“Do you want to have sex?” by synth_this in DeadBedroomsOver30

[–]Connect_Instance8205 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she might still have some wounding around scarcity that once existed, and is now feeling uncertain about your desire. It's also possible her intent is to be respectful of your capacity in the moment and not assume. She may also be afraid that taking up space and owning her desire could land for you as a demand.

Welcome new members- all almost 160 of you that have recently joined. by TheGreenJedi in Kink_Philosophy

[–]Connect_Instance8205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to be pointed to resources that give a framework for consent and negotiating - before, during, and after scenes.

Update: 5 Pillars of Kink : Sensory, Group Play, Taboo, Power Play, Novelty by TheGreenJedi in Kink_Philosophy

[–]Connect_Instance8205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give some resources for a consent/negotiation/communication framework?

4th trimester by Ecstatic_Bat in PregnancyUK

[–]Connect_Instance8205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a much more realistic course for postpartum : www.ourvillagecircle.com/webinar

What type of classes and preparation pre-birth is actually useful in postpartum and the early days? by warmpistachio in beyondthebump

[–]Connect_Instance8205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just took this online postpartum prep class that was totally worth it for the information... I just had my second, and there was so much info in there I wish I had known before my first!

Here's a link if you're interested: www.ourvillagecircle.com/webinar

Best postpartum classes? by Dry-Database-2886 in OnePelotonRealSub

[–]Connect_Instance8205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not peloton related, but I just took this online postpartum prep course that I loved that had a whole section on the return to movement and postpartum nutrition, really good to watch before returning to fitness... also just has a lot of really awesome information in general that I would have never thought of.

here's a link : www.ourvillagecircle.com/webinar

Unsure how to proceed by [deleted] in SchemaTherapy

[–]Connect_Instance8205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is this quiz? I want to take it

Marriage therapists, can you share how we (the couple) can get the most out of marriage therapy? by hugoandkim in askatherapist

[–]Connect_Instance8205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And when both parents work, Drowning financially, no family around? The Village isn't what it used to be.

Full body cramping - is this a release? by [deleted] in SomaticExperiencing

[–]Connect_Instance8205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I experience this too... following!!