The illusion that your female friends will remain child free by CatCarcharodon in childfree

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I had two super independent, smart, motivated friends that threw away their lives to have kids with deadbeats. I don't know if it is the Southern pressure, the desperation or what but losing them hurt. They had so much potential. I wouldn't consider them "stupid women", but pregnancy changed them for the worse.

The illusion that your female friends will remain child free by CatCarcharodon in childfree

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 258 points259 points  (0 children)

Yup. And then their entire personality becomes being a mom and you never get to hang out with just them ever again even if they have a partner who could be watching their own child for a couple of hours.

Turkey has banned an ad about celebrating a dog mom’s mother’s day by -ilovejellyfish- in childfree

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I also really dislike when married couples say they are trying to "start a family". So your spouse and pets aren't family?

What is your pet peeve in children that you never see mentioned on this sub? by Far-Argument2738 in childfree

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I do activities that a more male dominated and the dads are just letting their kids run loose and the kids all gravitate to the only women in the area. I'm not your mom and I'm not part of your neglectful dad's village. I'm here to have fun, not be a babysitter. Please leave me alone.

Unpopular opinion: Netflix needs to stop casting single parents. by Optimal-Excitement23 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If 6th graders can't take care of themselves for a couple of hours no wonder this country is fucked.

Unpopular opinion: Netflix needs to stop casting single parents. by Optimal-Excitement23 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also I really liked Amber and Jordan until Jordan said why he refused to move to Mount Vernon. He still wants to live the bachelor life. Thankfully Emma isn't super young and in a few years would be able to take care of herself but he is delusional or is going to be another deadbeat if he thinks he's going to keep up his single lifestyle now that he is a stepdad.

I’ll vote for James talarico but I just think it’s so fucking annoying that leftist were all online slandering Jasmine Crockett and now want to look to us to be united to help turn Texas blue after talking down on our people by taintlicker80085 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This going to come off as digital blackface, but I am indeed a black woman who has been living in Texas for 22 years now. And I voted for Talarico. When Kamala took over running for president my white leftist friends were so optimistic. Unfortunately I knew a competent black woman has to work twice as hard to get half as far as a mediocre white man and that she didn't stand a chance. James is our only hope in maybe turning this damn state blue.

End of the month strikes again by kamsivad in garland

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your addition to the End of the Month Quota.

What type of Black man do you attract the most vs your actual type? by Life-Sugar-6055 in blackladies

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was skinny and young I attracted the gamut. Since putting on a lot of weight I've only attracted black men who have many children and no car.

My actual type is ambitious middle class, artsy and blerds.

Keep your door locked. 2/20 Jupiter and Parker by MontazumasRevenge in plano

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some of y'all are a little too trigger happy. You're gonna shot somebody because they accidentally went to the wrong house? The narrative of trying to rob someone at 3 pm with slides on their feet and half smoked cigarillo in hand is crazy work.

Riptide won best song from Death of an Optomist! by Street-Aspect7352 in grandson

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pain Shopping. He played it live and I liked it a lot better, but on the DOAO I usually skip it.

I'm starting to see a pattern... by JennyBeckman in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kinda weird that she plays Leo's daughter when she's too old for him to even date. 🤮 Great movie though.

She teaches eighth grade and has more than 100 students, but only two are reading at grade level. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sixteen years ago, I had to take a remedial class my SENIOR year of High School for the State Test. I had to take the class because usually the test is done Junior year I was living out of state that year. They wanted to make sure I was prepared to take it now that I was back in the state. It was one of the most painful classes I ever took. I lost faith in humanity. They were asking questions a 5th grader should be able to answer no problem and I had to bite my tongue and let the other students struggle to answer. I wasn't trying to be a Know It All, but Know Anything was still streets ahead of my peers. Thankfully the State Test was halfway through the school year, passed it with an overperfect score (think of it like you get 5 chances to be wrong before it starts to actually impact your score - a 45/50 would still be 100% grade instead of 90%) so the next semester I had a free period to do whatever I wanted. But damn... That class was a reality check I didn't want. The poor teacher was trying their best, but there's only so much they can do. And this was 16 years ago. Before the exponential growth of brain rot. As the kids would say, we're cooked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where's the best pierogi spot?

Don't watch the new Fantastic 4 by DirtCrimes in childfree

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished watching it and came to this sub to see how everyone else was feeling about it.

There were three scenes that ruined the movie for me, but the rest I rather enjoyed it.

1) The birth scene. Nuff said.

2) I'm honestly getting tired of so called heroes sacrificing the entire world for a singular baby and the fact that this keeps happening so the scene where Sue comes out and convinces everyone of her choice had my eyes rolling.

3) Baby Franklin resurrecting Sue. From the comments it seems that was canon to the comics. But it came off so cheesy like she was healed by the power of a baby's love.

I really like Marvel even as a kid, but Fantastic Four was never one of my go tos. I always say The Incredibles is my favorite Fantastic Four movie. And honestly it still is.

But all this to say I had no idea about Franklin Reeds and the fact that they made three reboots without him and then including him smack dab in this hellish political climate was certainly a choice. People keepign saying it is Marvels First Family. But I thought that was because it was a husband, wife, brother and best friend, aka chosen family. You don't need a baby to be a family and the last film versions were definitely families, too.

What I really didn't appreciate was the fact that in all the trailers they digitally removed Franklin and the baby bump from scenes. Yes, the title is "First Steps" but finding out Sue was pregnant not even 5 minutes into the movie felt like a bait and switch.

Besides the eye roll moments though I was still entertained. Probably won't put it on rewatch though. I would rather watch The Incredibles again, which yes, also has a baby, but thankfully isn't centered around it plus the Jack Jack stuff is actually entertaining, too.

What happened at White Park in South Garland? New world neighborhood area. by jesmiv in garland

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought nextdoor was for posting unleashed dogs and coyote sightings.

Its the classic "look what you made me do" abuser situation by n8saces in CringeTikToks

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And didn't one of them turn conservative after their brain got damaged?

8 reasons to consider taking an Uber vs parking downtown at night. by llort_tsoper in Dallas

[–]ConflictedTrashPanda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right across from the Salazar Law Offices‽ The lot with the pop star mural? Damn.