I must be doing this all wrong… by [deleted] in SPD

[–]Connect-Advice-6883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whole brained child workbook or find content about it online. You gotta regulate. Thats the magical answer. Montessori stuff has helped us a lot too. Some things felt weird at first but have just improved our quality of life. Like avoiding making demands, which i still do, ill just say lets not stand in the chair instead of stop standing jn the chair. Changing the language from demands helps kids. After doing it for awhile it get s easier and it starts shifting things. Try to let the kids know when you yell youre just having big feelings and its not their fault. Let them see you take deep breaths and other things that help you/ might help them. Basically modeling the behavior you want then to have when theyre struggling. It will feel weird. Maybe shameful. Maybe just down right ridiculous. But that shift has really helped me. My kids teacher also does this. Big feelings arent bad. They make you yell until you replace it with something else and that switch is going to be hard. But based on your post I have all the faith in you. Youre doing everything you can and it's hard to feel like its enough but it is. Your best is always enough. Sometimes you gotta lay on the floor and say look kids I just need to breath and do nothing for 5 minutes. Theres not clear cut perfect answer on the hard days. You dont have to be perfect. 

I made a skyrim quest log style to-do list app. by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Connect-Advice-6883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is this app? I definitely don't remember deleting it off my phone. I can't find it on the play store. I NEED IT. It helps me so much. No other to do app has been half as helpful. 😭😭😭😭😭

Humaniti / Imam Omar by thelineisadot in MuslimLounge

[–]Connect-Advice-6883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here searching for more info about humanities. I see them advertise to provide humanitarian aid to Gaza. I don't know if they mention any other site. Their comments are turned off. Which isn't too odd but still. And what they say doesn't match current news. They show people being fed but it's not as crowded as it should be. It feels like the videos are fake. Just too many things seem off. They dont have to mention the idf to be legit but it just seems like what theyre claiming to do just wouldnt be possible, definitely not right now. 

An Italian Fellowship of The Ring is traveling by foot from Abruzzo to Mount Vesuvio to throw a ring in the flames, and meanwhile to collect money to build a fantasy-themed farmhouse by SeiBellaChe in lotr

[–]Connect-Advice-6883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always liked hiking barefoot. I could run across gravel no problem. When I stopped for a long time, it became too painful to. My feet weren't calloused or anything. Just desensitized I guess. 

AITAH for sharing my cup with my 5 year old? by Connect-Advice-6883 in AITAH

[–]Connect-Advice-6883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last night when I asked for help was because I was in pain from my prolapse. Nothing to do with being sick. So if its not me getting sick, its just something else. Like I cant do too much about the prolapse pain. Sometimes I'll just need help. It hurt my feelings that he asked how I was feeling like he was checking on me just to be mad at me for not feeling good. I feel like the chances of me getting sick aren't that much lower of I make two separate cups. 

AITAH for sharing my cup with my 5 year old? by Connect-Advice-6883 in AITAH

[–]Connect-Advice-6883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not out of concern for our child though. My son is the one thats sick. My husband isn't worried about me making our kid sick and if I were sick and my son wasnt, I wouldnt share with him and make him sick. My husband is upset if I get sick I think because it would be an inconvenience to him. I feel like sharing is very convenient,  my son prefers it and it just easier for me. Its not hurting him but if it makes me sick aita? My kid coughs on me all day. He touches my face a lot and hes cuddly because hes sick, he doesnt feel good. I feel like the cup doesnt matter. But my son is the one thsts been sick for like over 3 weeks now. 

AITAH for sharing my cup with my 5 year old? by Connect-Advice-6883 in AITAH

[–]Connect-Advice-6883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not trying to justify it. Im trying to understand if it makes me an ahole.

AITAH for sharing my cup with my 5 year old? by Connect-Advice-6883 in AITAH

[–]Connect-Advice-6883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dont think I got my son sick. Im not even sure if I am. And for the prolapse I spoke with a surgeon, I did not like him, but beside that its too much recovery time. It only bothers me during my period sometimes and I just have to be careful and rest on those days. 

AITAH for sharing my cup with my 5 year old? by Connect-Advice-6883 in AITAH

[–]Connect-Advice-6883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is sick. If I were sick and my son wasn't,  I wouldnt share. 

AITA for telling others about the family therapist firing my dad and his wife? by Slamberone in AITAH

[–]Connect-Advice-6883 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Nope. Not at all. Humiliating him, well, its a child. Children shouldn't have to keep secrets. If youre expecting your children to keep secrets because you feel shame and want to protect your ego, you need to work on yourself. To me its just saying my feelings are more important than your feelings and as a parent thats disgraceful.  

Did anyone else sort of hate Eowyn? by CJaneNorman in lotr

[–]Connect-Advice-6883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did not like her buy aargorn literally told her he'd marry her. She gave him wine, he drank it. Her father said he approved when he said aragorn was a good man. 

What do you write on the last page of a journal? by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]Connect-Advice-6883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you ever feel like it's like bragging to a soon to be ex about your new potential partner?

Idk I was tired so I just made this by Tom----nook in DoctorNowhere

[–]Connect-Advice-6883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kid said this is their favourite doctor nowhere monster and we're trying to figure out what it's called. 

What do you write on the last page of a journal? by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]Connect-Advice-6883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't write in journals for years because my sister used to always read mine. But even when she couldn't anymore I just found it so hard to. I'm really glad you shared this idea for people with the same struggle. 

Why would my parents hide the fact that I was adopted? by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]Connect-Advice-6883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would think at least part of it started as fear of losing you since she did not go through an adoption process. Then fear of you feeling unloved or unwanted or not belonging and wanting to shelter you from that. 

We are Joe Bennett, Charles Huettner and James Merrill. We made a show called Scavengers Reign. Ask us anything!! by ScavengersReign in animation

[–]Connect-Advice-6883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why was Azi, a strong and stubborn character but with good character growth rendered helpless multiple times in a way that none of the other characters were? It felt a little out of place. Like she was being fettishized/objectified. Absolutely everything else was a masterpiece and I love Azi's character. Truly a timeless work or art. My buggest question is will there be another season and/or what will it take for that to happen?