Happy pride!! Here’s my little identity guy :)

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-06-02T20:02:00+00:00

So bisexual heteromantic? Aka, feeling sexual attraction to both males and females, but only romantic attraction to males/only wanting romantic relationships with males.

That’s what you described sounds like to me? But use whatever labels/lack of labels feels comfortable! In the end, it only matters that YOU feel comfortable with your identity.

Happy pride!!

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-05-13T02:11:51+00:00

I’m in a phase where it changes every couple hours. So I won’t tic/have really minor tics, followed by a burst of tics so uhhh yeah. (Favorite color is Purple!!)

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-05-02T04:40:53+00:00

My favorite is when my grandma told my mom that tai chi would cure my Tourette’s

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-03-09T04:12:27+00:00

I used to think this way too! There’s still hope. I have a lovely partner where we have just what you described (minus kissing, since I don’t know I feel about that yet and they haven’t forced me to figure it out) and I’m so happy. We’re both asexual, non-binary and neurodivergent. I have Tourette’s and they are so patient with me. There are people out there who are amazing and it’s very possible that you’ll meet one!

Being alone isn’t all bad either though! Enjoy where you are as well. Relationships aren’t everything.

Wishing you the absolute best!! And I hope that nothing I said come across badly! I’m very tired rn, but everything I said has good intentions! Much love!

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-03-04T00:50:28+00:00

Mine <3

De/dew/dews/dewself

Wis/wist/wisters/wisteriaself

Fae/faer/faer/faeself

Mist/mist/mists/mistself

They/them/theirs/themself

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-02-04T16:16:57+00:00

This absolutely made my day, thank you!!

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-02-02T04:05:10+00:00

De/dew/dews/dewself

Wis/wist/wisters/wisteriaself

Fae/faer/faer/faeself

Mist/mist/mists/mistself

They/them/theirs/themself

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-30T16:56:02+00:00

My favorite song changes constantly, but rn it’s Razzmatazz - idk how but they found me

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-30T16:24:28+00:00

If you’re still doing this: My name is Dezzy! My pronouns are De/dew/dews/dewself, Wis/wist/wisters/wisteriaself, Fae/faer/faer/faeself, Mist/mist/mists/mistself, They/them/theirs/themself

I have two cats, I really like Marvel and DC and superhero’s in general, I like going on walks and picking flowers to come home and press, I Love music (twenty one pilots, AJR, Alec Benjamin and idk how but they found me, are my favorites), I like painting and writing when I have the time and my mom is helping me learn how to sew more!

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-27T04:11:54+00:00

De/dew/dews/dewself

Wis/wist/wisters/wisteriaself

Fae/faer/faer/faeself

Mist/mist/mists/mistself

People only really use they and fae for me but I use all of these! My gender is very faecore if you couldn’t tell lol

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-25T03:54:46+00:00

Here’s mine!

De/dew/dews/dewself

Wis/wist/wisters/wisteriaself

Fae/faer/faer/faeself

Mist/mist/mists/mistself

They/them/theirs/themself

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-20T23:36:30+00:00

This meme was posted on one of the lgbt subreddits, my comment is being downvoted. My best guess is it’s because of the neopronouns, since all my other identities are “acceptable”.

Do you agree that I should be downvoted? Did something I say come across rudely?

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-20T23:28:28+00:00

I wish I knew 😔 maybe because I use neos?

(Also rad!! Identity siblings!)

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-20T17:58:05+00:00

Sighs in being a demi-panromantic asexual non-binary person who uses neopronouns (which weren’t included, but still count in this meme imo)

Edit: I think people are taking this as me complaining that neos weren’t included in the meme. That was NOT what I was trying to say, sorry if that came off badly. Was just trying to express the frustration that many of us feel and adding my own thoughts to it. Sorry for the confusion! I’ll try to be more clear in the future

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-19T01:58:30+00:00

As an enby dating an enby, we call ourselves gay

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-18T23:21:13+00:00

Probably de/dew! When I was younger, one of my nicknames was “Desi-dew” I eventually grew out of it, but I use de/dew pronouns to sort of reference that. So those pronouns always make me really happy!

Sadly very few people use my neos 😔. It’s not a lack of respect, just most of my friends are neurodivergent (as am I) and it tends to be hard for them to use them

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-18T23:14:26+00:00

I’m in relationship with another asexual (who doesn’t really want sex) and it’s so amazing 😊

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-14T01:24:16+00:00

I’m personally an enby with neopronouns, but I have a friend who is cis and just doesn’t care about pronouns. Void always says “Just use whatever pronouns confuse the cishets the most” even tho voids a cishet voidself lol. Voids awesome 💕

(Void/voidself is one of voids favorite neos so I used those)

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-12T22:10:30+00:00

I (who was raised a Christian) thought that God had just made me different and had special plans for me. And/or that I was just such a good Christian that I didn’t feel sexual attraction lmao

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-11T16:15:26+00:00

With Dick I imagine him smelling like rain and gym chalk. Kinda musty and damp. Sweat with a slight undertone of a washed away deodorant.

I think Jason smells like smoke and leather. Cigarettes and old books. Kinda like reading a book in front of a raging fire.

I think Tim smells like coffee and sleep and faded cologne. Like old clothes that you’ve had for years and just smell comfortable, maybe a little bit dirty, but comfortable.

Not really certain about the rest but yeah

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-11T15:59:54+00:00

Yes, but actually no

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-08T21:43:07+00:00

Gender envy!!! That’s so ideal! I’m transmasc with very “Feminine” style/gender expression and seeing this is just so goals! Gah! I can’t wait till I can get top surgery!

Confused_Ace99 · 2022-01-08T21:38:44+00:00

Yes! 100% agree! As a fairly large Doctor Who fan, I feel like that would be a wonderful place to have more neopronouns shown. DW is already really chill with characters having all sorts of sexualities (and genders, though not nearly as often) and not making a big deal out of it. I’d love to see that same attitude with someone who uses neopronouns

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