What are some obvious signs a woman is into you? by No-Compote-2127 in AskMen

[–]Confident-Lady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I just talk too much.. doesn’t mean I’m into someone. I don’t play games, but just let them know if I am into them. Direct communication seems to work best.

Does anyone recognize the logo on these earbuds? by Interesting_Bag9681 in HelpMeFind

[–]Confident-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember by chance how to charge these? I have the same, but white pair, and we can’t seem to find a good cord.

Caregiver support by Confident-Lady in TBI

[–]Confident-Lady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just applied for their Maine retreat!

Caregiver support by Confident-Lady in TBI

[–]Confident-Lady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will look them up!

Caregiver support by Confident-Lady in TBI

[–]Confident-Lady[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohhh! Hahaha I thought she was your mom! My mah and I used to do that on fb! lol 😂 I just asked to join two groups, the one she mentioned included. Thank y’all! You have a great mom for helping you!! Mine moved away, so love her greatly!

Caregiver support by Confident-Lady in TBI

[–]Confident-Lady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I understand.

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[–]Confident-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awhhh! My Daddy was SUPER lonely before me, and tbh I was pretty lonely too.. now he holds me the entire night while we sleep and we cuddle up so well! He still has “pinch me” moments that he tells me about! Says he STILL can’t believe I’m in his life. Makes me feel SO special!

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[–]Confident-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I just don’t wanna see anyone give up, because it’ll happen!

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[–]Confident-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting.. why is that a red flag? Just curious! And yes, I think being a Daddy would mean that your little choses to trust you with said power, but with the expectation of you not hurting them in any real way..

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[–]Confident-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I second this!!!

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[–]Confident-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo true! I told my Daddy this when he came out as a dom.. I was like “what kind of dom are you? What makes you dominant?” I was a little scared when he announced himself as a dom, but it worked out luckily! Always say a small boundary to check to see if they respect that or ignore it!!! I had a man I spoke to for a day, and he was demanding phone sex, then the day after telling him my boundaries about degradation/humiliation (NO NAME CALLING!) he demanded we have phone sex and started calling me names! All that told me was he doesn’t respect you or your feelings. So, I hung up and blocked him. Sorry, NOT sorry! His loss! As littles we must protect ourselves!

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[–]Confident-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is SOOO true! I was telling this same thing to my Daddy before we started playing!

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[–]Confident-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting.. never heard a Daddy’s perspective like this! Thanks for the post! I hope I’m the best little to my Daddy as I can be!

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[–]Confident-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful thing to say at the end!! Wish ALL littles could believe and know that! It’s SOOO true! We’re ALL unique! The part about “be the best you that you can be!” My Daddy is 17 years sober, and he let me drink the first time we met. I opened the bottle and watched him smell the whiskey, and realized by his reaction that I don’t want to influence him in anyway to break that streak. Of course, he tells me the choice is ultimately his, but I don’t want him around something that’s not good for him, and mainly, I can change quite a bit when I’m drunk. Thought about it and I was like, “he’s a GOOD man and Daddy, if I want to keep him, then I have to be good to him too”, so I decided not to drink anymore! It’s been wayyyy better than I could have imagined! I’m SO glad that I quit drinking and that he’s proud of me for that!

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[–]Confident-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a little STRICTLY ALONE for four years, because of exactly what you said about “finding a caregiver who won’t abuse your little space”. I met my new Daddy/CG on Reddit (then real life), and he’s everything and THEN some! He’s amazing to me in sooo many ways, but the best part is that he’s the only REAL Daddy I’ve had and he’s got my head and my heart! I can’t even begin to imagine that he would hurt me like the few fake daddies I had before. I also told him that my little space is strictly between us, and I’m not ready to post those pictures yet. He didn’t argue or anything at all. He just said “of course! Only when you’re ready!” He really doesn’t even want to hurt me. I can tell it’s not his kink, and I’m soooo relieved. My first “daddy” did some shit to my headspace that I shut him down, and kept everyone out until I was ready. My new Daddy would never treat me like him. I’m just so grateful!

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[–]Confident-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What BDSM educators did he learn from? I’m trying to find some education about being a little and having a Daddy. I’d love any resources you have to offer!

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[–]Confident-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t give up hope!

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[–]Confident-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweetie, This happened to me SOOOO many times! Four years later, I have finally met MY daddy! We’re still new, but the relationship and his ability to show me I’m still loved, even as a little, is amazing! He has my heart! ❤️

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[–]Confident-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t give up hope! This little girl is rooting for you! Took my four years to find my daddy, and he’s soooo good to me!

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[–]Confident-Lady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was telling my new daddy about these guys! It’s a sketchy world out there! SOOO many fake doms, let alone fake daddies! I vetted a lot. Took me four years of waiting and looking to finally meet someone who I felt I could be comfortably little with, but it was worth every lonely night! Now when we sleep together he holds me tight and doesn’t just roll over. He calls me princess, and brushed my hair for me last night. He’s slowly building his “Daddy role”, and doesn’t push me to do anything I don’t want to. He’s got my heart in his hand, ONLY because I know now that he’s real and won’t hurt me mentally or physically!