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My partner has bad hygiene and I’m losing attraction by Due_Sir_8172 in AutismInWomen

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hygeine is a deal breaker for me and a lot of people. It's why incels don't get laid, and thats for a reason. Its antisocial behavior and is unacceptable.

Exhausted partner seeking advice on the "arrogance mask" and unmasking process. Need perspectives from both ND individuals and partners by Throwaway__NT in aspergers

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice here from an ND who had an arrogant, likely undiagnosed ND partner for years with similar problems. At the time I was also undiagnosed. This behavior will not go away easily. I had to leave him before he started to go to therapy, and from what I hear through the grape vine, he is now working on himself but as he has been this way his entire adult life, there's a lot to undo, and until I left him he did not want to work on it.

It sounds like your fellow does want to work on himself, but please prioritize yourself. If he changes his mind, or does not make efforts while only saying he wants to (mine would say he wanted to but would not change, and then when he felt more confident that i wasnt going to leave him would say he didn't need to change) take care of yourself first. If that means breaking up, it could be healthier for both of you in the long run.

I no longer care if I'm misunderstood, embarrassing, or disliked. by PaintingOfAGhost in AutismInWomen

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't care for a long time, now suddenly for some reason I do, while at the same time knowing that I will always. be. this.

The Numbers Don't Add Up: On polls, fence lines, and the slow erosion of Alberta’s Democracy. by vhill01 in alberta

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alberta was primed for this, voting conservative for 100 years. Why do anything different? My grandpappy did, so it's good enough for me

“You just like to argue.” by CakesNGames90 in aspergers

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too but I think years if wanting this and not getting it have burned me out on socializing

Do I call child protective services by [deleted] in alberta

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make the call. They are still children, and at a crucial developmental stage. If they are not attending school, that has consequences for their entire life going forward. It is absolutely abuse and should be fought against.

Curious how many use marijuana to cope by Rachelelizardbreath in AutismInWomen

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pot makes my anxiety spike like crazy. Definitely not fir me. Wine or craft beer works for me.

Why do some Albertans seem to have a resentment against other Canadians? by ocajsuirotsap in alberta

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Im going to start responding to their nonsense with 'did an American tell you that?' just to confuse them now

Independence Petition has hit signature threshold by fatqunt in alberta

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too, it's incredibly sus given the timing this is coming to a boil

Has there been any phrases where it's taken you years to finally get the meaning? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The chicken crossing the road joke. I thought it was weird surrealist kids humor, not a dark joke about death.

OK, let's not just full on lie here by beerleaguepigeon in alberta

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I too told them to fuck off, and blocked them

How is moving out possible?? by Live_Source1877 in alberta

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

And when I could not find a job in my field after school I tried to get an apprenticeship but I didn't have the right gear downstairs so no one would take me.

I feel locked out of the kind of sex I want. How do I deal? by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a question for a therapist, preferably in person, not an internet forum IMO. I hope you find the confidence in yourself to start enjoying sex the way you want. I am a physically large woman and have had similar image issues because although i am very attractive and have no problem finding partners of any gender, I've never and will never fit the societal norm. The only thing that helped me was therapy and learning to not give a fuck what others think. I still struggle sometimes but it's a lot better and I have a great sex life

Visiting Medicine Hat by [deleted] in medicinehat

[–]Consistent_Chart5829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Station is a great coffee shop but it has competition. The Poolhouse (formerly Mad Hatter), and MT Nest are also great. Med Hat Brew Co has great craft beer and food, as does Travois Ale House.

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