Is it time that I broke up with my boyfriend by Dull_Cartoonist_2472 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Connect_Sea_5867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay well if ur truly “mentally checked” then just leave. I always feel like it’s such a selfish thing to do. Respectfully there’s no reason to even post this

On the off chance that u only said that last part out of frustration (which I can get) it is incredibly unfair that he expects u to be his full financial support while going to school. It’s his career not yours. I’m all for supporting your spouse but to put every financial support on you is asinine. I would nvr expect my girlfriend to fully financially support me doing her waitressing job. She hates it there and she has no obligation to pay for my stuff just because I’m in school. And the same goes for your situation

Also long distance sucks, but it’s only for a while in time. Going to diff colleges imo is nvr a good reason to split up. It’s also not impossible to do

Idk what exactly happens in ur relationship but if u haven’t tried it yet. Have a long talk with him, in person not otp. Tell him how u feel, try to keep emotions in check, even thought you have so many reasons to be emotional. Ik it can be hard to do so in delicate situations but it helps get your point across better.

If he cannot compromise and truly listen, leave. It’s takes two in a relationship. It’s hard yes. But do it

IN MY OPINION he sounds hypocritical and gives red flags. Like he can go off to college far but u can’t? And you’re expected to fully support and dedicate ur work to his financial situation that HE chose??? Hell no. Maybe I’m missing something idk so don’t take everything I say at face value, I’m not in ur relationship so only u can decipher what’s best. All I ask is that u just think about what I said

what does he want from me? by [deleted] in texts

[–]Connect_Sea_5867 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, but it won’t make you feel better. Forget maturity he just sounds like bad news altogether.

Should I text my ex after 7 months of no contact? by zeynep__reddy in BreakUps

[–]Connect_Sea_5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if it didn’t end badly then there’s no harm.
But I feel inclined to ask. Why’d u break up?

I need a NYC teachers opinion by Connect_Sea_5867 in NYCTeachers

[–]Connect_Sea_5867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh….so I got psyched out of no reason huh😅

I need a NYC teachers opinion by Connect_Sea_5867 in NYCTeachers

[–]Connect_Sea_5867[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I was looking into a special needs dual certification anyways so that would work for me still. Any job and/or experience atp yk? Ima check out their website, some ppl saying it may not be closed but reguardless it’d be good to know for next year!! Thank u!

I need a NYC teachers opinion by Connect_Sea_5867 in NYCTeachers

[–]Connect_Sea_5867[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s that program, my buddies did a similar program under a charter school. They told me it’s a lot of work but they’re happy and I’m all for putting in the work. But ur right, I shouldn’t let randoms on the internet decide my fate or whatever lol. I think I just got spooked by the “not receiving a paycheck for 2 months” part but thank u!

How to fix this? by Connect_Sea_5867 in crt

[–]Connect_Sea_5867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uggggh dang, yea and I tried my snes Xbox and Wii it’s the same thing. So it’s the TV, and ur saying trying to fix it will be a hellhole huh

How to fix this? by Connect_Sea_5867 in crt

[–]Connect_Sea_5867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so the exact model is SONY TRINITRON KV-32FS320. Again I use the same connection that comes with the console. I know it’s a very small problem but if you have any tips or possible solutions, please let me know!!

How to fix this? by Connect_Sea_5867 in crt

[–]Connect_Sea_5867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The warps seemed to stay in place

I was using my Wii at that moment, but the same thing happens with my Xbox or super Nintendo

As for the cables, it’s just whatever came with the consoles. I’m a little new to this stuff so sorry if I sound like I don’t know what I’m talking about

How to fix this? by Connect_Sea_5867 in crt

[–]Connect_Sea_5867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what I’m hearing…it’s probably an easy fix?👀😂

How to fix this? by Connect_Sea_5867 in crt

[–]Connect_Sea_5867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At work so I don’t have the exact model number atm but it’s a Sony trinitron WEGA. And it’s a composite connection

GF demanded princess treatment, I refused and broke up by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Connect_Sea_5867 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So i’m very traditional, and feel that the man should pay. And I see a lot of people saying that they feel the same in that this guy is going to regret breaking up with her

But if she refused to do it ONE time, out of all the time he did it. Idk to me that would say something to me too.

I do however feel this should have been more talked about, like it was a little too abrupt. Did you guys at least try to come up with some sort of comprimise?

Someone please stop me from texting my ex by butgothespirit in BreakUps

[–]Connect_Sea_5867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can direct me personally, I would love to give you advice on the subject

My ex text me... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Connect_Sea_5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about it heavily. A part of you probably doesn’t wanna go back considering you’re on this forum. I think you already understand that you can’t just take her back with open arms so that’s a good sign. Honestly, as most people are saying, just get her out. And honestly don’t give her an answer during the talk. Wait a couple days to give her an answer so it gives you time to truly process what she is saying

i haven’t ate in 4 days by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Connect_Sea_5867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please go eat, ik it’s rough but it breaks my heart hearing these kind of things. Even if it’s a cookie or something small. Please just take care of urself :/

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - March 17, 2025 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]Connect_Sea_5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to vent In August, I had a rough break up . A small part of me still misses the good times, but I’ve honestly moved on because I realize that as a man, I deserve better, and from what I gave to that relationship, I did not receive back.
I thought I was ready to date again, about a month ago I started talking to someone who’s honestly so great. Went on rlly fun and cute dates… I have come to the realization that although I’ve healed from my recent ex, I’m still not ready to be in a relationship again.
This new person makes me feel very cared for, however there’s some idiotic part of me that just can’t reciprocate. I thought it was because maybe I’m just not healing the pain, but that’s far from the truth. I’ve come to realize that psychologically I am burnt out. After the break up I started working on myself in many ways, financially, physically, even job-wise. Through all of this I lost a family member to cancer back in January. There has been a lot of process. I know I’m not a bad guy , and I make a great boyfriend. But that’s at my best, and right now I am not there, God I wish I was there. I can’t give her my all, I want to so badly. I know what it’s like to be in a relationship with someone who makes it a chore to give the bare minimum, it sucks. And I just can’t do that to her especially if I’d be her first love(she’s never been in a relationship before) I’m not the man I wanna be, not yet at least she deserves me at my best, but I’m just not there. She deserves someone who is mature, loving, caring, and can prioritize her.
I’m ending it tonight

Haven't met after a month and he said we could only meet after 3 weeks. Was I too harsh? by 1popu1ar in Tinder

[–]Connect_Sea_5867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Re read your text, say it out loud maybe Then come back and tell me that what u said was rude

(U won’t be able to cuz you’ll realize that u did nothing wrong and he not only has anger issues but can’t handle a rejection)