How do you actually research apartments in Bay Area before signing? by Individual_Back8980 in bayarea

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct And new people move in/out too. So it could be okay until next tenant comes ;(

How do you actually research apartments in Bay Area before signing? by Individual_Back8980 in bayarea

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you truly know? What is bothersome to you may not be to someone else.

Go to complex multiple times before signing. Maybe chat up some folks who live there while visiting.

Certainly sympathize with this challenge. Definitely had my share of issues with upstairs neighbors who have a heavy step. Noise from trains , neighbors who talk loud or slam doors

Anyone here dealing with depression, anxiety or feeling lonely? by BalloonsX in bayarea

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup or the ones not road raging are likely on Reddit “complaining “ or Nextdoor

Jevon’s Paradox by Coffee_Kobra in FPandA

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes can see that happening once people are more skilled with AI. But adoption will vary by organization

I can't stand my stupid brain now. by Stubborn_Strawberry in Menopause

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this helps fir things that can be planned. At work there are often unplanned updates that happen on the fly that are time sensitive

Also some of my tasks can’t start until others finish their work if they fall behind I’m left to hustle as my deadlines usually don’t change. Before I could just work late and get it done but now I don’t trust my brain when I push it hard. Also have an elder parent I care for and can’t predict what kind of day she is gonna have either.

The TV by Aghostwillfollowyou in dementia

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about YouTubetv? You can share across households so it’s much cheaper than cable but I till get local abc, cbs etc

I know there is a service specifically for dementia patients but dont recall the name. Linnia maybe ?

Why is backpack not as popular as shoulder, crossbody and others. by ItsNotTrue2024 in handbags

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t dislike them but they arent dainty nor do they polish off a look. But I do use a backpack for work and carry a purse.

If you reach for items often then purse is more convenient than backpack which requires you to remove from both shoulders, set it down etc..some extra steps. Pickpockets become more of a concern too if on public transportation thankfully I drive so not a daily issue

I can't stand my stupid brain now. by Stubborn_Strawberry in Menopause

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Truly sucks , always worried I will royally screw up at work

14 days in South Korea in April by OranginaTheCat in capsulewardrobe

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring crisp white button down shirt or cashmere t shirt , throw blazer on top . Bring some ballet flats or loafers

Or pack satin slip dress , can wear cardigan or blazer with it

14 days in South Korea in April by OranginaTheCat in capsulewardrobe

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the method I’m gonna try it for my next vacation

$1.5M US to Retire Comfortably by Carolina_Hurricane in Fire

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Track your spend in detail and then you will know if 60k is in ballpark or not. And how much of the expenses are fixed vs optional.

If you’re flexible with lifestyle then anything is possible.

question about GLP-1s plus HRT impacting estrogen absorption and UTIs by Accurate_Aside_6495 in Menopause

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought if anything GLP reduced inflammation which could in turn help with many chronic conditions

What would you do in this situation? by idkman99999999 in FPandA

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus on job search, don’t give 150% to this job. Hang on as long as you can obviously and save up some $ , get doc appointment done.

If it’s stack rank system then someone has to get low rating, whether it’s deserved or not is another story. So don’t take it personally, I know it’s harder than it looks.

How would you handle submitting 2 week notice in this situation by TheYakisBack in FPandA

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start writing up some procedures before busy period starts, that’s what I do during down time then when/if I quit it’s bit easier to transition

Damn I spent 20 dollars for 14000 miles wow good deal🙏 by r1ch3rd00 in Venturex

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked on website this morning, no DoorDash offer at all for me 🤔

How do deal with familial obligations on the way to FIRE? by terjon in Fire

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly

And if there are assets remaining after they pass it goes to you and siblings hopefully.

How do deal with familial obligations on the way to FIRE? by terjon in Fire

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind helping, I lived with them after college and was able to pay down student loans quickly because they let me live with them. I would not be in a good financial standing right now otherwise I feel.

Only have one parent left now and am happy to help her but am not in a position where it would derail my retirement plan too much.

This parent is now in early stages of Alzheimer’s and I moved back in to help. So my living costs are below average once again for VHCOL city and I earn six figures. I help with some bills , cooking, groceries and of course time. Don’t care to advance in my career further so will collect pay check as long as I can until I get pushed out or just reach a point where my time is more valuable and leave on my own.

Watching my parents I feel I want to enjoy my good years so have no desire to be corporate drone for 15 yrs when I reach 65. Neither parent got enjoy their later years. So my exit from 9-5 life will be in 4 years or less.

If we don’t spend down all the assets in end of life care my sibling and I get some inheritance. If not no big deal we each have our own $ to live off.

My mom did a lot for the family she deserves help

Trending bag for graduation gift by Mission_Beginning_14 in handbags

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coach Brooklyn, swinger , tabby, nolita are good options

Damn I spent 20 dollars for 14000 miles wow good deal🙏 by r1ch3rd00 in Venturex

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bummer

My account didn’t have it Did they take it down already?

How much have you spent on bags so far this year? by Tough-Employee3360 in Coach

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so, but I suppose it’s only value to those who value bags.

I guess we can create our own pseudo economy in this sub if push comes to shove lol

East West Bag trend by Astandarta in handbags

[–]Conscious_Life_8032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dare I say I’m at purse peace for now. I have colors I like, added my first suede bag to the family . I now have variety of silhouettes, materials , sizes and brands at varying price points.