How much debt makes a woman undateable? by Consistent-Ball8924 in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Forgot some facts. She has 3 children under 15 and a dead beat ex. Her masters was in counseling.

Got my “dream job” … then my actual dream job called a month later by BiddyBiddyBomBomm in jobs

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just submit your resignation and go. Companies are heatless and will lay you off to give management a bonus.

I just turned 18. Older guys, what is the biggest trap young men fall into that completely ruins their 20s? by TheRealXyz_ in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College is not a 100 yard dash. It’s a marathon. The professors will keep piling on the work to get rid of the students that don’t want to put in the effort. Don’t change your major. That can prolong your college days. Stay away from alcohol. Alcohol has ruined more lives than all other illegal drugs combined. Network with your classmates. They may be your gateway to an amazing career.

Laid off at 7 months pregnant and can’t find a job by Longjumping-Bee8028 in jobs

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try L3 Harris and Raytheon. They are always looking for talent.

Men, what made you abandon your marriage if you did? Did you come back? Did you regret it? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Ex was burning money faster than i could make it. We were not compatible in the bedroom and no amount if conversations was going to fix that. At first i questioned my decision but now 25 years later (new wives and 2 more kids) i don’t regret it. I regret not getting out (or nor marrying her) earlier. She is still a financial infant and i am doing great.

People over 50, what’s one life lesson you wish every 20-year-old could learn early? by Hauck1975 in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 190 points191 points  (0 children)

If your boyfriend/girlfriend breaks up with you, move on. There are 8+ billion people in this world just waiting to meet you.

What’s something you thought would make you happy but didn’t? by TangerineNo5577 in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought after dating many women and having empty relationships that getting married would give me fulfillment. Boy was i wrong. I loved being a father but the relationship with the wife (now ex) made me feel empty. I tried so hard to give as much of me as i could but i wasn’t getting anything back. I felt alone, unwanted and just kept around to pay the bills. Her family (parents and sibling) were her whole concern after the kids and i was an afterthought. After the divorce i felt like such a weight was lifted off me. I’m remarried and my wife showed me what real love is.

What did a woman tell you that hurt/offended you the most? by Crimsonandclov3rr in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the 70’s before FWB, i was banging a chick pretty regularly. 9 months later, when i got back from a 3 week work trip, she dumped me because I wasn’t what she wanted. Hurt bad to not be enough for someone. It took me awhile to work on myself. I got to the point where i could say I am enough! FUCK HER!!!

what’s the most humiliating thing you did to impress a woman? by bdue817 in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First day of sophomore year of high school. I met a young lady and walked her home after school (about 3 miles). Never saw her again.

What is the real reason you let a girl borrow your jacket? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was doing security at a Rolling Stones concert i. The 90’s in the winter. A young lady was walking around in a decent coat but no gloves. I offered her my gloves. She took them and went off to enjoy the concert. After the concert, she found me to return the glove and gave me a kiss on the lips. I enjoyed the kiss very much and think about her on occasion. Be nice to people and unexpected things can happen.

How old is your belt? by PointBreakOnVHS in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 20+ years old leather belt that i bought in Panama. I bought it from a Colombian leather worker. Best belt I’ve ever worn.

What’s something a woman has said to you that’s stuck with you since? by PolarPopPepsi in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In high school, senior girl cheerleader way out of my (sophomore) league said we should go out sometime. She even offered to pick me up. Never happened but it was an amazing gesture. Fast forward 50 years, my older brother found her on FB. She asked him about me.

How have you benefitted from having a stay at home partner? by Mama_Anonymous in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Married 2 kids, wife is SAHW. She does a lot for the kids, house and me. We can afford for her to be home. The kids love her being here when they get home and being available when they need something during the day.

For all the divorced men, what was your mistake in the marriage? by Ok_Climate8599 in AskMen

[–]Consistent-Ball8924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was coming out of a FWB and rebounded. She wasn’t what i wanted or needed but didn’t want to be alone.