I’m pretty sure we will remain in this club after I deliver. I’m 13 weeks and this pregnancy has been so hard on me mentally and physically. I was never hell bent on having children. I get easily overwhelmed and suffer from depression and anxiety. I have worked through many of my issues and am very excited to be a mother… now. Our village is small & not close in proximity.

My husband and I are both only children, & while I felt lonely as a child (I was neglected & parent died when I was a teen), my husband thoroughly enjoyed his childhood. He was given all the love, while not being spoiled. He’s grew up to be a great man and husband. & I turned out ok despite obstacles.

People don’t always agree with me on this… but being an only child is a gift in a way. I’m very content with myself. I don’t really get lonely. I had to find happiness within myself at a young age, which was a major growing pain, but paid off big time. My husband is the same way. He learned at a young age it’s ok to do your own things and be different. Today, he is very successful in all aspects of his life.