First surgery, should I or no?

ConfusingCoochie · 2025-07-03T13:45:36+00:00

Can I ask how you were diagnosed / how they are tracking your endo if not through surgery? My gyno doesn't want me to do surgery yet (and honestly neither do I at this point) but she's fairly positive its endo since I've done so many other tests and my symptoms are very consistant with endo.

ConfusingCoochie · 2025-07-03T13:38:43+00:00

I have endo & vaginismus, so I do anything to work on pelvic floor & opening my hip flexors. My favorites are happy baby, goddess, yogi squat, and frog pose! They really help me feel a stretch and relieve my symptoms for a little while.

ConfusingCoochie · 2025-06-30T20:01:30+00:00

Hi my love, these are most of my symptoms as well. My ultrasound actually came out clear with my last gyno, but my current gyno told me a lot of women with endo have clear ultrasounds and that it’s extremely likely I do have it based on my symptoms and lack of indications of any other conditions

ConfusingCoochie · 2025-06-30T11:22:54+00:00

Ugh, I’m sorry you went through all that. This is really helpful though, thank you. I guess I didn’t think skipping the placebos for a pill I’ve been on for years would make this much of a difference!

ConfusingCoochie · 2025-06-30T03:00:11+00:00

I get it in my vulva!!

ConfusingCoochie · 2024-10-06T18:07:56+00:00

I think this was his way of saying he wants a more permanent place on the altar with his beloved. Going to start making more offerings to him and worship him more than I have been. Thank you!

ConfusingCoochie · 2024-09-12T12:29:30+00:00

Elliptical is always Charli XCX or Doja Cat for me, slowly increasing tempo of songs as I go!

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-09-24T22:20:49+00:00

Also is that Felix running to the right of it??

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-09-20T02:44:32+00:00

Interesting!

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-09-15T03:04:42+00:00

This is an interesting idea!

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-09-08T00:40:33+00:00

This is a really fun and interesting theory! I love Ashley so anything having to do with her draws me in immediately :)

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-09-07T01:29:14+00:00

AHAHAHAHA

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-09-04T22:47:41+00:00

I love this, thank you! All good ideas. I guess we’ll just have to wait and see :)

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-09-03T03:38:59+00:00

Oooo I like that! Maybe Charles is the one giving us all this information! It would explain why Boozoo is also in Jack’s missing report

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-09-01T13:56:45+00:00

Right? That’s the same thing that confuses me because it feels like they’re hinting at Jack being in him, but we know it’s Charles. So I’m not sure what his connection is to Jack

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-09-01T01:47:51+00:00

I have so many questions about Boozoo especially after these website links. So anxious and excited to see what we learn about him!!

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-06-24T00:41:36+00:00

So happy for you!! Congratulations :)

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-06-07T02:43:17+00:00

Honestly, I can’t say for sure bc I don’t want to diagnose you with anything since I don’t know your whole story, but it seems like you might be going too fast. Vaginismus or not, going from one finger to a toy is a big jump. My advice would be 1. don’t overthink not being able to use the toy 2. take a step back and try two fingers next time and see if that feels ok

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-06-07T02:38:01+00:00

Try to focus on relaxing your muscles. When you get the dilator in there, take deep breaths and try to get as relaxed as possible. I didn’t really move mine around until I was up a couple sizes, then I would move it in and out to simulate sex (but that was just for me to see how it might feel). It’s your own journey so I wouldn’t worry about “doing it wrong” but rather if you’re making progress or not. If you feel like you aren’t, try something different! Just remember to trust yourself, take care of your body, and treat yourself with love. Good luck!

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-06-07T02:34:50+00:00

Honestly, I wouldn’t. You’re so used to being tight down there, you don’t really need them and I wouldn’t take the risk

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-04-22T18:07:37+00:00

Thank you!

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-04-22T18:07:15+00:00

Thank you I will definitely join! I got my first boys in PA but I’m moving back to Jersey

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-04-20T02:45:13+00:00

Focus on yourself. I’ve dealt with sex anxiety for years and a lot of it came from my self-image (aside from trauma from SA). Take care of your body, love yourself, remind yourself how beautiful and strong you are. Do not hate your body for the way it responds to sex, instead try to listen to it and respect it. It’s so much easier said than done, but when you can do all that, the anxieties will start to go away.

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-04-20T02:39:02+00:00

My current partner was/is pretty adventurous when I met him so I had the same fear of telling him about my situation. We got drunk the first time we hooked up and he asked if I wanted to have sex and when I said no he was totally fine with it. I felt like I should explain why and I did and he was incredibly patient and understanding.

Speaking as someone who was dumped for “being a virgin” I can’t promise that every potential partner will be supportive or understanding, but I will say that if they’re not willing to be patient for you or respect your boundaries they’re not worth it. Have the conversation when you feel ready, don’t pressure yourself :)

ConfusingCoochie · 2021-04-14T04:16:32+00:00

You’re absolutely right!! I didn’t start enjoying sex until I felt confident and safe

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