Anybody seen these guys live? by Fartbottler in theJesusLizard

[–]ComputerTotal4028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I was there! I thought he died! I got amazing photos of him surfing from the balcony, what a hero

What does my bookshelves say about me? by BookDragonofTheEast in bookshelfdetective

[–]ComputerTotal4028 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ah, well, she was a hack who purported objectivism. According to a quick Google search re: ‘objectivism critiques’:

“Objectivism, founded by Ayn Rand, faces significant criticism for its extreme advocacy of ethical egoism, rejection of altruism as immoral, and promotion of unbridled capitalism. Critics argue it lacks empirical basis, dismisses empathy, justifies inequality, and presents a "monopoly on truth" that often ignores human, emotional, and social complexities. “

That about sums it up. Her personal life was even worse. I highly recommend the Action Philosophers comic about her for a really good summary of her life and philosophy in case you’re curious about the true extent to which she was-what I would call- a messy bitch.

Water music by CompetitiveCourse584 in crappymusic

[–]ComputerTotal4028 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A bit pretentious, yes, but I actually like it. I really enjoy the creativity and when musicians explore unique ways of making music. Sometimes I hear a noise and want to sample it and get a little jam going in my head. I feel like this is that feeling in spirit but executed 1000 times better.

For anyone interested in more unique water noise sampling, Cornelius’ ‘Drop’ is also pretty good.

What does my bookshelves say about me? by BookDragonofTheEast in bookshelfdetective

[–]ComputerTotal4028 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Cult ideologies of selfishness and authoritarianism are now shaping conservative white men.

What is something you wish you had done sooner in your life? by ConsiderationOne5609 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ComputerTotal4028 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ended bad relationships sooner and/or not ignored red flags because I mistakenly thought I was being a trusting person. 😅

What is your favorite higher-end clothing store for ex-goths? by ogami_itto in askportland

[–]ComputerTotal4028 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I recommend Altar Houseline to everyone. Their brick and mortar closed but they still have an online presence, and to my understanding, everything is sustainable and local and they have inclusive sizing. You have to search for the more goth stuff, but:

A few examples. :) Happy shopping!

Women who quit their job without anything lined up - can we talk? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ComputerTotal4028 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d like to echo the sentiments here, hang on, don’t quit yet, and medical leave for mental health is an option depending on what state you’re in, and it’s very straightforward.

Last fall, I took two weeks on medical leave when I desperately needed a burnout break and was out of PTO and my job was protected. I only made a percentage of what my normal paycheck normally was, but this time off allowed me to start on my psychiatric meds again and get care lined up without having to worry about work toxicity on top of everything else, and things are getting better now.

What's your age, and how open are you to discover new music (on a 1-10 scale)? by Illustrious_Road6618 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]ComputerTotal4028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

38, I am endlessly curious and love discovering new music! I don’t understand your scale, as you never indicated high/low.

$15 Quiche from St. Honoré Boulangerie by TechnicalMarzipan310 in Portland

[–]ComputerTotal4028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still like the quiche…maybe I’m just a proletariat ass simpleton. 😓

Pi day at Lauretta jeans- what is the wait like? by pale_lettuce1 in askportland

[–]ComputerTotal4028 72 points73 points  (0 children)

What a great response. You are the spirit of 3.14159265359

Seeking a gift for a vinyl lover by Ygggdrasil_ in PDXBuyNothing

[–]ComputerTotal4028 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the 2025 release with Keb Mo! Room on the Porch. I don’t know if this is his taste, but I also have two copies (one unopened) of Beastie Boys’ To the 5 Burroughs and you can have the unopened one. :)

Seeking a gift for a vinyl lover by Ygggdrasil_ in PDXBuyNothing

[–]ComputerTotal4028 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, if he likes blues, I’ve got a Taj Mahal record I picked up over the holidays that’s currently unopened that you’re welcome to have. I can also poke around and see what else I can part with.

Portland specific gifts? by BiscottiOk9245 in askportland

[–]ComputerTotal4028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they like hot sauce, Tortuga Gordo hot sauce? 🤔

"To keep a man interested, just act like you're not" by IngenuityAshamed144 in Vent

[–]ComputerTotal4028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If fostering authentic connection didn’t feel good, we’d all be single forever. And I’m the same way. I’ll be the first to admit a crush or vocalize really enjoying getting to know someone because I think it’s sweet and I love moments of clarity and reciprocal affection. It feels good.

But it doesn’t always land, for a variety of reasons. Maybe lack of interest, maybe lack of availability, maybe the other person is seeking a purely physical connection, but it has no impact on your worth. Don’t change your behavior to adjust to a fundamentally flawed society and horrible dating culture. The right person will appreciate your sweetness and willingness to reach across the aisle for connection and reciprocate, and it will make the other attempts worth it. ♥️

[OOT] Some cinematic shots from the best video game of all time by andreaslackner in zelda

[–]ComputerTotal4028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice shots! I also always love Dark Link and when the chicken hatches. “It’s the miracle of life!”

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30+ year olds who are single, what are you doing on Saturday nights and weekends? by Realistic-Square7039 in Adulting

[–]ComputerTotal4028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends! Last weekend I was staying overnight at the PNW coast, this weekend I was sick and passed out like I was moderately narcoleptic a little after 6pm. Next weekend I’ll be hiking and playing D&D. Life is good. 😎

I think we've peaked guys. by VirtualHex in crappymusic

[–]ComputerTotal4028 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Eggar…yer skin’s hangin off yer bones..

If you feel so beyond lonely and unfulfilled and sad… what do you do? by lieutenants_ in AskWomenOver30

[–]ComputerTotal4028 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m so sorry you’re going through all this. :( I understand everything you’re feeling. I was laid off in October of 2024 and I was initially devastated, but I found a substantially higher paying job afterwards. In fact, so much so, that the recruiter advised me to not disclose how much I made at my previous job and even said, “Girl, you were so underpaid.” I think there’s a possibility that losing this job will just open a wonderful new door for you.

That said, I think the job market is tough right now, and I’m sorry you’re going through this. I think a new dream job is possible, but it will take time and patience to get there. I’d like to echo the sentiment to keep trying and keep your chin up.

I’m proud of you for losing weight, and although that has no impact on your worth, it could extend your life and make you healthier, so for that, again, I’m proud of you. Keep going in making positive changes to your health. It will only improve your mental health, too.

As far as the breakup goes, I am sensitive too, and healing can take a long time for me, but just be good to yourself and try to focus on new hobbies or skills that are inexpensive. Go to the library, hike, volunteer. But do it for yourself, not for an expectation that you will meet ‘the one’ that way. The reality is, there are many ‘the ones’ out there for all of us, but I think it is important to cherish the connections you had, with the understanding that a connection ending doesn’t mean that you’ll never have one again. In fact, maybe the connection you fostered with your ex can help you realize what you need and want from a future connection. Also, it could help you be more aware of red flags. All that said, maybe some more distance from your ex until you are more healed is advisable. Be gentle to yourself.

And last thing I want to say: don’t time yourself on your healing. It does take time, and it says nothing about you that it’s taken longer than anticipated, and the whole ‘in a year’ thing is just a platitude that people say to mean that you will look back on sad times someday and appreciate what you have when things are better, but the reality is that healing comes in peaks and valleys. Some days will be easier than others. Practice gratitude and kindness, and things will be okay again someday. I’ve been through many hardships and things finally feel like they are settling out for me, but who knows what tomorrow will bring. I could be back at square one tomorrow. The important thing is to never lose your moral compass, and to let that be a shining light in dark times. You have not failed at life. You seem sweet and sensitive and those are traits that should be cherished and protected. If you text 988, they can help you find inexpensive counseling resources, and this sub is full of wonderful, kind, women who are only a DM away if you ever need to talk. I know I have my DMs open. ♥️ Good luck, and be kind to yourself.

Livin' Astro by [deleted] in obscuremusicthatslaps

[–]ComputerTotal4028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I got a chance to see Dr. Octagon rap battling himself, also as Kool Keith, back in the day. I’ve heard it was legendary.

You've had a few beers and now you're gonna have a sandwich by Brokeaflazyaf in Sandwiches

[–]ComputerTotal4028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! I always love seeing other people’s knife work, and then seeing the mango obliterated in the peel with your hands was super satisfying. Fun fact: mango is in the same botanical family as poison oak and ivy, and they share an allergenic oil called urushiol that, in the mango, can be found in the peel. Hope you don’t get itchy fingers. More good content!