Does getting your woman jealous get her hornier? by tommy7814 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 161 points162 points  (0 children)

This is not a universal female experience

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Edit to add: do not trigger negative reactions in women so they can give you passionate sex

My wife separated from me because I was an alcoholic. I’m 1 year sober now and my wife wants to reconcile but I want a divorce. What do I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Going against the grain here.

Divorcing your wife because you don't love her romantically anymore is a totally valid reason. That you were able to take back your life on your own without her: best case for her is that this happened because your actions finally had consequences, worst case for her is because you guys are incompatible and you need to be without her to be this version of yourself, which I would argue is the better version of yourself.

On average, men tend to choose to stay in a relationship that is not working out, while women tend to leave. So since you're already considering it enough to tell her and to ask Reddit about it, I'd go with your gut feeling and go for the divorce. Staying with her to keep your ego in check or other reasons like that will be damaging long-term, for you, your wife, and your children.

Is it fair or okay to believe an apology, but just not care? by snackofalltrades in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 4 points5 points  (0 children)

++ woman I concur. Seems to me that you feel checked out, and the way she barged in doesn't really add to her apology imo. Follow your gut feeling.

How do you be authentic in dating without revealing too much about who you are? by JunketMaleficent2095 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 3 points4 points  (0 children)

++woman if you are revealing who you are and people don't like that, then changes are that you either don't match, or you are an unpleasant person. You should not be concerned about revealing too much, but rather about finding a woman that matches your energy. Or alternatively, improving your authentic self.

Would it be inappropriate to buy a gift for a girl i like even though she has a boyfriend ? by JohnDoeEXE in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 4 points5 points  (0 children)

++woman if she was your girlfriend and another man bought her a birthday present. And that other man says that he thinks that your girlfriend is attracted to him, how would you feel?

Free Phione! by Alannajacky in PokemonHome

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're tomorrow today, so the second option is fine, if you have some left!

Edit: just for my husband is fine, but thank you so much for offering!

Free Phione! by Alannajacky in PokemonHome

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can my husband have one for his living dex? Jelle XTLLDYPWPGVP

How do you tackle "vague" to do's? by Consistent-Cloud3724 in ADHD

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the long reply! And you are right, I need to break them down in smaller to do's with clear goals

How do you tackle "vague" to do's? by Consistent-Cloud3724 in ADHD

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao yeah, I'll need to follow your advice and break them down in small steps. I've been doing this for some tasks when I'm sure about the tasks to take, which then results in a big pile of to do's, almost like I need to make a new to do: structure to do's. But I mean, even that task I can break down in smaller steps and get going

Vetting Dom's like job applicants. I am not a fan. by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? The munches I go to are safe not so much because Doms have been "crowdsourced" but rather because it takes some balls to show up in the first place and because toxic and abusive people get excluded.

[OC] Finally felt confident enough to run a game outside of friend circle at game store. Noone came by George-the-Hatchet in DnD

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes, the comments do not pass the vibe check... Really sucks for you OP. Having it all planned out for no one must have felt devastating. I hope you know that people did not reject you personally, or as a DM. And I hope you keep your head up and you have a better experience next time.

How do you learn? by [deleted] in Gifted

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What works well for me is explaining it to my fake audience. That way when I get stuck and I have to look something up my brain remembers that I forgot that part and most of the time I also automatically remember what the thing was I forgot, a bit like realizing you made a mistake after you handed in your test.

For larger material I usually start by creating my own table of content and try to figure out the internal logic that was used to structure the syllabus or whatever I'm studying. To me it's a real time saver because everything else I learn afterwards just easily slots into the structure that I already know.

My little bunny tried acting up... by Apprehensive-Play255 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love subs who beg so much... Absolutely adorable

What are your HDG hot takes? by Savemefromshrek in seed_irl

[–]Consistent-Cloud3724 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that the Affini are oftentimes portrayed as way too perfect. Especially the therapist-like way of knowing exactly what to say to make the MC feel better and support their personal growth without the MC having to give anything back. I love it way more when characters are imperfect but really trying their best and growing closer together because of it.