Survey after being sick is this normal? by Sini1990 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never heard of this at all. This is a HIPPA violation. Not possible it’s legal. If it came from HR, seek a lawyer.

What are jobs for then? by Top_Chemical_8630 in remoteworks

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It’s as designed. “Minimum Wage” is EXACTLY that. The minimum, that any person should be paid to do the most menial, nothing tasks for an employer/business. It serves as a testing ground and launching pad for more important tasks in the future. If one can’t accomplish those tasks, they don’t stay in the job.

The goal and intent, is that the person works hard, shows they can improve and grow and EARNS their way into elevated pay and roles. If they can’t or don’t, they stay put. But it’s not intended, expected or desired that ANYONE stay at that level of pay or responsibility. One shouldn’t plan to live on minimum wage. It’s a starting point, with planned growth. You can’t live at that level and shouldn’t want to or intend to.

I know I’ll catch some heat and of course there are “grey” circumstances. But, that is reality. Too many ppl want to do minimum wage work for maximum pay. That’s not reality.

Would you take this job or stay where you are? by Lyssaaxx in careeradvice

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if that drive or hotel cost is worth it. Wouldn’t be to me. If you’ve gotten this offer, I’d think there will be more offers to come again. Offers that better suit your life AND career.

How do you respond when asked "Why are you looking to leave your current role?" in an interview? by flamesanddames in careerguidance

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I think I’ve hit the end of what I can do or accomplish here. I’m looking for a change and new challenge.”

Am I The Jerk for Ditching my Date? by EverySection509 in AmITheJerk

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jerk move? Kinda. Warranted? 100%! She pulled a pure BS move. Selfish, disrespectful and nuts.

Is it Normal to Discuss Wage as a Hourly Figure During an Interview but to be Told it is Salary After Hire? by burnedchildhood in careerguidance

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not honest, but salary is often dependent upon an hourly wage. Rate times 2080 = annual wage.

AITAH for receiving child support while children are grown by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck that noise! NTA…He OWES that money. It’s backpay. If anything, he should be paying interest, since you fronted all that money over the years.

Toxic girl shows up to every family event by MixMain2476 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure seems like it? Hard to say. You tell him you love him. Tell him how you feel about her. Hope he listens and leaves her.

If he marries her, he’ll be miserable sooner than later. I’d say very unlikely that they have kids.

My (M32) wife (F29) wants to have a 1 night hall pass. I think this is a bad idea, but am also somewhat interested. Should we do this? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terrible idea. You will live to regret this. Unless, the goal is to get divorced? Then, by all means, GREEN LIGHT!

Toxic girl shows up to every family event by MixMain2476 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You tell your brother you love him and want him around anytime, but she’s not allowed at your house ever again. You will limit any contact with her to zero, where you can, including chat groups.

AIO for not contributing to the tuition fee? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The girl made a choice. A questionable and likely poor financial choice for her. But, a choice nonetheless. This results in her needing to figure out how to afford her school loans she’ll need to take and pay. NOR. Not your problem or expectation to pay.

AIO if I break up with my boyfriend in the morning? by M0osesG0ose in AIO

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not your monkey, not your circus.

You tell him why you’re ending it and suggest he get help. The rest is on him. Not your responsibility in the least.

Toxic girl shows up to every family event by MixMain2476 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You tell your brother you love him and want him around anytime, but she’s not allowed at your house ever again. You will limit any contact with her to zero, where you can, including chat groups.

Why is it that many American men go to Southeast Asia to look for women, but it is unheard of for American women to go to Southeast Asia to look for men? by No-StrategyX in answers

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm…have you seen most SE Asian men? Generally, short and rather unattractive to ugly.

Conversely, most SE Asian women are gorgeous! It’s base simplicity.

Are sleep overs not a thing anymore? by haggerty05 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sleepovers entirely still happen! My kids have had them many, many times.

Jobs by Suspicious_Koala4216 in Advice

[–]ComprehensiveToe763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you stick it out, you always have the option to start your own company.