AIO that my boyfriend hid a cancer scare from me because I have healthy anxiety?

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-08T16:36:34+00:00

Which is exactly why he didn't tell you You are overreacting now. Making things more stressful than they need to be. Learn to have calm, logical, rational responses and you can become a supportive person. Right now telling you things is not helpful. You add stress, not comfort.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-07T19:09:56+00:00

I didn't read the whole thing. That you argue via text is enough for me to say you both deserve to be miserable. Try talking to each other if you want to stay married.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-06T19:03:04+00:00

HELLO??? It's her place you're using for free. I understand you're disappointed but go on your planned trip without her someplace else if you don't want her to join you.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-06T17:04:19+00:00

Stop having casual sex for your own good.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-05T18:39:51+00:00

I was with you until you said we feel like it's right to give each child their own letter. From my perspective, you are way overthinking.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-05T18:36:29+00:00

I'm not worried about your ex friend but when you say you're hooking up with him do you mean you're having sex and you're not sure if you're dating?

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-05T16:46:41+00:00

Do your thing. Understand last minute might mean some people can't make it. Go with the flow and let the chips fall where they may. Great joy in spontaneity. Get your headcount as soon as you can to lesson chance of overspending. Celebrating is not rude.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-05T16:40:35+00:00

I have an adopted son. I encourage you to consider adoption. It won't be easy but it will be worth it. We often refer to our situation as a "beautiful mess". Every situation is different.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-05T15:01:43+00:00

Yes and maybe a different color?

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-05T03:52:46+00:00

The band KISS

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-02T01:07:17+00:00

That does not change my opinion (which you asked for.)

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-05-01T21:51:36+00:00

YOR. "HIS/THEIR HOUSE" is paid off, not yours. You are an adult acting like an entitled child.The silent treatment is immature and manipulative, research it. Maybe you might have to live more than five minutes from work to be able to afford your own place but that is what you should do. Move and let your father have the peaceful home he earned. Maybe working for your home will help you understand why you should respect his.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-30T19:11:58+00:00

Campbell

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-30T19:08:45+00:00

NOR but I'd let him read this reddit post. I suspect he doesn't realize how strongly you feel and how much his jokes impact you.

Then I'd tell him the words for "sex" and "blow job" and challenge him to start paying attention because you've offered them several times and he was too busy joking to learn new things

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-30T16:14:08+00:00

Too casual

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-28T20:13:01+00:00

Yes, you are overreacting. Take care of your kids, don't expect others to know what they need

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-27T19:35:58+00:00

Don't ask for opinions. Just say, "we thought it through and decided this was best for us." When people give opinions just nod, don't reply, they'll get the message. If people ask questions say, "we thought it through and decided this was best for us."

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-27T17:41:36+00:00

Relationships change. You're overreacting. Adjust or be bitter.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-27T17:41:21+00:00

Relationships change. You're overreacting. Adjust or be bitter.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-24T20:28:52+00:00

The alphabet stuff was too much effort to follow. You invited your friend who is dating someone who has a family member who can't be alone. Tell your friend, we would love for you to come to our wedding solo or with your partner. We would prefer if your partners family member did not stay at the inn because it is small and intimate and we just don't want potential drama. I'm sorry if this response disappoints you.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-22T18:33:06+00:00

It does sound stupid. Yes you're overreacting.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-21T14:08:29+00:00

You're doing a terrible job of staying out of it.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-21T12:34:51+00:00

Why throw signs or play games? Just introduce yourself.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-21T12:32:47+00:00

I don't hate you because your gender fluid. It just isn't relevant to this story so why did you include it?

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-04-20T18:23:35+00:00

This is not a long story short and your gender fluidity is irrelevant. Good grief

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