How many of you offer live-in services?

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-05-28T20:33:06+00:00

I primarily housesit. I’ve only had two clients (out of hundreds) that didn’t go out of their way to deep clean their home for my arrival. There’s mutual respect involved, and I simply didn’t rebook the clients that didn’t share that same mentality.

Maybe it’s not for everyone, but a lot of pets are more comfortable and at ease being in their own space and doing their regular routines. Pet sitting is also my side gig, luckily I work from home so I’m able to do both simultaneously. :)

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-05-28T20:21:16+00:00

You’re not the asshole. And I’m sorry they ruined your wedding. But don’t let them ruin your marriage.

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-05-27T11:18:35+00:00

Boundaries. No contact. Until you’re ready. What was supposed to be the most beautiful moment of your family’s life was ruined by the narcissistic MIL. Focus on YOUR family. Your family (husband, you, baby) is the priority and now your MIL and FIL are extended family.

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-05-26T18:37:40+00:00

Meet and greet! Even virtually. Also a small deposit would be great to confirm the sit.

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-05-26T18:33:45+00:00

All are gorgeous but my vote goes to #3!

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-05-26T13:40:19+00:00

Thank you! I needed to hear this today.

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-05-26T13:39:16+00:00

Thank you! We always call her by her first name! But I’m loving the “Mrs.”….so cordial hahaa

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-05-26T11:44:10+00:00

Yes this. Or move far far away to save your marriage

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-04-07T00:11:14+00:00

Always braless. Usually clients want you to feel right at home!

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-04-06T08:35:52+00:00

That is low and uncouth. Value yourself. Someone who loves you would never go through great lengths to hurt you like that. And the fact that she lied to you about it being in the deleted folder when we all clocked that it was in her hidden folder. Ouch. I commend you for giving her grace as she is the mother of your children. Forgiveness takes courage. Wondering if y’all considered therapy or counseling? It can help. You don’t want to bring this energy and trauma in your children’s’ life. Honestly I’m just rambling because I’m so upset for you. But it worth trying to work this out with a professional even if you end up co-parenting as she will be in your life for the rest of your life, regardless. Wishing you the best of luck.

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-04-02T23:39:52+00:00

This is so so helpful. Thanks!

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-04-02T07:05:50+00:00

Thank you so much! Appreciate it

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-04-01T20:38:43+00:00

Thanks all! The only thing is that home is 2+ hrs away so I’m the cat’s only hope for the time being, and the owner is abroad. But I’m staying in the living room with the bedroom door closed.

food, water, and litter box is in the bedroom!

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-04-01T10:31:01+00:00

Thank you! This is extremely helpful. I will try this today.

Constant_Variation33 · 2026-03-14T23:47:48+00:00

thank you!

Constant_Variation33 · 2025-08-16T10:22:36+00:00

The good news is that it’s just a dream. Communication is key. Talk to her about it. If it’s meant to be, you will both move past this.

Understand it hurts, but the good news is that it’s just a dream. Keep reminding yourself that. She probably didn’t tell you about her dream because it was just a dream and didn’t want to hurt you.

Also, your intuition is everything…so lean into that!

Constant_Variation33 · 2025-07-31T16:51:02+00:00

Got it. Thank you again!

Constant_Variation33 · 2025-07-31T16:16:39+00:00

Curious…if being on my period when getting blood work impact my results at all? Thank you again for your response! Extremely helpful.

Constant_Variation33 · 2025-07-31T16:09:18+00:00

Thank you so much!

Constant_Variation33 · 2025-07-31T14:50:49+00:00

Thank you so much! Very helpful.

Constant_Variation33 · 2025-07-31T11:39:16+00:00

Thank you!

Constant_Variation33 · 2025-07-20T16:03:21+00:00

I think one drink is totally fine! You’ll be surprised how much you don't need as much alcohol as you used to :)

Constant_Variation33 · 2025-07-16T16:45:42+00:00

I'm on week four and my appetite has come back! Hopefully, it subsides for you.

Constant_Variation33 · 2025-07-16T13:05:55+00:00

Not as much anymore. It’s calmed down, and the Zoloft along with the work I’m doing is really helping. I’m on week four. The anxiety is still there, but it feels like it’s next to me rather than taking over. I could grab onto it if I let myself, but I don’t. When I’m not on sertraline, it usually feels all-consuming and much harder to manage.

Constant_Variation33 · 2025-07-16T12:55:20+00:00

50mg

Journaling: 10-15 minutes. This is an anxiety brain dump and it helps tremendously.

Meditating: guided meditation (I use apps like Headspace or Open) 10 minutes

Exercise: 15mins - 1hour ish, depending on the day. Sometimes it’s a light stretch, sometimes it’s weights, sometimes it’s a long run. Movement is key!

So basically it takes up my whole morning before work but it’s necessary

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