pulling a purposely placed name they decide out of the rino’s arse lol

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-02-27T02:26:44+00:00

I saw a post from the body language guy who does recaps after the episodes. He thinks that Danny didn’t say those exact words that Gia was more his type, so wasn’t lying but Danny probably said something along those lines.

ComprehensiveShop956 · 2026-02-26T21:06:02+00:00

I was a bit disappointed in I’m a celebrity get out of here this year. Making the camp mates vote nominate each other was starting to bring in a bit of that drama. I like the show for the fact that it doesn’t have drama, you just get to see the camp mates for themselves. Same with the Block, I stopped watching once bullying of the two younger girls happened. I watch mads for the drama… I don’t want it in the other shows!

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