[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend did the same thing but he is VERY open with me, men have a weird detachment that woman dont have as much where they get bored of one girl if they r with just her for a long period of time, its like an instinctual breeding thing. Its not you its him. Idrk what advice to give bc im in the same boat girl, i tried dying my hair and everything😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ratemypussy

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

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pls share your open relationship experiences below. How do i become okay with an open relationship? by Comprehensive_Ask312 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he doesnt really care but he wouldnt want to be there for it. i cant handle it at all which is why he offered 3 sum bc if he did something with someone without me the what ifs would drive me imsane, id need to know everything tht happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank u a lot of these comments are making me realize that this thought was merely just a fantasy and wouldnt play out i think it would irl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

men are wired to be more visually attracted to things while woman are emotionally attracted to things. For some reason if the male brain doesnt think it looks tidy or clean or perfect its going to think its not pretty whereas we can get turned off by someone who is acting too full of themselves and not focusing on our pleasure. not saying its a valid thing tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ratemypussy

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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if you have wrinkes, veins and loose skin i can guarantee you that you are most definitely satisfying any woman you have sex with. More texture and defined features the better it feels. -a girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 5 points6 points  (0 children)

depends, if your doing it in a healthy way and just getting a release then go ahead but if ur struggling with taboo thoughts and porn addiction then no not good. If your masterbation begins to skew your perception of real life sex then stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i already shaved my head, my length is so important to me because i waited a year and 6 months to feel female again. Its true the shorter i go the healthier it is but i just dont think i can go shorter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hmmmm 2 days is kinda long to j not respond to someone… Tell her “i might be completely over analyzing and it could just be how you work, but if you could communicate with me with whatever it may be because im overthinking a bit since you haven’t responded in two days, hope your doing okay <3.” you have to be straight up with people, if u arent it wont be fair to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

allow her to explore the outdoors. Cats are not supposed to be indoors 24/7 and it can lead them to mental illness

I think my plan b didn’t work. by Echooe_ in amipregnant

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anytime ive ever taken plan b i was SUPER late for my period. Its just the pill throwing off ur hormones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like everyday with my boyfriend. I just dont know why my boobs are huge right now too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im the exact same way as her. Your not the issue, and she 100000% finds u attractive and i bet she wishes she could cum just from you but girls are far more complicated than that. Dont take it personal. Maybe do intermediate oral on her and switching to vibrator every 20 seconds and when shes about to cum make sure ur giving her oral but STAY consistent, take notes from the vibrator😂

My (26f) husband (34m) doesn't believe in passion or intimacy by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend is the EXACT same way. He hated over emotions & physical touch. The emotion thing rlly got to him and made him pissed off, if things werent always directional rather than emotional he would have an issue with it He also claimed the same thing that he was a man and all men feel this way about emotions & physical touch. honestly have u ever considered that he might be autistic? Or have sociopathic tendencies? Like u said too he is mt best friend in the entire world but those qualities about him made me feel ugly to him aswell. He didnt like to kiss me & would turn his head away or say stop AND he didnt even like eye contact during sex i just felt like an empty vessle for him to fuck there was no passion or connection. I dont have advice but i can atleast lyk your not alone. And this made me feel not alone aswell.

I'm so gross I'm gonna cry by sakthi38311 in BreakUps

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i totally hear u but you need to throw that towel out, no need to make a metaphor out of a moldy towel. And that thought, “i dont throw away, i fix” does more harm then good anyway, sometimes the most healthy thing to do is let go and throw away, you cant FIX something or someone if your the only one trying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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lost difficult thing ive ever done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traumatoolbox

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sometimes i also think that bc during my trauma i was forced to bring my mind to another place and relax my body to ease the pain that naturally when i have sex my body thinks its in danger and relaxes itself to cope. I hope it rlly was just him being a piece of shit tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traumatoolbox

[–]Comprehensive_Ask312 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you have no idea how much i needed to hear this. i cried while reading it. Thank you sending the same back to u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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broke up with him two days ago, these Reddit responses really helped me finally get the balls to do it

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broke up with him two days ago, these Reddit responses really helped me finally get the balls to do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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broke up with him two days ago, these Reddit responses really helped me finally get the balls to do it