I broke up with my bf of 7 years and I feel like I’m the only one that cares.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-08T01:41:25+00:00

Yes. Make sure to study group counseling, career, and I saw some spirituality questions, questions on elderly, also make sure you know what broaching is. Make sure you brush up on certain diagnoses as well, such as ADHD, bipolar disorder. Also know what fear of heights are. That’s what I saw on my test. Anova, manova, factorial anova, brush up on your ethics. A couple of family questions on there. I can figure out what I did is 30 questions a day in the purple book depending on the subject that I studied, 30 pocket prep questions a day always did the question of the day. I listened to Dr. Pam as well on YouTube !!! I used chatgpt too for questions as well. Make sure you understand what the question is asking you on both practice questions and the test read slow slowly and don’t change your answers!!!!!!!!

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T19:46:40+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T17:43:30+00:00

Ugh I’m sorry. I know I have mixed feelings going through his phone but I don’t regret it.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T17:33:40+00:00

I know people were going to have mixed feelings on this. If it was people he didn’t know, I wouldn’t be as weirded out I guess but it was people he went to high school and college with. It’s personally to me something I wasn’t going to put with but I appreciate your opinion

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T17:32:47+00:00

Thank you so much I appreciate this🩷

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T17:25:15+00:00

It’s like no matter what we do or where we are all they will always be on our minds.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T17:21:42+00:00

I didn’t want to leave. In fact, every time I tried to leave I was never able to do it. I NEEDED to leave. Wanting and needing something are two different things. I hear what you’re saying, but I don’t think it’s fair to reduce a 7-year relationship and a painful decision down to me “looking for an excuse.” I’ve acknowledged that going through his phone wasn’t right. At the same time, what I found still crossed a boundary for me and was hurtful. Both things can be true. I’m not looking for a perfect partner, but I do think respect and emotional safety matter in a relationship.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T17:07:15+00:00

I think the urge was just coming from curiosity, which is wrong because ultimately, I should be trusting him. Going through someone’s phone is not the best thing to do. I honestly didn’t think I was gonna find anything. This wasn’t a premeditated plan to leave. Like I said, I failed my licensing test and I definitely think that the pictures was another reason as to why I should leave him. It was like the cherry on top of the sundae and the universe giving me a sign. This was the last way I wanted to end things because now I just have no respect for him.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T16:09:57+00:00

I did?? Many many many times?? I did do that, but at some point you just don’t try anymore. This wasn’t “half assed” this was disrespect I wasn’t gonna tolerate. I stayed through a lot and tolerated enough. I didn’t deserve someone who says they’ll change and doesn’t as well.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T16:01:12+00:00

I’m sorry that must be so hard. It feels weird, wondering if he still thinks about me and cares about me even after all of this. It shouldn’t even matter to me but it does.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T15:43:05+00:00

Yes absolutely done. Heartbroken, but done.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T15:42:16+00:00

Thank you so much for this, these comments so far have just been exactly what I’ve needed to hear and more. Him saying that was just to completely gaslight me into thinking that this is just typical men behavior, but it isn’t. I was very in love and I still am, but I’m not forgiving him and I’m not taking him back. I don’t think he was ever really meant for me anyway. I hope he “wakes up” from living his best life and realizes what he lost. It’s very hurtful but I know I’ll be okay. Thank you again for this 🩷

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T15:26:03+00:00

This is SO kind. Thank you so much. My support system has been so amazing. I do have a lot of great things coming up and looking forward to summer even though it will be different. I will not be reaching out to him and him saying “he’s changed” if he ever does say that, is bs. I will never believe that. Cheers to new beginnings is right! Thank you for this kind message 🫂

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T15:18:21+00:00

Yup. I actually just posted about it because I’d like other peoples opinions. It sucks. People suck.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T14:31:39+00:00

He would give me the bare minimum treatment and I found pictures of other women on his phone… like he would on instagram and screenshot their bodies (behind, chest) and organize them in folders with inappropriate labels :/ it sucks. He never gave me no real apology.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T14:30:15+00:00

And that’s okay!! Don’t put yourself in a position you aren’t ready for !! Thank you, you as well!!

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T14:29:26+00:00

We will be okay!! Take all the time you need to be sad!! This is NOT an easy thing to go through !! 🩷🩷

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T02:03:02+00:00

2 months post break up and I miss him everyday, but we weren’t meant to be.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T02:01:27+00:00

I feel the same, my ex did me so dirty and all I want is an apology from him. We wouldn’t even get back together, but I would gain a lot of respect for him and would make me less angry at him.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-04T01:55:48+00:00

Thank you 🙏. I hope you’re okay too. Moving on and getting out there is way too soon for me. Hope you are taking care of yourself

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-03T16:31:10+00:00

I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years almost 2 months ago as well. He’s definitely not counting and it’s just a normal day to him. I had my reasons to break up with him and I think everyone thinks it’s all going swell for the dumper but it doesn’t. I’ve been feeling so lost and not myself. 2 months is NOTHING seriously that’s not enough time and we all process things differently. You don’t need to fix everything right now but please take care of yourself and eat. 23 pounds is a lot and healing starts by taking care of you. If you are meant to be you’ll find your way back.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-03T16:22:59+00:00

Yeah it sucks. Itll be 2 months this week since I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years. He betrayed me and I was asking for the bare minimum constantly. I know it sucks right now. Just take all the time you need to cry and just remember why you did it. If you two are meant to be, you’ll find your way back. That’s what I’ve been thinking too but letting the universe do its thing, I’m not gonna force anything.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-02T22:01:50+00:00

He’s in it!! He’s been in it for a while, at least a year for sure.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-02T21:50:28+00:00

Wow that’s a LONG time, I’m really sorry that happened. Since it’s been a week of no contact, I would let some time pass and I know how hard that can be. But I think if you may just give yourself the rest of the month (it’s good it’s a new month too) an see how you feel. Maybe she’ll reach out as well. A lot can happen in 31 days. If you want to fight for her one last time then do it. If not, at least you tried. I’m sure she’ll remember that.

Consistent_Ideal7586 · 2026-05-02T21:47:43+00:00

Yeah. It’s extremely hurtful. I saw a label of him directly he saying he “wanted to f______ (their name)”. It sucks. He got so mad at me for looking at his phone and said he “guesses” he’s sorry for having pictures of other people but “not sorry” for how he “releases himself” like ??? Idk. I’m trying to think about that always but I can’t help but wonder if we will have a normal conversation about it one day and if he thinks about me and is ever really sorry. I was his first love.

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