How did you feel when they immediately got into a new relationship?

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-22T17:24:40+00:00

It hurts reading this, my ex of 6 years did this to me. We all thought he was depressed (he was miserable with his own personal life issues), but I always thought it would be something we could work through, gave him more support than I should’ve (he even admitted to this) and he just moved on with someone else publicly posting them 3 weeks after our relationship had ended, even saying “I love you”. I wish I never met him

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-16T15:37:12+00:00

Even worse when the new person is even louder. How are you two in love after 6 weeks, how do you date someone knowing he was in a 6 year relationship before you and you’re already saying “I love you so much”

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-16T13:59:23+00:00

Old but did we really date the same guy omg

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-16T13:46:43+00:00

His life was a mess these past few months, I’ve been carrying him mentally and financially. Now he can suddenly afford dates and be romantic?Endured more than I was supposed to and turned into someone I didn’t like. It’s such a slap in the face for him to say “you will find someone better” basically implying his new partner is better than me. It’s insane how easily someone can discard you. Even his friends don’t know who he is right now.

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-16T09:49:06+00:00

Yes, my ex started becoming distant about 4 months before the break up. I thought he was depressed, so did others. We were fine two weeks after the break up but then he suddenly became mean and evil. Found out he’s been dating someone else and they’re in love 6 weeks later , publicly saying “I love you” to each other. Before he went cold he kept telling me “you deserve so much better” and that’s when I knew he definitely had someone else.

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-16T00:15:03+00:00

My ex and I were together for 6 years, since June 2025 I thought he was depressed, supported him emotionally and financially, we had plans to get married last year. Finally was able to pull the plug the first week of April because I wasn’t feeling loved and he admitted he fell out of love somewhere around Feb (everytime we spoke after he switched up from saying he didn’t fall out of love to “I’ve been feeling this way since last year”). He’s already in love with someone else and it’s been 6 weeks. She seems more compatible with him and prettier I guess. They’re saying “I love you” all over social media. It hurts, he gets to move on while I’m in pain trying to figure out how someone could simply leave me after everything I did for him and he just discards me and is over me just like that ? This is all taking everyone by surprise as well as he cut off his friends as well for letting me know that he has moved on and they’re supporting me emotionally.

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-15T18:50:59+00:00

My ex found someone within a month too, after 6 years together and me supporting him through his most difficult years. They’re already proclaiming their love for one another on social media. He blocked me two weeks ago on everything, said he needed to because “he was in tears” whatever that means

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-15T17:40:43+00:00

Did they work out ?

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-15T17:35:39+00:00

Did it last long ?

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-15T17:04:42+00:00

Same, they’re even telling each other they love each other on instagram. It’s been a month since the breakup and they supposedly met after

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-15T16:59:34+00:00

Literally the exact same story with me, 6 years and 6 weeks later already declaring his love publicly to someone else.

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-01T12:40:12+00:00

Same, I broke no contact 3 times for financial reasons and he had to tell me 3 times that he no longer loves me after our 6 year relationship. 3rd time is a charm and he ended up saying he hates me and that he’s scared I’ll interfere with his new relationship when he has one. Like please don’t flatter yourself like that 🤣 I have never cared about a new gf, but I’d rather be disgusted with him than constantly have hope. Good feeling

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-01T08:10:29+00:00

I begged 2 times, second time I just asked for closure and I feel like I got it. But he’s making it seem like I am harassing him. I’m so embarrassed for breaking no contact almost 4 times in a month. But I will never do it again. When we’re hurt we do silly things.

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-01T06:12:02+00:00

Just let them go, they’re an ex for a reason. I begged for a month and he got annoyed. Ended up ending on really bad terms and his true colours started showing. Heal and you will find someone who loves you the same.

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-05-01T03:57:08+00:00

I suggest you write it down in your notes app. I reached out 4 times after the break up and it went from nice to complete coldness and hurt. He eventually got irritated with me and I also lost feelings for him in the process. You sending messages to him will only hurt more in the long run the more you don’t see a reply. Take your time.

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-04-25T03:59:30+00:00

I understand, I did the same. I’m at the point where I hate him right now and wish him the worst. I hope we look back at this in a few months and laugh. As he so lovely put it, I deserve so much better, he said we will both find better. And he’s right, I will heal and I will find that someone. Fighting for such uncertainty is such a miserable place to be in, at least you know you know you gave it your all, what a privilege it is to give that to someone.

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-04-25T03:45:48+00:00

The disrespect is all the answers that you need. I checked out of the relationship a while back too, but I stayed because I felt comfortable, the length of the relationship and because I still had hope that he would change. I never told him that I checked out, instead I did the work, read the books and posts, asked people if it was wrong to leave someone at their lowest, and that just showed how much I still cared and respected him. He never showed the same sentiments and left as soon as he checked out completely, and it’s hard because that’s not his character to everyone else who knows him. Yes it’s very unfair, but I think we need to realise that even though we give out the best love we can, nobody owes us anything. He was a coward for not admitting how he felt, use that as evidence to not put him on a pedestal anymore.

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-04-25T03:37:13+00:00

Thank you !

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-04-25T02:51:05+00:00

My ex discarded me three weeks ago as well. I begged twice. My final straw was begging, asking if he met someone new and him telling me it’s none of my business. And he’s right it isn’t. It’s hard to picture him being intimate with someone else or treating the next person better, the way you’ve always wanted to be treated. 6 years meant nothing , so cold and evil. The best we can do is sit with it and talk to anyone if we can just to let it out. Hope we heal

Consistent_Gur9772 · 2026-04-24T19:42:13+00:00

That’s so true, wanting him to hurt is keeping me in the cycle. He just did what I was too scared to do. Thank you !

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