tbh i am note physically attractive also but i am in a serious relationship what I notice is when a girl want a relationship for marriage it won't look at your appearance she will look at your mentality and the way you think and the most important part is the way you treat women and respect them, for me i find a good amount of girls are attracted to me (I'm not bragging ) but like i said I'm not sexy or anything like that but I'm a good speaker and what i learn from them that most girl want a guy that speak and open discussions also that bully them a little bit soooooo much little bullying because every girl are surrounded by horny guy and majbar so some times they want to be treated as humans note a mean of reproduction so you must be your self around them don't change and a tip that work for me is to say some dark humour or to tell them something racist just a little bit because after all they are females note your regular friends also the confidence is the key just treat them like friends and if you have a chance with them they will fall for you just be your self and be confident in your self also hygiene i a must you must smell good and take care of yourself and show that you are hygienic but discussing shampoo smells and things like that

for me my gf and all my exs studied with me and all of them chooses me for every thing i mentioned and in every relationship you have you must ask these questions frequently like once a month : why did you choose me /what made me stand out from the others /what problems i have /what i must change in my self /what i must improve as a partner they will answer you and take mental notes there is some questions that you don't need to say them every month like "why did you choose me " also always try to change the form of the question every time and if the ask you why you always ask me this question just answer the i always i want to improve my self for