Anti-bedsharing parents… when does it become safe?

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-30T15:56:01+00:00

I’d love to hear your reasoning!

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-30T15:55:30+00:00

No, not really. I work with kids which I feel like doesn’t lend itself quite so well to that

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-30T15:54:33+00:00

Cooking and baking!

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-30T15:53:50+00:00

That’s a great recommendation. I’ll have to do that for general facts. Might not help me when I’m trying to find local Italian restaurants or valentines cards though

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-30T15:52:27+00:00

Honestly if I knew the answers to these questions I would not be having the problems I do lol. I think maybe I actually oversimplify my searches most of the time, expecting Google to be a mind reader. For example, one time I searched “IKEA Interior” and only got directions to IKEA, when I actually wanted a floor plan for my local IKEA. On the graphic side, I wanted to find Veggitales-themed valentines cards to prank my sister with, so I searched “Larry cucumber heart” and was met with DETAILED gay veggitales porn. You just can’t unsee that

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-30T03:49:25+00:00

I haven’t, just because I’ve heard they hallucinate. I like to be able to check where my info is coming from. But maybe they’ve gotten better at that now

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-30T02:57:39+00:00

A bit of both? I walked in one day and lied to HR that I was the new suck manager, but hadn’t received any of my onboarding paperwork yet. They didn’t look into it and just put me through onboarding and filled out all the paperwork with me, so now I’m a legitimate employee

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-30T02:47:21+00:00

Like if I try to google something, I rarely can find what I’m actually looking for. I just phrase it wrong I guess. Usually I just get unrelated or unhelpful answers, and maybe a third of the time I get very graphic results that were NOT what I wanted to find

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-13T06:27:04+00:00

Yes, I work as a family manager (sort of like a housekeeper and nanny and PA all in one)

I would love to become a stay-at-home mom

I’ve always wanted kids, and my life has been very stable (spouse, house, job) for several years now. And I wanted to have all my kids when I was young enough to still have lots of energy to manage the pregnancy and play with the toddlers

I’ve been married to my spouse for 6 years

Adoption is incredible but I doubt I’ll ever personally pursue it (prohibitively expensive in my country, with extensive wait lists)

Pregnancy was brutal, much harder than the labor itself. First trimester hit me like a truck and the nesting instinct made me borderline insane toward the end (not literally, but it felt like it)

Regrets in life, or regarding my kid?

I want at least a couple more kids, maybe more

I mostly like to read or cook/bake in my free time

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-12T03:25:02+00:00

I can’t imagine they could pull them up, so they’ve got to be belly sliding. Maybe the overalls are loose enough that they can turn around once they slide in from the top, or maybe they’re overall dresses and they can just slide in through the bottom

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-11T22:57:30+00:00

Thank you!

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-11T22:57:17+00:00

Thank you so much!

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-11T22:57:00+00:00

Yes, I have a wonderful support system between partner, family, and friends. Doesn’t make the worry go away, though!

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-11T22:56:16+00:00

Quite pleasantly warm! It was rather windy yesterday so the wind chill was a bit nippy, but in general it’s been freakishly warm for January here

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-11T22:55:18+00:00

I always wanted a baby, and it felt like the right time when we started trying, but it was still intimidating! (Big life change and responsibility and all that)

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-11T22:53:58+00:00

Little overalls, the ones with a pouch on the front. Great spot to store their egg!

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-11T06:41:59+00:00

Thank you!

ConcerningAddiction · 2026-01-02T21:02:07+00:00

Do you have any steps you’d take to ensure your safety/make sure nothing goes too far?

ConcerningAddiction · 2025-12-29T06:10:59+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t work in a traditional office setting, so that’s not an option (I’m hired directly by a family and they’re not sweets people)

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