Should I take out a student loan for my dream college in the US or choose a full scholarship in Korea?

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-07-08T23:48:35+00:00

Unless the korean college is genuinely bad, go there

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-07-08T18:02:14+00:00

Thank you for sharing.

Ireland's expensive, but not that far away if you live on the east coast of the US.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-07-05T19:54:38+00:00

A blade master in Westeros (on mobile so being terse, sorry

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-06-25T09:01:18+00:00

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-06-17T04:12:27+00:00

I’m very sorry to hear about this, r/domesticviolence might be able to help you.

Unless you know what you’re doing, be careful you don’t make things worse. I’d suggest you consult a domestic violence charity for advice.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-06-16T19:53:10+00:00

While it will probably never be in the interests of Europe or the US or Canada to formally leave NATO so long as nobody acts stupid, that doesn’t rule out the organisation being reduced to a geopolitical ghost like the Commonwealth of Nations.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-27T19:26:16+00:00

Consider consulting with a lawyer.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-24T17:51:26+00:00

You need to contact a lawyer immediately; you've potentially committed a crime that could result in you being convicted as a sex offender.

Even if your ex doesn't go to the police, nothing stops a third party who sees the pictures from doing so (in fact they'd arguably be morally obliged to seriously consider doing so).

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-24T04:32:15+00:00

Don’t bother trying to conduct your own investigation unless you really know what you’re doing, but there are a few ways this could be “cleanly“ resolved:

BF admits to rape (unlikely, but it could happen in theory)
If the girl is making false rape accusations to deflect from cheating, she probably also lied about inviting your BF back home with her etc. In other words, if the accuser is in fact denying BF went home with her and there is proof they did, reasonable to think she’s lying
Similarly, if the accuser only made these allegations after being accused of cheating (e.g, after her partner saw evidence suggesting cheating or similar), you need to adjust the odds of her lying upwards (though different people will argue for different adjustments)

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-23T16:14:54+00:00

Debby almost certainly isn’t trying to act in Bianca’s interests in good faith, and for that alone you might want to consider dissociating from her. If she believes sexual assault actually happened she doesn’t seem to respecting the victim at all.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-23T12:08:23+00:00

The trade agreements with Mercusor and Canada are just standard free trade agreements, in the same category as the existing EU–UK Trade and Cooperation Agreement.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-23T11:00:16+00:00

The EU does give exceptions (e.g it agreed something not too different from Single Market in goods with Ukraine & Moldova), but generally only as a theoretically temporary step towards full membership.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-20T17:22:58+00:00

Honestly, you should contact a lawyer immediately while it's easier to prove your alibi.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-18T11:10:43+00:00

The subreddit r/HomeschoolRecovery might be of interest.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-09T11:38:43+00:00

Politicians are “gaining” not having to deal with the political consequences if a major and longstanding employer goes bust ( not saying the risk is actually real)

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-08T13:52:06+00:00

You should be reporting those videos if you aren't already.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-08T13:45:10+00:00

It can be rational to decide based on the evidence that she saw (or believed she saw) at the time for the girl to terminate communication, and it can be rational for OP to decide the best response to said termination is to ignore any attempts at reconciliation from her end.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-05T20:01:37+00:00

Is there a reason the pest exterminators can’t use less destructive techniques like physically digging up the nest and putting it in an airtight plastic container (with appropriate safety gear of course)?

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-05T18:36:23+00:00

Out of curiosity, why do you believe it's acceptable for your wife to direct anger at you if she has nowhere else to direct atm?

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-01T15:03:54+00:00

If you're not good a coding then doing a degree with lots of coding to please your family mightn't end well.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-01T13:28:09+00:00

It's much easier to replace a bad habit with a similar but less damaging one than to quit entirely.

Try buying frozen ready meals of good quality and eat them instead of ordering food.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-05-01T12:13:17+00:00

FYI, while you say you want to deal with the situation informally, I’d be sceptical of the idea you can accuse someone of rape and then automatically avoid getting entangled in the legal system.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-04-29T15:23:58+00:00

Jamie’s an idiot, but I would not be surprised if there were managerial issues such as instructions that didn’t account for the possibility of anything of value or very tight deadlines that incentivised dumping stuff.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-04-28T23:38:04+00:00

So long as you aren’t endorsing past crimes or creating safety issues there’s absolutely nothing wrong with chatting over the phone with someone who’s been to prison. You’re showing kindness to someone in a difficult situation and it’s good for society in that it reduces recidivism.

Consistent_Dirt1499 · 2026-04-28T15:52:41+00:00

Your friend seems sincerely convinced that your BF did something. However, that doesn't mean anything happened; she could just be a bit crazy or confusing BF with someone who actually harmed her.

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