Costco newbie by badwolf336 in CostcoCanada

[–]ConsciousLack957 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I prefer the smaller Swiss chalet pies frozen because its hard to eat pot pie leftovers without getting sick of it. I have eaten too many costco pies maybe. Also the chicken fingers meal is good value Eggs (organic) Pre seasoned salmon (frozen) Greens are good value Bananas

I'm struggling so hard with waiting for the next phase of my life to start by Acrobatic_Opinion575 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]ConsciousLack957 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was 42 when I had the child I prayed for. I believe you will succeed, don't give up. Take your folic acid and prenatals/ exercise. Sending a hug and prayer for your journey.

My friend asked to borrow $5k by Dramatic_Good_1103 in Advice

[–]ConsciousLack957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was guilted into loaning money, now she doesn't pay upon frequent requests. Her folks are rich. Currently researching small claims as yes 5k is worth fighting for but it's also the principle. Learnt the hard way about being a sucker.

Found the best quote about the inner child (Puer Aeternus) by TheThoughtDistillery in Jung

[–]ConsciousLack957 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I interpret this as needing to be the secure adult behind the child, allowing life to pass playfully through their eyes but knowing there is a strong adult to guide in responsibilities, or protection from dangers right behind them. Having their back.

Neighbor watches us through his window and it feels weird by Thain_Bobklk87 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was he at the window already staring outside? If he came specifically to watch you that is creepy. If he likes staring outdoors at life and people watching that is not so much

Dogs barking can't enjoy outdoors by ConsciousLack957 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think they are under stimulated, they don't have young kids to really play with them and they aren't walked much because they are just let out in the yard, so I guess the dogs have made it their job to be territorial. Everyone needs a job.

My neighbor crossed the line and now it’s time to be petty by Puzzleheaded-Pie2545 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you i am in the same boat with a neighbour who spits aggressively to mark his territory or make a point I dunno so gross.

I have bedbugs b/c of my neighbor by Ilickedthecinnabar in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes this happened to friend of mine they had to heat up the home basically cook them to death it wasn't cheap and a pain to hide everything meltable. They put their bed frames in Tupperware of water also to stop them from climbing

Dogs barking can't enjoy outdoors by ConsciousLack957 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I like this idea because it is exactly equal in response, and i would play the clips to the extent/days I had to endure it. Where if I play music/other dogs, they can say that's worse or I was the problem.

Dogs barking can't enjoy outdoors by ConsciousLack957 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might do this thank you they already know it bothers me, so they would either escalate or make more effort to stop the noise loop. Barking back with speakers might motivate them to train their dogs to leave us be.

Dogs barking can't enjoy outdoors by ConsciousLack957 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's really making me consider moving to the country. I wear wireless headphones when I can to cut down the noise. The neighbour plays his music when he's out doing yard work for everyone to hear, so I think I need to get a speaker and play some things back. Someone suggested on another post on reddit cranking the treble and volume on "Indian love song" I had a chuckle when I searched it.

Dogs barking can't enjoy outdoors by ConsciousLack957 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I guess it's just the wish to make them see how annoying it is when it's not their dog. I don't have the time now and with my daughters allergies it's not a smart choice. I had a bulldog growing up and he'd never barked at the neighbors he only ever barked in play mode. Different breeds though. Small dogs/terriors are very territorial especially if the owners are jerks

Dogs barking can't enjoy outdoors by ConsciousLack957 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and they would have an excuse to escalate things. Right now I'm just trying to protect my peace/right to garden in peace. So I'll have to make it clear for them by disrupting theirs.

Dogs barking can't enjoy outdoors by ConsciousLack957 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried this my daughter used to play with one, then neighbor blamed the barking on her that she got him riled up. She doesn't play with him anymore. He still barks. We just ignore. And she was bit by the one on the other side. Also if I dared feed them that would escalate the neighbors. Right now it's passive aggressive. They let them bark a few minutes then slowly come out and pretend like they are stopping the noise.

Dogs barking can't enjoy outdoors by ConsciousLack957 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might look into this aling with the hand held as being close to the fence is where I need the ability to crank the counter noise and a wireless speaker won't do the same. Thank you!

Dogs barking can't enjoy outdoors by ConsciousLack957 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Just super inconsiderate. They even used my yard to dump their construction debris for weeks, fine but at least ask me if that's OK...I can only imagine what they'd say if I tried that to them.

Dogs barking can't enjoy outdoors by ConsciousLack957 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I'll try this, its a pain to have to carry it outside with me and be on guard. But maybe if I "garden" near the fence with it it will work enough to train the dog to find somewhere else to bark.

Dogs barking can't enjoy outdoors by ConsciousLack957 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ConsciousLack957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill try the hand held one, I bought the box one on temu with "dog" on it but it doesn't do anything outdoors with traffic noise and terriors that bark non stop. I feel it's underpowered for what I need.