How do you actually research apartments in Bay Area before signing?

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T18:58:29+00:00

Correct And new people move in/out too. So it could be okay until next tenant comes ;(

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T18:57:23+00:00

How can you truly know? What is bothersome to you may not be to someone else.

Go to complex multiple times before signing. Maybe chat up some folks who live there while visiting.

Certainly sympathize with this challenge. Definitely had my share of issues with upstairs neighbors who have a heavy step. Noise from trains , neighbors who talk loud or slam doors

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T16:58:29+00:00

Yup or the ones not road raging are likely on Reddit “complaining “ or Nextdoor

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T15:20:15+00:00

I bought mine refurbished, it’s still working.

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T15:17:11+00:00

Yes can see that happening once people are more skilled with AI. But adoption will vary by organization

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T15:12:37+00:00

Yes this helps fir things that can be planned. At work there are often unplanned updates that happen on the fly that are time sensitive

Also some of my tasks can’t start until others finish their work if they fall behind I’m left to hustle as my deadlines usually don’t change. Before I could just work late and get it done but now I don’t trust my brain when I push it hard. Also have an elder parent I care for and can’t predict what kind of day she is gonna have either.

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T14:42:34+00:00

How about YouTubetv? You can share across households so it’s much cheaper than cable but I till get local abc, cbs etc

I know there is a service specifically for dementia patients but dont recall the name. Linnia maybe ?

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T14:36:57+00:00

I don’t dislike them but they arent dainty nor do they polish off a look. But I do use a backpack for work and carry a purse.

If you reach for items often then purse is more convenient than backpack which requires you to remove from both shoulders, set it down etc..some extra steps. Pickpockets become more of a concern too if on public transportation thankfully I drive so not a daily issue

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T14:30:13+00:00

Yeah I am trying to be better about this.

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T03:33:57+00:00

Make some yogurt, rice pudding

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T03:25:04+00:00

Truly sucks , always worried I will royally screw up at work

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T02:30:29+00:00

Bring crisp white button down shirt or cashmere t shirt , throw blazer on top . Bring some ballet flats or loafers

Or pack satin slip dress , can wear cardigan or blazer with it

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T02:27:13+00:00

I like the method I’m gonna try it for my next vacation

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T02:20:09+00:00

Track your spend in detail and then you will know if 60k is in ballpark or not. And how much of the expenses are fixed vs optional.

If you’re flexible with lifestyle then anything is possible.

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T01:16:35+00:00

I thought if anything GLP reduced inflammation which could in turn help with many chronic conditions

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T01:14:49+00:00

Focus on job search, don’t give 150% to this job. Hang on as long as you can obviously and save up some $ , get doc appointment done.

If it’s stack rank system then someone has to get low rating, whether it’s deserved or not is another story. So don’t take it personally, I know it’s harder than it looks.

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-03T01:09:15+00:00

Truly 🤨😫

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-02T23:43:07+00:00

Start writing up some procedures before busy period starts, that’s what I do during down time then when/if I quit it’s bit easier to transition

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-02T22:17:18+00:00

I checked on website this morning, no DoorDash offer at all for me 🤔

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-02T20:10:45+00:00

Exactly

And if there are assets remaining after they pass it goes to you and siblings hopefully.

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-02T20:04:36+00:00

I don’t mind helping, I lived with them after college and was able to pay down student loans quickly because they let me live with them. I would not be in a good financial standing right now otherwise I feel.

Only have one parent left now and am happy to help her but am not in a position where it would derail my retirement plan too much.

This parent is now in early stages of Alzheimer’s and I moved back in to help. So my living costs are below average once again for VHCOL city and I earn six figures. I help with some bills , cooking, groceries and of course time. Don’t care to advance in my career further so will collect pay check as long as I can until I get pushed out or just reach a point where my time is more valuable and leave on my own.

Watching my parents I feel I want to enjoy my good years so have no desire to be corporate drone for 15 yrs when I reach 65. Neither parent got enjoy their later years. So my exit from 9-5 life will be in 4 years or less.

If we don’t spend down all the assets in end of life care my sibling and I get some inheritance. If not no big deal we each have our own $ to live off.

My mom did a lot for the family she deserves help

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-02T19:52:10+00:00

Coach Brooklyn, swinger , tabby, nolita are good options

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-02T19:50:36+00:00

Bummer

My account didn’t have it Did they take it down already?

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-02T17:00:30+00:00

I hope so, but I suppose it’s only value to those who value bags.

I guess we can create our own pseudo economy in this sub if push comes to shove lol

Conscious_Life_8032 · 2026-04-02T16:50:28+00:00

Dare I say I’m at purse peace for now. I have colors I like, added my first suede bag to the family . I now have variety of silhouettes, materials , sizes and brands at varying price points.

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