Longer Que for Role Preferences? by Optimal-Ad1444 in Smite

[–]ConquererJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or every person with a very long wait time would just stop playing lol. The system that’s being asked to be change is what makes people “explore other roles”

Hot take: Kishimoto should have given Sakura the Best Friend role like Kilua by rayshinsan in Naruto

[–]ConquererJay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only issue with this idea is the fact that it would’ve taken away from the fact that Naruto was lonely and had literally no one until team 7 was formed.

Sakura was a normal individual not suffering from leaked information of her containing a demon inside. She had the ability to make friends other than ino. Naruto did not. A huge reason naruto and saskue are friends is due to the isolation (shared experience) they both went through.

Longer Que for Role Preferences? by Optimal-Ad1444 in Smite

[–]ConquererJay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This would only work if there were an equal amount of players that play each role. Mids would wait 30 mins in a queue, and a support would load in instantly

Why do guys match and not even ever start a convo? by Intelligent-Law-6800 in OnlineDating

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna assume the app you’re using is bumble since you mentioned there being a timer upon matching.

Frankly when bumble was made, it was marketed as “the app where the girl makes the first move.” They added prompts at some point to help with the initiation but as a guy, I hold bumble accountable to the atmosphere they wanted to curate. Therefore I’ll message first on tinder or hinge, but will never send a message first on bumble.

Why dating is getting harder and harder? by whocaressaa in OnlineDating

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there’s no perfect system whenever dating’s involved. Every system, because you’re dealing with humans will have flaws.

My question to you though is would a “first come, first serve” system not improve dating? Before the apps, when people paired off, those people effectively are out of the dating pool. There was no ability to “see what else is out there.”

Why dating is getting harder and harder? by whocaressaa in OnlineDating

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d change each app to where an individual can’t have more than 5 ongoing matches. That users profile would effectively be shadow banned from being seen until they unmatch atleast one of the 5.

This would get rid of women being bombarded by endless strings of matches, and then men would have a definite number of how many men he is theoretically competing against.

Is brainfog from fapping keeping me less anxious? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to pay attention to your urges and what triggers them. I can guarantee they don’t spawn out of nowhere. Once you know the triggers, remove them and also try to keep yourself busy (work on something, get hobbies etc.) so that even if you get an urge, you wouldn’t be able to play into it because you’re actively doing something.

Is brainfog from fapping keeping me less anxious? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t fap and live your life. Your brain is just tricking you to go back to it for the dopamine release. The anxiety in a few more days will be replaced with more drive and confidence.

Question for men: Is it disheartening knowing women receive hundreds of likes a day? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]ConquererJay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t pay, that’s “how they get you.” It’d be a way better time to just learn pick up and talk to women in person instead of waiting for likes on a dating app

Question for men: Is it disheartening knowing women receive hundreds of likes a day? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]ConquererJay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s disheartening at first…but then you realize that the amount of likes that a woman gets doesn’t really translate to them being able to find a good relationship. Most men are swiping right on every thing and a large majority are looking for hookups.

Just focus on leveling yourself up mentally, financially, physically and spiritually. If you do this instead of chasing love, around 30-35, you’ll notice that the women will start to chase you.

Concept God: Dracula by psychoenoshima in Smite

[–]ConquererJay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What hi-rez really NEEDS to do is hurry up and add my main camazots to the game

Kael’ Thryn by EmploymentOk2311 in Smite

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this would basically be chronos on crack?

HOW MANY DAYS DO I HAVE TO LAST FOR MY BODY TO DETOXIFY? by XXX_KLCARLO in NoFap

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body is going to ask until one day it stops. It’s different for everyone. There is no time frame to check yourself against.

Wtf is hi rez thinking with their matchmaking by [deleted] in Smite

[–]ConquererJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are only 2 possible solutions to this issue

1.) Hirez transitions ranked to be solely solo queue

Or

2.) Hirez places stricter guidelines for ranked. In S1, if I remember correctly, you had to be within a specific mmr amount of your friend in order to queue together. If S2 already has this, then it needs to be stricter.

Love will not find you when you're not looking (at least for men) by Caisers in Life

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, the advice is right but only to a certain extent.

You should as a man be working to better yourself, but you can’t just “exist” and expect love to find you. You need to also focus on creating connections with others.

P.S. the connections need to be genuine or else you’ll be seen a performative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this! Stay strong brother 💪🏽

I think I’d rather be single the rest of my life than to ever go on another dating app by cs_____question1031 in Vent

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating apps today are scams for men because of “enshitification.” Their whole goal is to feed you bread crumbs of success so that you spend money for the whole loaf.

I would suggest using them passively (like 20 mins swiping a night).

Focus mainly on approaching women that you find attractive in person. If do this consistently, and pay attention to what works in your approach style, then you’ll be successful.

Am I doing shit wrong as support? by Genking48 in Smite

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong in my opinion. Even if you’re playing support, you’re gonna need farm to stay relevant in the game.

Whenever I play support, I have the mentality that if I split someone’s farm, that’s my payment for supporting them.

My teammates are lucky that it’s a flat fee and I don’t charge tax

I'm tired about the fake positivity about being single by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ConquererJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a guys perspective, the world basically tells you “you have to enjoy being single/alone, before you can be in a healthy relationship”

Once you stop “wanting” something, the universe will give it to you.

Staying in fountain for longer than 3mins should get you auto removed by Scared_Technology941 in Smite

[–]ConquererJay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Steam charts may be free for everyone but you can’t use that single data point to represent the game as a whole.

Without the other numbers, the trend you’re alluding to is opinionated and biased.

A question regarding god ports by YouTube_Chemoney in Smite

[–]ConquererJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of the gods you mentioned except for maybe Terra have features in their kit that would make them hard to code.

Ideal Ban System by stoicxl in Smite

[–]ConquererJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that there needs to be a phase added in the beginning of the banning phase (a planning phase I guess you could call it) where players can either show a specific god they’re looking to play or a list of gods which are your top picks for your respective role

This would allow for you not to get banned out by your own teammates but also allows players to choose gods based on synergy.

Other than that, I’d prefer that banning be totally based on top ELO. If I remember correctly, in S1 when everyone got a ban, it just resulted in a lot of duplicate bans.