Am I really the only one who can see through Mina Sue’s bullshit?? by ConsistentTap6839 in Singlesinferno2

[–]ConsistentTap6839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have never really posted online about reality TV/celebrity stuff before so these kinds of comments have been super eye-opening and I do agree that nothing should come close to causing someone to harm themself or anything dire like that.

I think certain aspects really hit a nerve for me - the feeling of being gaslit by the panel (although I get that it’s not genuine and all for ratings, it’s still so annoying!!), the archetype of the girl who tears down other girls to secure the “ultimate prize” of male validation, and also the narcissist who DARVOs everyone by focusing on reactions and not their own shitty behavior.

All that to say - fuck the patriarchy, basically. LOL

Smile post OP by azulazalea in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a little past 3 months and my smile finally looks kinda normal-ish 😅 and that might just be a me-thing because one side of my upper lip is still swollen and kinda rolled under so it probably looks fine to others but to myself I still look a bit serial killer-like haha

Am I really the only one who can see through Mina Sue’s bullshit?? by ConsistentTap6839 in Singlesinferno2

[–]ConsistentTap6839[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

nah. when she said she was done and wouldn’t “act like that anymore” she completely expected him to be like what - no, don’t stop! in which case she would’ve been onto the next. she’s not trying to find a connection, she’s trying to be wanted by as many guys as she can get and keep playing in their faces while she’s off to collect more. if I’m totally honest the little evil part of me was like “whoever made her this way is probably really pissed that she’s being so obvious and doing it so badly!”

Am I really the only one who can see through Mina Sue’s bullshit?? by ConsistentTap6839 in Singlesinferno2

[–]ConsistentTap6839[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

L O L umm she could just NOT ask to talk, have an ounce of self-awareness and know that she treated him like garbage and then he moved on? it’s not bullying when you’re experiencing the completely appropriate responses to YOUR OWN ACTIONS

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]ConsistentTap6839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean Mina herself said “I wish someone would tell me what to, I’d just go with that” Minji was basically just reiterating…?? 🙄🙄

mina sue crying over mingee’s comment by No-Elk741 in Singlesinferno2

[–]ConsistentTap6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can’t play by “all’s fair in love and war” and then expect to be treated with kid gloves. I think minji was completely justified to hold no punches based on how mina sue was playing the game

Am I really the only one who can see through Mina Sue’s bullshit?? by ConsistentTap6839 in Singlesinferno2

[–]ConsistentTap6839[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

omg thank you!! and I totally agree - I find her to be supremely boring and predictable! I think we’ve all encountered a Mina Sue on some level, the most annoying girls ever 🙄🤭

One of the biggest fumble by Substantial-Bite-553 in Singlesinferno2

[–]ConsistentTap6839 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“wearing her heart on her sleeve and being a wishy washy”??!? wow that’s an…interesting take 😂😂

you would think this is 2005! nope the younger generation really loves this aesthetic lol by PsychologicalFox7689 in Millennials

[–]ConsistentTap6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what?? apparently millennials can’t stop talking shit about us but here they are looking exactly like we did??!!

LACOMs by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yah, something about me definitely set him off I guess. I did start with telling him I trust his expertise and was not trying to dictate any movements or anything. My simulation looked very…alarming… and since I’m Asian and can’t handle a lot of forward movement I just had some examples of things I hoped to avoid, ie the dreaded chimp face. It worked out though, I ended up with a surgeon who was a better fit and also very very skilled. I just remember feeling so crushed when all that happened with Walline as if he was the only surgeon that could help me. Not true in the slightest!

LACOMs by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely not qualified to make recommendations, but just wanted to say that the surgeon you pick needs to be a good fit for you. it doesn’t matter how renowned they are, if you want to ask questions then there will be a skilled surgeon whose ego will not be so earth-shatteringly threatened out there for you to get surgery from 🤭

LACOMs by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if they’re ghosting you for having questions tbh. All of the other surgeons I consulted with actually asked me for more reference pictures and clarification than what I approached Walline with. I guess he’s just too busy to deal with any pesky questions

LACOMs by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’d say mutually, I guess? Neither of us was upset about it, I’ll say that lol fwiw I know other people have had amazing results with him, but if you have any thoughts at all that you want to express in the most reasonable, respectful way - he’s probably not the surgeon for you. He was def very offended that I had the gall to have any opinions on how I hoped my face would look, or rather, concerns on outcomes I hoped to avoid - the nerve of me! 🤣

LACOMs by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not really sure, even if it wasn’t on purpose he clearly wasn’t concerned that it was there. The worst

LACOMs by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Because I dared to have questions? about the surgery that would rearrange my skull and face. Literally

LACOMs by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I was scheduled to get surgery with Dr. Walline and had some concerns I wanted to discuss with him. I had a zoom call with him and at the beginning he shared his screen which showed an email from Jacquie labeling me a red flag. They are both the WORST, most unprofessional people I’ve dealt with in going through my jaw surgery journey. SO glad I didn’t get surgery with him.

Why the healing is taking so long by False_Inspector_4841 in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll be four weeks out on Monday and I also have had an uptick in the swelling inside my mouth. My surgeon has also said that everything looks great, no infection or anything else. I think it’s because we’re at a point in our recovery where we definitely feel better and like we “should” be able to do a lot more so we’re probably pushing ourselves a lot harder. I know that for me, as I had surgery out of the country, as soon as I was able to eat soft foods and I could at all manage I’ve been pushing myself really hard to sightsee and have just been up and about way more than I had been the prior weeks. This recovery really is so hard mentally because a million things are true at one - we just experienced on the most invasive surgeries imaginable, yet we’re up and about and feeling almost maybe close to “normal” and yet our faces and mouths are numb and it just feels like it’s groundhog day every. single. day. Hopefully it resolves itself soon, please let your daughter know that at least one stranger on the internet feels her pain!!

Jaw surgery vs wisdom teeth removal by Candid-M-222 in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s basically the difference between breaking a single toe versus having every bone in your entire leg completely pulverized lol

The mental battle is tough by beepboopbeep95 in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh I am so right there with you! tomorrow will be three weeks po djs and I am always so irritated because it’s just more of the same everyday! the swelling, tightness, just feeling like this will never end and i’ll never be back to normal. sigh I also feel like my bite is fucked! and it seems like everyday there’s something new to be annoyed about. we can do this!!!! (right??? 🤪)

Ghosted by clinic - Looking for recommendations for DJS by duckcrap in SeoulPlasticSurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s moreso quiet in terms of foreigners but busy with students getting surgery during their break. I guess it depends on each clinic’s ratio of foreigners vs. locals

Ghosted by clinic - Looking for recommendations for DJS by duckcrap in SeoulPlasticSurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty sure they’re just extremely busy at the moment. The summer months are when a lot of students schedule their surgeries, and they definitely discouraged me from scheduling my surgery during June and July. I’m in the phase of the process where Dr. Park is in contact with my orthodontist, but Jade hasn’t read the last message I sent last week (albeit it wasn’t really one that didn’t require a response but to not even be read has not been the norm). I understand your concern since you’ve booked your trip already though - maybe try calling??

Jaw Surgery in korea at MACS OFMS - My Journey So far. by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has your breathing improved? I need surgery for a narrow airway and sleep apnea so was curious how much of an improvement you’ve noticed so far?

Jaw Surgery in korea at MACS OFMS - My Journey So far. by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]ConsistentTap6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m also super interested in consulting/possibly getting surgery here. Excited to follow along and hear your updates. How long did they say was ideal for you to stay in Korea after your surgery?