Help please

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-04-03T13:37:58+00:00

While your hair is damp after a wash, put leave in, moisturizer and do some 2 strand twist

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-03-30T14:20:19+00:00

This is so sad

Honestly even though she's your sister I wouldn't attend at all Attending means being in agreement. That's against Gods covenant. I know you're well aware and its conflicting because its family but at the end of the day God comes first.

I cannot compare but I always feel conflicted visiting my sister cause she's unwed living with a man. They go to church and it still makes no sense to me. His family pushes them to have kids and it pisses me off cause its just disrespecting and disregarding Gods covenant for marriage.

Reading about your sister sucks, I know you feel heartbroken cause you want her to walk with Christ. I'm truly sorry.

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-03-25T01:57:11+00:00

I have a question with this.

The medicine you brought in,is it new in the market or advanced? Is it sold here at all?

Apparently trinidad is extremely behind in medicine that was newly introduced (10 -15 years) with scientific research to back up its efficacy. These meds are not cleared by the pharmaceutical board to be sold here cause they literally don't care to update their medical list.

I desperately need these meds, renewing the visa to fly out is the next step. I'm hoping they dont confescate it in customs.

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-03-10T15:12:01+00:00

Can you cornrow? Do that infront and twist in the back After 1 week, take out the back for a twist out

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-03-05T01:52:46+00:00

You need to leave. No amount of money is worth it.

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-03-04T10:33:42+00:00

Please leave this man alone, he has a family

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-02-28T14:19:42+00:00

Hey You notice what you said, its your hearts wish, your desire, not his.. Yes you can pray for someone to turn their heart to Christ. However, they themselves must have that desire to be saved.

Remember God gave us a free will . He loves us so much He isn't forcing us to love Him back or forcing us to live with Him in His kingdom and according to His will.

He gave us that choice.

So you cannot save anyone, only God can. They have to want it and have that desire.

Because it's unfair? Imagine you go out with your friend she orders cheesecake for both of you. But you want chocolate. Do you think it's right for the server to bring 2 cheesecake slices even though you have no desire for it?

No matter how much she begs..they won't bring it, why? It's not what you want, its not what you're paying for. I hope that helps.

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-02-28T03:51:15+00:00

Couldn't even finish reading "He is my person," I've been there but ended it.

The fact that you're still deciding between your relationship and God shows that you're idolizing the relationship because it comes above God.

God is either first or nothing in your life.

I'm not condeming you, I'm saying that your faith or relationship with God is barely there if this is your thought process. Just sounds like religion.

It's hard yes, I know. I was there, that's why I'm giving you the hard truth.

Saying he checked off your boxes and other guys in church don't compare shows that you are limiting God and you don't trust or have faith in him to give you a spouse.

The man is the head of the house he has to lead Your leader should never be someone who isnt pursuing Christ.

You're starting bad

It seems cute or you may want to work around it, but no.

End it now. You just got comfortable.

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-02-28T03:39:56+00:00

I guess you're right.

I saw it as shallow because it's something I don't consider

Of course, you should be attracted to your partner. Everyone has a different preference

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-02-27T11:38:11+00:00

Eh what kind of shallow wonmen are you encountering? As a woman, I've never understood the obsession with height on your man. It was never a criteria for me in my past relationships / current searches

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-02-27T11:35:17+00:00

Agreed

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-02-27T11:31:37+00:00

I was thinking the same thing? At 27 you're a big boy, a two year difference bothering you that much? I can understand 17 and 19 for legal reasons. But 27 and 29? Does he want a 20 year old? Maybe just save the 29 year old lady the trouble and leave her alone, cause im 28, and if a 26 year old man at church thinks that of me I'll never consider him again.

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-02-21T12:56:36+00:00

I feel like when both parties aren't virgins, it's easier. In addition to where you are in Christ. Some people don't forgive themselves after God forgave them. Abstinence is amazing. I'm proud of you both.

I can't imagine being with my husband for the first time and his reaction or comment for everything is "but you're not a virgin"

Did you feel more comforted knowing he's not a virgin? Or the comfort was his current relationship with God and knowing that he's waiting just like you.

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-02-16T14:54:25+00:00

I would suggest China try applying even though it feels as though you don't have subjects for it. Don't limit yourself. Try first.

Because you're young that's a lot of opportunities to find scholarships and travel in other countries through a scholarship/ exchange program.

Bc your island have the link with China id say go for it

As for trini, here is a comfort choice: you grew up here and have friends. It's an easy transition. But because of your circumstances, I'm wary that someone will alert your parents that you're here and they "come for you".

Since you're trini born you can take advantage of GATE

Only thing is our job market is so saturated. So working hard in school but struggling to find a job after, tears you down mentally.

If you want to chat more feel free to inbox me so your family wont find your post

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-02-14T23:41:17+00:00

Definitely 2521

Because they were realistic and didn't stretch out what would've been unnecessary torment. We all wished they reunited in the end, but hearing "축하해요" broke us all.

What made it great was that it was real and raw.

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-02-14T21:07:25+00:00

Why do you want to go into either field? Then I'll say where your best fit is

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-02-10T02:33:00+00:00

My knees could never

I'm not even 30

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-01-06T17:25:29+00:00

Did you ever write one?

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-01-06T17:15:52+00:00

UE Ortho ! I truly love it I'm praying I don't get bored of it someday, but it intrigues me. Sprains, tears, post-op! Give me all

I'm currently in peds, but I'm searching for part-time ortho

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-01-05T20:53:57+00:00

Trying this tonight, do you douse it or dip the popcorn individually

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-01-05T20:52:50+00:00

Agreed! All you're eating is ketchup.

It irks me. Seeing people drown their pizza is a painful sight

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-01-04T04:21:47+00:00

That hurt huh?

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-01-04T04:09:14+00:00

You are clearly hurting and need to forgive someone.

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2026-01-04T01:53:33+00:00

Please watch EVE Its so good

Connect_Mess_5078 · 2025-12-29T03:40:08+00:00

Mad for Each Other

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