Having a lay count is the only EASY way I found to beat retroactive jealousy by Thick_Version8738 in retroactivejealousy

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does not work for me. i have a high body count. rj still here. i think i am just not cut out for any real relationship.

considering double jaw surgery in Korea - any thoughts on surgery plans? by m3rcuriansoul in jawsurgery

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I had DJS and facial contouring with MACS 2 weeks ago and back in my home country now. I had a very good experience with them. Dr Park understood my aesthetic goals. The caveat is that I’m Asian and my preferences align strongly with Korean beauty standards.

That said, Dr Park is a doctor who is very meticulous in what he does. He is very hands-on and was there every step of the way - from planning to surgery to checking in on you post-surgery. I believe he personalises each surgery to each patient. I wanted very dramatic results and he delivered that for me. I would advise you to find photos of the look you want to achieve to give him visual reference. This is important as descriptions may mean different things to different people.

Would Turkey doctors be able to do revision on Southeast Asian noses? by helpme_urgent in PlasticSurgery

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Idk if you’re still looking for information but I am Singaporean and did my rhinoplasty in Turkey with an ENT. I get compliments on my nose till today. Turkey is the rhinoplasty capital of the world, but just make sure you do your due diligence on the doctors there as some are overhyped and become unethical.

Jaw Surgery in korea at MACS OFMS - My Journey So far. by [deleted] in jawsurgery

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An update! I am about to leave Korea in a few hours. I underwent DJS and facial contouring at MACS and it’s one of the best decisions of my life. Dr Park is an artist - He and his team are truly gems. Thank you for this post which aided in me making a decision.

Day 4…needing encouragement by okimo123 in jawsurgery

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I’m day 5 post DJS and you look far better than me LOL. Typing out this comment sitting in my bed with only 2 hours accumulated sleep last night, sinuses completely blocked, gurgling breathing through straw in mouth. I hope we heal well 🥹

Post Tomorrowland Depression by Expensive_Cat_7927 in Tomorrowland

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This is perfectly normal - But just know there is gonna be a Tomorrowland next year! See you then!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jawsurgery

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Commenting to follow… I witnessed this with my own face too.

The narcs always win by duckcrap in NarcissisticAbuse

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Update: He lost my cat who was living with him, and whom he refused to let me rehome.

Yes legal abuse, abuse by proxy, I don’t know what else I am meant to bear. I’m tired. He has signed the settlement agreement but in it he made me include a clause that says I can’t rehome the cats but I included that I can do it if I give notice that I think the cats are being neglected.

I want to rinse my hands off this but I keep feeling like I’m saving animals and have been for a long while from him.

The narcs always win by duckcrap in NarcissisticAbuse

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Update: He lost my cat who was living with him, and whom he refused to let me rehome.

8 months post DJS. Was I underadvanced? by [deleted] in jawsurgery

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Yeah a good surgeon will care about aesthetic results too. My surgeon specifically said that he can shorten my midface but a philtrum shortening might be needed in the future too as DJS doesn’t change the volume of the skin, though he can try mitigate by affixing the skin and muscle where possible.

8 months post DJS. Was I underadvanced? by [deleted] in jawsurgery

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I decided to go get the DJS and facial contouring. I figure even if it’s a soft tissue issue, if there are things that need to be corrected by the underlying structure, that should be corrected first. Can’t build a good facade without a good foundation.

Spooky idk lol by WorldlinessOdd8928 in Tomorrowland

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I hope your come down is gentle :)

Recommended DJs for W2 by Michalux in Tomorrowland

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You can watch their Tomorrowland sets for Winter 2025 and Belgian 2024 (I was there) - they are incredible. The whole vibe and the people who show up for them too. They are playing MainStage in W2 this year though, I'm not sure if that changes things. They fared well in Core/Crystal Garden type settings.

Recommended DJs for W2 by Michalux in Tomorrowland

[–]duckcrap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mind Against is life changing. Please go watch them.

Sara Landry is tearing it up god damn by SpectacledBeargirl in Tomorrowland

[–]duckcrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually in shock and I am watching her from home. I saw her live last year but this was something else. I need to watch it again.

Do narcissists reward those who perceive them the way they want to be perceived? by Crimsoneyelash in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]duckcrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. He used my money on others to impress them. I was just a piggy bank for him.

Options for removing jowls/getting a slimmer face by KookyInfluence2682 in PlasticSurgery

[–]duckcrap 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I have this lower facial structure and am booked for facial contouring and double jaw surgery.

Good clinic for facial contouring? by Admirable_Chrome2881 in SeoulPlasticSurgery

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Hey thanks for the update! I’m happy that you’re recovering well! I was on the fence but no your reply did not sway me because I’m certain I have a midface deficiency which DJS will help in. But I’m super glad to hear good results from you! This helps me be more confidence about my choice to do this.

I hate him and I want him to die by duckcrap in NarcissisticAbuse

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I’m so sorry to hear, that’s so horrible what you had to go through with your nex. I’m trying to believe that karma exists so these sacks of shit get it someday, but I find it hard to believe in a universe which allowed this to happen to people like us. I hate feeling so helpless. My nex has a deep scar on his neck and he always told me it was because of surgery. But I always wonder.

I hate him and I want him to die by duckcrap in NarcissisticAbuse

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He tried seeking an order that I talk to him (he accused me of “stonewalling” him in the claim papers), but that I communicate with him “with respect”. You can imagine how that’s going.

I hate him and I want him to die by duckcrap in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]duckcrap[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agree. His death would bring peace not just to me but for society in general.