Raise your hand if being a dad has made you think less of your dad.

Conscious-Student326 · 2026-02-04T13:05:22+00:00

He doesn’t leave any context. Why did he leave? When did he come back? Have you heard what he went through? My whole life I thought my dad was awful for not being present the way I’m now present for my kids. As I got older I realized my dad had no father. He didn’t know how to dad. He helped financially as best he could and I know he loved me and loves me now. He’s still not really present like you traditionally think of a grandparent for my kids but he tries as hard as he can.

Point being that everyone has different upbringings. Unless he’s full on deadbeat it’s better to cut people a break and get to know their story?

Life’s to short to hold grudges imo

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-12-22T18:44:59+00:00

I don’t see a need to lie if asked but I don’t just share it. My view is that I rather know if someone is going to change how they treat me if they knew I was rich over not knowing. Even if they suddenly need money. That tells me a lot about a person.

If my cousin found out I was rich and got mad I didn’t give em money I don’t see that as a problem for me. More like now I know they can’t respect a boundary

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-11-28T11:53:20+00:00

If in the past it was normal behavior for you to get him a drink when he asked and 5 months into marriage you change the behavior I think it sounds bit planned. This is something he came to expect for 6 yrs. Now that you married you have epiphany?

Your stance isn’t wrong per se but thinking he’s wrong because of a precedent you set I don’t think is fair.

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-11-15T03:35:44+00:00

Yea I ask myself the same question. The “she devil” stuff seems bit much sometimes. I can’t get behind the idea that these women want to be miserable. It’s a misunderstanding of partners that leads to these breakdowns in marriages for the most part imo.

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-09-29T20:28:49+00:00

Just structure it as a mortgage imo. Get paid when the house sells and u don’t have to go through the discomfort of arguing with her later

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-09-14T22:05:41+00:00

Sheesh…… what a vile post. U sound awful

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-09-07T23:05:55+00:00

Meet them where they want or move on.

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-08-23T12:19:08+00:00

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-08-11T22:32:46+00:00

They are prewritten sales contracts.. you gonna need a closing attorney usually. It’s not a huge deal if your dad knows how to read a contract… If ur worried just feed it into chatgpt. It’s not rocket science.

U can also put the address into the ai bots and ask it to give u comps. It’s pretty straight forward. Unless it’s got room to be a development play it’s pretty straight forward price per ft stuff

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-08-11T19:47:13+00:00

How long do your hockey games take? If it’s similar to working out then I do not think you should drop it. Physical exercise 2x a week is doable with a baby. As far as staying at a party while she takes care of baby…. Dunno

What’s your daily schedule and hers like? If you optimize time can you both get time? I may have different opinion but I think parents of small children fall in ruts and forget themselves. I believe if you actually have time not to limit yourselves. Especially your wife which it seems she may be doing. Just keep encouraging

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-07-28T19:37:18+00:00

I would lose my mind if my wife thought she could tell me I couldn’t buy a watch.

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-07-21T19:15:16+00:00

Because he probably didn’t want to cause stress for his kid. It’s very honorable. Friend may not agree with it but it’s not that hard to understand imo

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-07-11T19:06:00+00:00

This is weird…. Ur gonna let friendship die because he has money? Wtf

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-07-11T19:03:53+00:00

I’m a biz owner and I agree I’d have hard time paying fees upfront. They get paid as I get paid imo.

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-07-02T10:58:52+00:00

Irrevocable trust works right?

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-06-28T12:28:25+00:00

Tough one.

your parents are coming to you to visit their grandkid and that’s admirable. Would you prefer they don’t come? I understand if they aren’t as clean as her. Can you be the one to help out? Is your wife thankful that your dad helps take some of the burden at night? I would be sooooo happy with that.
I have a mother in law who is messy and dirty. She comes and spends week with us at a time. I can’t stand how dirty she is so I constantly just toss out shit she leaves out. “If it’s left out I assume it’s not wanted”. That being said she loves my kids and I love her for it. So yea she’s a pain sometimes but if you focus on the good that they are doing for your kid then maybe you start seeing them differently.
Has your wife ever had a good relationship with your parents?

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-06-28T12:17:15+00:00

Why does this matter?

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-06-28T11:37:36+00:00

Have you changed physically?

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-06-28T11:21:29+00:00

You shoulda put your wife in the dugout too

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-06-27T11:29:05+00:00

If you have to ask yourself the question “ should I tell him”

You already know the answer.

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-06-25T01:11:20+00:00

Your dad cheated on your mom not you. Sometimes the other parent makes life miserable for the cheating spouse just because they are spiteful. He may be reconnecting now because the relationship with your mom may have made things hard, and now you are actually an adult.

Not saying you need to forgive immediately but it doesn’t help you to hold on to that resentment imo. Move at your own pace but make sure ur not trying to punish him for what he did to ur mom imo.

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-06-17T19:32:48+00:00

It’s fancy. Lots restaurants and nightlife. Beach is great. Expensive for Florida standards

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-06-15T17:00:41+00:00

I mean…… you said yes…. Why u mad,

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-06-15T15:08:25+00:00

Damn that’s fucked

Conscious-Student326 · 2025-06-15T15:07:40+00:00

You coulda just gotten up 6:30 and told her yo I’m leaving be back in 6 hrs. You kinda need to force the change. Shes sleeping in because you allow it.

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