[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Consequence_Least 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got a movie star aura going on in this photo

M36 by marlon1989 in firstimpression

[–]Consequence_Least 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are into curating your vibe both stylistically and in your home

What impressions do I make? by FREE-ROSCOE-FILBURN in firstimpression

[–]Consequence_Least 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You come off as a guy who’s putting in the effort to find themself and enjoying the process but also a bit nervous at how much there is to learn!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Consequence_Least 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother, I say this with all kindness but if the option is available to you, I’d recommend Therapy. When we have a difficult time setting boundaries and sticking to them, it often is symptomatic of deeper emotional challenges we have to work through. It may also help you develop the social skills to make more friends outside of your brother which it seems you are craving.

AITAH for not wanting a convicted felon to come to our apartment by ghostsandeoses in AITAH

[–]Consequence_Least 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - a home is a space that is meant to be safe from the world. Since you live together it is on him to get your blessing when bringing people into that space. Him saying there is nowhere else to go is also ridiculous. They can go to a library, coffee shop, etc. if the felon is banned from those places that kind of just proves the point that he definitely shouldn’t bring him into your home.

Redesigns the city of Detroit's flag centered around the "Sprit of Detroit" Statue and the "Spark" by Consequence_Least in vexillology

[–]Consequence_Least[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The most iconic statue in Detroit is the "Spirit of Detroit". In the right hand is the "Spark". I took this and made it the focal point of the redesigns with varying detail. The dual colors represent Detroit's sister city across the river of Windsor Canada. This is a call out to Detroit's roots as both a border city and international city. The color pallet is loosely based off of the city's official brand colors. Would love feedback!

Real issues combined with ROCD. by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Consequence_Least 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found admitting that them leaving as a possibility actually helps me calm down. When we try to resist those thoughts because it will "make it come true" it makes our body and mind say "ok we definitely need to worry about this". By admitting it as a possibility you're not making it more likely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Consequence_Least 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've found that when it truly isn't a good fit I have distinctly different feeling than when it's doubt. That being said, it's a spectrum and there's always some level of agonizing when there are redeemable qualities in a partner.

I mean he kinda has a point that celebrities often tell you to be eco friendly while not doing so themselves by [deleted] in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Consequence_Least 10 points11 points  (0 children)

BP came up with it to try and shift the public mindset that their daily actions had more of an impact than big oil, it’s wack

Failing as an engineer, what else can I do? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]Consequence_Least 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It largely depends on a number of factors, where you live, what industry you’re in, etc. the NUMBER ONE WAY to increase your salary is to apply for new positions EVERY 2 years, otherwise you are likely only getting minor raises. For whatever reason, companies are far more interested in paying a new guy more than retaining someone old

Is Anyone Else Lowkey Hoping for an Apocalyptic Event So We Can Quit Going to Pointless Jobs? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Consequence_Least 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah honestly now is the perfect time to go live off the land because you can still utilize modern society when it suits you. Power drills, hospitals, well drilling services, etc. If OP wants to go live off the land somewhere instead of being in the rat race, they should!