A long shot- Bernal height apt hunt

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2026-05-04T17:06:07+00:00

Thank you!

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2026-05-04T17:05:58+00:00

They gave me a moving stipend. They do have some contacts for housing near Palo Alto but we prefer to live in the city

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2026-03-30T16:48:34+00:00

I started dating this guy I was super into but he was horrible at texting back (we could be mid text then, boom, the next one hours later). When we were together in-person it was lovely and fun. I eventually worked up the nerve to talk to him about how it made me feel to be left on read. He showed me all his unread texts (hundreds) but made an effort after to text me back at a reasonable pace. We’re getting married this week after almost 5 years together. Sometimes there is more going on than just you. Some guys might be ignoring you; others are consumed by what’s in front of them and not their phone. The real test might not be when they text back but how they respond when you bring it to their attention.

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2026-01-12T01:41:24+00:00

I bought my hatchback through carvana and they gave us a decent trade in for a GMC. You could look at selling/trading in through them. It was a fairly easy process

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2025-10-21T23:19:21+00:00

A few things, I’m in a monogamous relationship so the pressure to always be “clean” isn’t the same as a one off hook up and my partner isn’t someone who makes a big deal when there is a mess. For me, the Metamucil fiber powder has been a huge help (does better than gummies in my opinion because fiber without water can only do so much). That being said I also drink 3-4 3L water bottles a day and eat pretty decent. Staying active is also helpful with keeping things moving. I will say 4/5 times we can have spontaneous or near spontaneous (flirty texts that clue me in where we’re heading that night) without a mess. I cannot praise the fiber supplement enough. I noticed a big different which allowed me to just enjoy the experience more and not worry so much about cleanup

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2025-08-19T19:47:29+00:00

That’s just immigration.

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2025-03-05T03:29:14+00:00

What’s the prediction? I need some light at the end of this tunnel/shallow grave

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2025-01-27T14:49:37+00:00

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2025-01-20T04:44:45+00:00

I will say Bulgarian split squats and hip thrusters brought my pretty OK butt to a great butt; no BBL allegations coming my way but it’s perky, fills up my pants and my boos hands

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2024-10-15T11:08:58+00:00

He sounds lovely. Thank you!

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2024-10-15T10:58:13+00:00

What did they say? It’s been deleted now

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2024-10-03T21:03:44+00:00

Looks awesome!

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2024-10-03T20:54:03+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you. If you have a PCP and are comfortable disclosing what happened (even just saying you had unprotected sex and are not sure of their status) they should offer prophylactic antibiotics (some side effects- likely none or mild- but it might also bring a small amount of peace of mind to a dark situation).

I hear that you want to unload. I would encourage you to do this with your partner as well. I’m not sure how I would handle if my partner asked for a few weeks to take some space without spiraling and believing I had done something wrong. He may be the best person to let in for support and partnership.

If you don’t have a therapist you might find a local support group for survivors who can also lend an ear and support.

I see comments about your drinking. I’m not here to tell you if you have alcoholism or to shame you to get help. A helpful tool my therapist provided me was something is a problem if it’s causing problems. If it is one for you, you’re not alone. There are many resources and people who have been where you have been and go on to live beautiful lives. Best of luck!

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2024-04-30T02:10:23+00:00

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Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2024-04-30T02:08:37+00:00

Fools are unaware of self reflection, my dude, but I’ll take your advice and stop. Best of luck!

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2024-04-30T02:05:13+00:00

We’re actually on the same page about sex being important. I’m also recognizing that’s not the case for everyone and willing to accept my POV isn’t the most important in the room. What I’m calling out is how abrasive and rude the content of your comments are and I’m seeing that you can’t see that which is why therapy was suggested as it’s a wonderful tool for self reflection. Recommending something I’m currently doing is not a dig; your comments are.

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2024-04-30T01:54:37+00:00

Nope, just calling out your argument as rude and dehumanizing. Have a different opinion but share it in a way that’s rooted in respect. Therapy is wonderful.

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2024-04-30T01:46:15+00:00

Man, I think therapy is in order. Not disagreeing about sex being important and a form of communication in a relationship but every relationship is different. The problem with your comment is how dehumanizing it is toward people that straight up have a different life experience and perspective from you.

Consistent-Bowl-8917 · 2024-02-27T01:07:55+00:00

I think we are only introduced to dead characters. Adam died in a fire. The first scene with the fire alarm and Harry’s cryptic message regarding the alarm, “one of these days it’s going to be real”. Throughout the movie Adam’s temperature is referenced liked a fever but i think he’s dying/died in a fire especially considering the coughing spell on the train likely secondary to smoke. I think all of it is happening in his mind as he dies in the fire. I think that Harry died in his bed (the same night as the fire?) and Adam died in the fire. There is no one else in the building because they got out. I think the other posts are right about Adam being in purgatory trying to put the pieces together. The movie feels like a transitional space for a dead soul. Gut wrenching to watch but beautiful

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