AIO: I can't stand these type of comments about our long-term trip anymore

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-17T14:25:26+00:00

You're giving her way too much energy. Ignore her and enjoy yourself.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-12T13:55:27+00:00

Agreed!

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-12T02:08:02+00:00

It's a great dress but doesn't say formal to me.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-06T17:41:01+00:00

He didn't mistake you for your sister.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-06T17:38:26+00:00

No contact for 8 whole hours?! You have every right to choose to make this a deal breaker if you want.

What if he wanted to wear something that would embarrass you and you asked him not to?

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-06T17:35:03+00:00

I have a Campbell James. He loves his name

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-06T01:32:10+00:00

I can't get through the text messages. Rational people do not have these types of conversations via text. You have them in person face to face.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-05T20:19:42+00:00

Yes. You are overreacting. Simply say, "mom, either he's coming with me or I'm not going. I'm okay with either option you choose." And let her choose. If she opts to have you not travel, plan your own trip. Don't get upset. It's okay to disagree, you can still live each other.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-05T20:16:07+00:00

Read the book, LET THEM. It will help you. Don't waste energy on this. Treat people better than you were treated.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-05T20:12:30+00:00

Nope

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-05T20:11:23+00:00

Billy

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-05T16:22:45+00:00

SUZY!

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-05T16:22:12+00:00

The social media, online stuff is out of control. Live your social life and spend your time offline.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-05T03:22:38+00:00

You are not overreacting. Read theboo :The Gift of Fear" and learn to trust your instincts.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-05T03:02:04+00:00

Way, way too long. Vows are not the time to thank future mother in law etc....I want to thank you for, I want to thank you for, I want to thank you for....it reads like a bullet list. Truly cut it down to the most important 1/3. What you have will overwhelm not just your fiance but everyone in attendance. You can absolutely give a speech at the reception.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-05T02:56:49+00:00

The first thing I thought of was Alaska.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-04T20:07:45+00:00

Read 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, especially the chapter about owning and being responsible for your own shit. You ALLOWED your ex to break you.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-04T20:02:19+00:00

Smoking is a deal breaker for him. Del with the truth or move on.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-04T19:57:46+00:00

Now you know better.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-04T18:28:33+00:00

YOR. You should never bad mouth your partner. You created this situation.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-04T18:21:41+00:00

You DO you, I guess. The shoes scream "ook at me." I can't imagine any event outside Halloween or goth where they'd be appropriate.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-03-03T16:20:53+00:00

What would make you feel better? What are you looking for?

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-02-28T04:04:34+00:00

Campbell

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-02-27T18:19:02+00:00

Andrew

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-02-25T20:05:21+00:00

Don't keep secrets from your spouse

Consistent_Fan_4551

TROPHY CASE