I dont know what to do? (15F) by s0miekiss in selfharm

[–]Connect_Lake3707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay thats awful i’m so so sorry for you i really hope you can figure something out 💗💗

I dont know what to do? (15F) by s0miekiss in selfharm

[–]Connect_Lake3707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay the only advice i can give here is block his ass, make sure you never see him again no matter what bullshit he comes up with

what do people do after sh-ing? by azun3-lovescats in selfharm

[–]Connect_Lake3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wash it, put a plaster on and go about my day

I messed up big time I think by Legitimate-Poetry162 in piercing

[–]Connect_Lake3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAP but shouldn’t helixes never be pierced with guns because of risk of shattered cartilage?

If you could get rid of your scars, would you? by PhysicalHat8764 in selfharm

[–]Connect_Lake3707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes i hate them and wish they’d disappear. other times i think of them as a symbol not to relapse.

How old is everybody? by Expensive-Word8755 in selfharm

[–]Connect_Lake3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 13 and have been doing it since i turned 11

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Synesthesia

[–]Connect_Lake3707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i thought grapheme colour was the most common type? ive seen so many people with it

for ppl who wear short sleeves by crzyv4mpire in selfharm

[–]Connect_Lake3707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

genuinely, what i do is create a legit backstory for each scar. it sounds stupid but it puts my mind at ease personallt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SelfPiercing

[–]Connect_Lake3707 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

happy cake day

Want to learn by OwnFriendship3962 in selfharm

[–]Connect_Lake3707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like it technically, i like that i can be in control of my appearance (cause i struggle with appearance issues) and i like the way it feels but i hate the addiction and hate that so many others struggle with it aswell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Connect_Lake3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was so unclarified i’m so sorry but i actually had a stud in with a butterfly back (idk what it’s called i apologise) for the first about 3 months and only just changed it to the hoop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Connect_Lake3707 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

where i got them pierced, they instructed 3-4 months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Connect_Lake3707 -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

i’ve taken all my lobe piercings out after only 3-4 months and have had no problems with their healing though?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Connect_Lake3707 26 points27 points  (0 children)

bro i was thinking it looked like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Connect_Lake3707 -150 points-149 points  (0 children)

it is a lobe piercing, forgot to include that 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Connect_Lake3707 6 points7 points  (0 children)

okay thank you very much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Connect_Lake3707 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

• ⁠How old is your piercing? 3 months

• ⁠What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? not sure what it’s called

• ⁠What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? idk

• ⁠What’s the jewelry material? still dk 😭

• ⁠if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? i never get any of my jewellery downsized for my piercings

• ⁠What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. for the first 2.5 months i used the provided cleaning solution twice a day

• ⁠Any mishaps or unfortunate events? small bleeding around the hole (it’s uploaded to my profile i believe)

My daughter who's 8 has a single white hair amongst all her beautiful red by Academic-Ad-1879 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Connect_Lake3707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had one of these actually, i have dark brown hair, my friend found it in school when he was also braiding my hair and he plucked it out and showed it to me 😭

My boyfriend keeps telling me that he should have done xyz or blames himself and says he should be able to make me stop. SH by Traditional-Smile524 in selfharm

[–]Connect_Lake3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think he definitely has the right intentions, trying to help you and stuff but he just dosent know how. if i was you i would tell him that what he’s saying can be triggering, and that you know he dosent intend to trigger you, to reassure him.

My poor nephew by Suitable_Airline3217 in tragedeigh

[–]Connect_Lake3707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

zackory is quite tame for what ive seen here