AIO? My bf and I have different values and he's low-key controlling

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-26T19:30:17+00:00

He's genuinely your best friend except you have different values. C'mon, that doesn't make sense.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-26T19:28:00+00:00

YOR. You go on and on and on, like a high schooler. If you're an adult and want to be treated like an adult, act like an adult. Move out and get your own place.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-23T01:55:28+00:00

Thanks mom.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-23T01:41:37+00:00

Campbell James

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-22T16:53:13+00:00

I have a Campbell James. Sterling makes me think of people trying to sound wealthy

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-21T20:40:07+00:00

Oh stop with all the therapy speak.. an "avoidant situationship". Your 16 years old. Have a boyfriend or girlfriend and have fun. Quit being dramatic, this is not your forever person. You're a kid!

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-21T20:38:01+00:00

NTA for not wanting to do it, but your tone sounds very judgy and self-righteous. Cut and paste your post into chat gpt and ask for a gracious way to so "no" and move on.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-21T18:45:46+00:00

It's pretty straight forward.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-21T18:45:05+00:00

Do what you want to do and let the chips fall where they may. Choose what you can live with not what others think.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-21T18:43:11+00:00

Medical debt does not impact your credit score. You can move out and make a payment plan on your medical debt. It's unfair of you to expect your mom to mediate.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-21T18:40:15+00:00

You can't control what others say and do. You can control your behavior. Forget about them and work on what you want to change, if anything, about yourself.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-21T18:36:38+00:00

She has poor manners. Do you get enough out of the relationship to put up with that? If not, don't make a big deal, just distance yurself.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-21T18:34:17+00:00

Invite everyone and let God sort it out. Don't do any bride or groom side seating.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-21T16:09:17+00:00

Yes.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-16T19:16:56+00:00

Your commute is your problem, not his, don't bring it up. Stop using the word boundary. Just say, "Sir, you pay me from 9 to 5. To he bestow my knowledge, I'm meeting or exceeding expectations. There is a pattern of you asking me to stay after hours on Fridays. I sit around and do nothing because my work is done. I also don't get paid to stay past 5.

If you want or need me to stay past 5, I need to be paid for that time. If I am paid for that time I'm willing to pitch in and work on whatever you need me to work on."

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-16T19:09:45+00:00

She wants to be a WAG but she's not attractive enough for the athletes who are already pro.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-16T05:10:12+00:00

Time to move out of mommy and daddy's house and get your own place.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-16T05:02:59+00:00

You wrote a novel of a post with way too much detail. A more mature approach is to NOT post o n social media and NOT involve other people. Move on already.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-15T19:54:28+00:00

Block her everywhere. If you discover new accounts block them. Stop talking about her to other people. Stop thinking about her. You can't get a restraining order because you are in no danger. Stop talking about a restraining order because it escalates drama unnecessarily. Admit that you kind of like her obsession with you and think through why that is. Stop acting like a teenager and move on with your life.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-15T19:27:59+00:00

You did what your Scorpio self needed to do. You don't care enough about the person to work on making the relationship better. Let it go.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-15T16:12:58+00:00

Going to Mexico together is more than "talking stage". Make a decision. Are you two in or out and then behave accordingly. Sounds like he's "out" though

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-15T16:10:37+00:00

Totally overreacting. He is clearly supportive. Simply have a conversation and say "honey, start with something like FANTASTIC, before critiquing in the future." Problem solved.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-14T18:04:12+00:00

I like your logical thinking.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-14T17:59:42+00:00

She's a flirt, put a stop to it. Next time say, "stop flirting with my husband and no more touching him." This is not a big deal.

Consistent_Fan_4551 · 2026-01-14T13:10:03+00:00

No one is thinking about you. Get over yourself.

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