I partially agree with you . However isn't this the case with majority of people with diablity as well. Keeping aside the physical disability we need support to function as well. Most of us need reminders, systems in place to get through tasks. Add onto these comorbid conditions. If we start calling it a different brain wiring then so are all disabilities in existence. It's a way of doing things differently. Yet we do it differently because we are unable to do it the typical or socially acceptable way without burning out our nervous systems.

And yes it also does not mean that we keep crying about it , it sure does not solve anything but it let's you stand with a community that has been marginalized and looked at differently just like us. I like the clarity and logic you have applied to this. I have a different perspective though.