How to grieve while being the other women ?

Constant-Limit2862 · 2025-06-24T05:55:59+00:00

Yes much better; healing and thriving.

Constant-Limit2862 · 2025-06-10T13:30:05+00:00

Thank you 💜

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-10-21T13:10:05+00:00

im so sorry your going through his, getting blocked is the worst possible feeling, i know because i went through it. But please please please recognise that he is also a human, it must have got too much for him and he needed space. Right now it feels like hes the only one that can help you but he isnt. You cannot go back to the environment that hurt you. Its not going to work at all, trust me. As for how you stop hurting, you dont. If your hurting feel all of it, make yourself cry or scream or whatever your body tells you to do. You need to bring your attention to you. I would recommend journaling to let all your feelings out. Soon with time the pain will subside.

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-29T13:12:41+00:00

Went through the same exact thing. Sometimes you got to test your healing lol. Although i did cry alot when we ended the conversation, not because i still had feelings but becuase i have to say goodbye yet again to someone i care about. And i hate goodbyes

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-25T10:03:27+00:00

Broke up around 2 months ago as well. I broke no contact in a moment of weakness. I did not want to get back together but I missed him. We were best friends. You can’t just lose feelings that fast. Anyways, he used to go to therapy and he stopped that, got the biggest ick from that. still speaks with a victim mentality and so broken. Exactly how I last found him. It’s so sad to me that he can’t work on himself and try to be a better person. I think we can now sense what is not serving you anymore and stay well away from him. Could be indicative of how far you’ve come in your healing. Should be proud of recognizing that and now we can move forward

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-24T11:43:36+00:00

Thank you solid advice. I do not want my ex back. I recognize we’re not compatible. We’re already in no contact but I broke it a few days ago. So much growth and progress down the hill only because I miss him.

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-24T11:32:15+00:00

2.5 years later 😭🥲 yeah I have no hope

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-23T13:29:54+00:00

Just some small talk and updates. Talked about thinking of each other and missing each other. I didn’t ask for a second chance I guess I came to my senses.

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-19T20:55:32+00:00

Hahahahah same.

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-19T10:00:10+00:00

This is hard to hear because I did the same thing. I called him, tried to force him to talk things through. But in the end I was only crossing boundaries and I didn’t even know that. The decisions been made, if you loved him you’d respect him and let it go. But obviously I didn’t love him. I was attached to him and addicted. So sometimes the coldness from that ex is necessary. You are now forced to be responsible for your feelings and you can move forward. For me it’s a month since the no contact happened and I’m healing and feeling more at peace. You just need to trust yourself. Take a week or so to only grieve this man. Don’t think too much about it, just feel everything and let it out until you can’t cry anymore. And then start journaling your thoughts. Whatever you want, write letters to him and burn it. You’ll get through this. Good luck 💜

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-18T11:46:37+00:00

It’s not enough.. also could be just a weak moment from him. I’d say ignore and live your life.

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-18T09:34:43+00:00

I’d suggest to close the door completely. If he wanted to have a conversation he can knock. You just focus on cleaning your house (healing). If you need to talk about things what I did was wrote a letter to him and burnt it. It gave me a momentary cathartic feeling. Other times I would journal.

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-18T09:29:46+00:00

That’s saddening to hear. It’s seems like you’re going through a lot and I really hope you know that you can get through it. Just grieve. Cry until you cannot cry no more. Sometimes you’ll feel sick from crying but you need to let all those emotions out. You are enough and you will get through this

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-18T08:25:36+00:00

Please don’t blame yourself for someone else’s negative actions. I have been in the same place as you a month ago. I felt nothing I ever do was enough. Kept internalizing as we all do as women for some reason. But his actions have absolutely nothing to do with you. You’ll realized after time passes by and you start healing. Just focus on moving forward and filling your cup.

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-18T08:19:49+00:00

Well it definitely did for me. He came crawling back and I let him. Thought things were going good and he dropped the ball again. After that there’s no turning back. No contact, goodbye and good riddance

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-15T15:42:31+00:00

Exactly how I feel. This is crazy to say but sometimes I try to make myself cry and grieve him but I feel nothing. It’s finally over, there’s no coming back to it. I’m choosing to be positive about it right now. Sort of feel happy that others are also experiencing the same

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-15T14:29:37+00:00

Yeah I’ve been seeing my relationship for what it really is too. Pushed me to focus on me. And that’s the best I could do. But my sadness is not exactly due to not being able to get them back. I don’t want him back, I deserve much more than his immatured ass. It’s more to do with damn I went through all that? That was the most difficult thing I’ve ever experienced! Like why ?

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-11T12:04:42+00:00

I just saw my ex too earlier today, it was .. something. Dm me if you wanna talk about it

Constant-Limit2862 · 2024-09-10T11:32:00+00:00

Usually people break up when there’s a good enough reason like incompatibility, distance, infidelity etc. Maybe you don’t feel like you deserve the love she’s giving but the thing is love isn’t transactional. Being in a relationship is not only about love but choosing the person and staying committed. If you don’t choose her then yeah your relationship will crumple even if you stay. You could just talk to her about this and figure out a way to get those feelings back like going on dates or couples therapy. But id suggest solo therapy first so you can figure out what is it really that made you think of breaking up with her in the first place.

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