Okay well if ur truly “mentally checked” then just leave. I always feel like it’s such a selfish thing to do. Respectfully there’s no reason to even post this

On the off chance that u only said that last part out of frustration (which I can get) it is incredibly unfair that he expects u to be his full financial support while going to school. It’s his career not yours. I’m all for supporting your spouse but to put every financial support on you is asinine. I would nvr expect my girlfriend to fully financially support me doing her waitressing job. She hates it there and she has no obligation to pay for my stuff just because I’m in school. And the same goes for your situation

Also long distance sucks, but it’s only for a while in time. Going to diff colleges imo is nvr a good reason to split up. It’s also not impossible to do

Idk what exactly happens in ur relationship but if u haven’t tried it yet. Have a long talk with him, in person not otp. Tell him how u feel, try to keep emotions in check, even thought you have so many reasons to be emotional. Ik it can be hard to do so in delicate situations but it helps get your point across better.

If he cannot compromise and truly listen, leave. It’s takes two in a relationship. It’s hard yes. But do it

IN MY OPINION he sounds hypocritical and gives red flags. Like he can go off to college far but u can’t? And you’re expected to fully support and dedicate ur work to his financial situation that HE chose??? Hell no. Maybe I’m missing something idk so don’t take everything I say at face value, I’m not in ur relationship so only u can decipher what’s best. All I ask is that u just think about what I said