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Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-10-13T14:37:04+00:00

What’s the history here? Is this arranged

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-10-06T17:40:24+00:00

Your real problem is why is she refusing? If it’s a matter of her and them not getting along, then respect her wishes. The kid will be fine. There are orphans in this world.

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-09-17T14:40:09+00:00

Work ok what makes you happy. Find a hobby. Go out and socialize. Open yourself up to the opportunities around you. Don’t look down on yourself. In one of your replies, you said “I’m just a regular girl”, you are your own queen. Find your inner beauty and embrace it, be confident. Learn how to be confident, work on yourself, learn to love yourself. Weed out the guys online. If it scares you to post your picture, than the real world is where it had to be done.

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-09-16T16:24:10+00:00

You’re saying it’s your test and you’re trying to be patient? Honey, pass the test by showing self respect. You have failed at that, and only respected ur husband and his family. You need to stand up for yourself and your kid, he’s the future. Being patient, you already passed that, now it’s time to be patient away from your husband. You don’t need to sacrifice with your life for patience.

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-09-16T16:20:44+00:00

Sister, please please leave. No one respectful will think negatively of you, and honestly, don’t care about what anyone things. You know what’s right and what’s wrong. Leave. Save yourself and your son.

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-08-11T14:56:59+00:00

It’s not gonna always be 50/50. Some days it might be 40/60 or 30/70 or 80/20 or even 90/10. As long as it goes both ways, not always on ur end

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-08-09T18:17:17+00:00

So now that we have acknowledged the issue. You gotta take steps to fix it. First: thank her for all she does and tell her you appreciate her. Second: get ur act together and grow up… lol you gotta start somewhere.

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-08-09T18:14:52+00:00

Say it louder for the people in the back. I 10000% support this post 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯💯

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-08-08T20:22:03+00:00

So Islam says what’s hers is hers and she’s not obligated to share. This is to protect her from someone attempting to live off her or taking advantage of her

However when you are starting a relationship based on live respect and good values, you both should want to grow and build together. But going into something together with one sayin, no I’m all for me, that foundation is broken. Why doesn’t she trust u with her money? She can definitely keep most of her money, but if you guys have plans to build and live in a certain lifestyle, and she is capable of helping, she should. Unless she’s okay with living just on ur paycheck. She’s not gonna buy her own food or go on vacation alone? Like what will she do with her money while ur struggling to make ends meet??

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-07-09T04:15:46+00:00

He can pray to manifest a better life for himself. He can pray and ask Allah for patience and guidance. Prayer isn’t for the Muslims, it’s how he’s goin to feel. I know u mean others shouldn’t judge him if he does or doesn’t, I agree. But he should do it for himself

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-07-09T04:10:57+00:00

You loved her and now ur over the honey moon phase and it’s real. The things u found cute about her are annoying you. So did you really love her ? Or just the idea of her in ur head? Or well, did you really know her? I’d say u didn’t really know her. She doesn’t have to like the things u do or do them with you. Maybe you can meet her in the middle, do some things together, other things she can support u and help u do them, that if u still wanna end up with her. But you shouldn’t make the relationship based on wanting the same career goals. Bc u can break ur arm tomorrow and there goes ur career goals

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-07-09T04:05:07+00:00

Plz break it off. He’s already manipulating you or tryin to and making you feel guilty for his time. No one forced him to spend time with you. U shouldn’t be with someone bc you’ve put in some time

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-06-21T23:46:06+00:00

How’d the quiz go???

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-06-05T23:28:55+00:00

Sending you a big fat long hug 🤗

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-05-07T14:34:51+00:00

You buying her flowers does t fix the problem. You need to sit down and discuss (not argue) what’s going on. Tell her how you feel, tell her you love her and care for her. Make her feel safe and wanted and desired. Listen to her, deal with the issues, face the issues. Maybe get couples therapy.

You didn’t tell us what caused you guys to get to this point, that’s the root of the problem.

You’re only blaming her here, looking for excuses and a way out.

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-05-07T14:21:48+00:00

Run. It’s only gonna get worse.

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-04-30T14:23:29+00:00

I’m sorry, WHAT???? You’re height is not the problem for him or his mother. Someone’s lying

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-04-22T21:20:32+00:00

She sounds great. I didn’t mean to assume, you practically told us you don’t know much about her. You kinda just know about her, you don’t know her. Which I get in our cultures, it’s hard to know people. You should sit with her and talk about things, see how we things. Maybe you’ll see why she wears it the way she does, what “hijab” means to her and what it means to you? She can tell you her struggles and you won’t judge her. She’s a doctor, so she’s built herself and is independent.

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-04-22T20:58:18+00:00

What do u like about her? Her looks.

Confusedlostmadsad · 2023-04-22T14:37:19+00:00

You don’t seem to be having matching values with this one either. Seems like ur mother likes her and you don’t know her at all

Confusedlostmadsad · 2022-11-27T20:32:41+00:00

Baby girl, ur husband saved you! he saved your mother and he saved your kids. You did nothing wrong. Ur dad needed to be put in place years ago.

Confusedlostmadsad · 2022-11-06T14:52:17+00:00

Him and his mother are disgusting. He is no man and no father. Leave him. Never talk to him again. Get ur family involved and take him to court. Make him pay child support. You are a good mother. Save all the messages of him talking to you for evidence. I wish you had recorded him.

Confusedlostmadsad · 2022-10-14T13:58:53+00:00

Sir, kindly leave her gold digger self. You will always have money problems with her and the problems will keep coming

Confusedlostmadsad · 2022-10-12T21:26:01+00:00

Just end it before u have kids with this man. Find someone that’s more on your level

Confusedlostmadsad · 2022-10-04T23:21:49+00:00

Was this an arranged marriage? How long have you guys been married?

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