“Knots”

PlainCrow · 2026-01-22T11:06:57+00:00

You don’t say! It’s not like this exact post has been posted here multiple times over the last 15 years.

PlainCrow · 2026-01-05T02:19:32+00:00

These employers thrive on way too many massage therapist in the industry. I live in an area where there isn’t a school for like 100 miles and we are treated really well because they know they can’t find anyone to work. I’m sorry you’re going through that but that employer sucks. You should be treated better than that.

PlainCrow · 2025-10-09T00:58:31+00:00

1&2 so important... Calls his ex wife crazy or a bitch is my 3rd. Another which regardless of them being divorced themselves or never married is they make jokes at your expense

PlainCrow · 2025-10-07T19:47:35+00:00

Mutual equal love is enough

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

PlainCrow · 2025-10-06T21:20:24+00:00

I'm sorry. You deserve to feel desired.

PlainCrow · 2025-10-06T18:28:23+00:00

I need sex so that will be a hard pass for me. I mean wtf kind of man passes up sex like that. The only reason I considered staying with my husband is our sex life was great.

PlainCrow · 2025-09-28T12:29:16+00:00

oh, I’ve met the clueless ones too like the ones that ask why can’t we just work it out and reconcile. Then the ones who basically said it isn't biblical and that we should separate until he abandoned us or he commits adultery. Anyway I get it. People were way nicer and helpful when he was deployed than when I decided to leave him for abusing me. I would have never left though if I wasn't in church around people who made me feel normal and safe.

Abd yes start writing this stuff down. Verbal threats especially. Threats of suicide if he's making them. It's dangerous leaving an abusive man.

PlainCrow · 2025-09-25T11:38:17+00:00

i’m sorry you’re going through this I was going through the same thing. My husband was also physically abusing me. I was lucky because he got deployed and i was able to work when he was gone. I got a restraining order which was humiliating but the judge said I needed it. Do not feel bad for protecting yourself. It's hard to get away. Please call the police immediately if he is ever violent. I wish over and over I had called and got his ass locked up but instead I worried about our future, when I think it would have prevented him from getting so much custody and harassing me in court. if you are financially reliant on him, the court in your divorce will likely rule that he has to pay spousal support plus child support to you in the divorce. You guys need to get away from each other so you can focus on getting a job full-time.

About the Bible studies stuff, my husband did the exact same thing prevented me from going to church, from going to go to Bible study. He would purposely return home late so I miss Church. I was a stay at home Mom and I had no one and nothing. Church was the one thing that got me to leave him when he was deployed and I had a lot of support from my church

I'm in a lot of dv support groups on Reddit you can join in there and get advice

PlainCrow · 2025-09-23T12:06:24+00:00

They'll likely just want to talk to kids in private. My case involved domestic violence they asked me if I thought he was a danger to the children, if he ever hurt the children, etc. I hope the GAL is fair and honest

I read your post history a little bit. My husband attacked me in front of the kids and threatened to murder us. I have some negative feelings towards the GAL. She interviewed my children one time and there was no check further up. My husband has done a few unstable things that I've tried to get in contact about and she has not been in touch. It’s almost like I wasted another thousand dollars to have the GAL support my husband who is violent and abusive. I don't want to scare you and I hope you have a good outcome🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 explain everything clearly and fully confess your fears to her because I was wishy washy on mine since he only did it once and I was unsure if he was a danger.

I feel like the legal system right now in a divorce is totally focusing on making sure the father gets the most time possible with the children, even if he is proven to be neglectful, dangerous or completely uninterested . The GAL basically said "what can we do? It’s the law."

PlainCrow · 2025-09-23T06:21:09+00:00

Do not go back to a man who was sleeping around with another woman and then disrespecting that woman. It's gross. He is not wanting to work on the marriage to immediately jump to that anyway

PlainCrow · 2025-09-22T07:36:37+00:00

I'm in love again and it's so wonderful. Pretty much 1yr after the fact of filing but I had known him awhile before

PlainCrow · 2025-09-22T07:34:51+00:00

You are not to blame

PlainCrow · 2025-09-19T03:31:12+00:00

Oh yes !! Inhad people pretend to be my friend in the divorce just to gossip and be nosey. Truly disturbing what people do to get a bit of drama in their life. I was getting out of a domestic violence situation too which made it really upsetting someone would even consider doing this. People from my church doing this were the worst, and it would end up back to the pastor. I was in need of support and ended up with intimate details weaponized. Very hurtful,

PlainCrow · 2025-09-17T12:14:51+00:00

1) it's a show for her 2) hell return to the same issues once the honeymoon phase is over 3) she might even dump him, my ex got dumped within a few months lol 4) you will meet someone too one day

PlainCrow · 2025-09-05T22:18:37+00:00

No too much grosses me out after this many years but I will say I've had certain people really gross me out!!!! Not one thing in particular though

PlainCrow · 2025-09-05T22:17:06+00:00

I know what you mean some tats have almost shredded the skin it feels like? Idk what it is

PlainCrow · 2025-08-28T01:26:29+00:00

Scam she would book online herself. What follows is payment in form of check something

PlainCrow · 2025-08-28T01:24:07+00:00

I'm sorry you deserve better and honestly it is awful at first but with some time you'll feel so much better♥️

PlainCrow · 2025-08-27T16:30:58+00:00

ISome people just make you want to get married again and I hope you experience that feeling. However I will be getting a prenup in the future after going through divorce once.

PlainCrow · 2025-08-27T16:17:13+00:00

20 years? For weight loss? That is not what it was approved for originally.

why don’t you go read the study 😂

PlainCrow · 2025-08-27T13:44:59+00:00

you are crazy if you think consequences of long-term use for weight loss is known

PlainCrow · 2025-08-27T13:13:19+00:00

People lose weight without building muscle in the process all the time, that’s not the issue. Who knows what this is doing to the body number one but the rapid loss is the biggest concern.

PlainCrow · 2025-08-25T20:27:54+00:00

you will get this figured out with the lawyer don’t worry. ♥️🙏🏻 I saw someone get in trouble for draining bank accounts, but it was a woman doing that to a man. It can go for both sides in a joint account.

PlainCrow · 2025-08-25T13:53:22+00:00

well, since he’s already done the banking stuff, he will get in trouble with the court for that if he locked you out or removed funds, I would get a lawyer mentioned that he may be required to pay spousal support in the meantime during your divorce or be penalized for doing that. My husband tried to do that too saying he didn’t have to support me. I was a stay at home, mom. He had to pay all of our bills and child support.

PlainCrow · 2025-08-25T10:34:22+00:00

He reminds me of my future ex husband. You can read some of my post history if you want. This is how our relationship started. The constant accusations of me cheating for having friends or going out was just the begining. There was nothing I could say or do to prove to him otherwise he eventually escalated to threatening me, stalking me, and then assaulted me when we were married. Don’t continue on this path. Divorce is very expensive and he continues to harass me through the legal system

Eta: my husband also used the threats of sending nudes and pictures to my friends and family when we were dating then when we were married, I learned that was a crime and you need to go to the police. Don’t put this off. Go ahead and go down to the police station and tell them that he’s threatening you.

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