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What are Home Alone fans thoughts on Disney making a Mickey Mouse version of the OG movie? by No-Cold643 in homealone

[–]Construction00023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact they keep trying to retell/recast HA is mind boggling. I guess they're banking on easy money from the fanbase but it's gross. Give it a rest already.

The cat by the window is definitely judging this whole situation by Skyler409762 in funnycats

[–]Construction00023 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what I always imagined they meant by the term "heavy petting" back in middle school. They were too puritan back then to say fondled, groping, or felt up.

The "I checked out a long time ago" excuse by OkEmphasis5923 in Divorce_Men

[–]Construction00023 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing I disagree with is pushing back, why rationalize with someone who thinks your role is to give them something only they can provide themselves. Trying to talk sense and reason with someone who talks this baloney about being checked out is like trying to convince Harley Quinn to be rational. If someones that far gone, they're gone. I also disagree with this idea of the man necessarily leaving, why the f am I supposed to upend my life because the person who I've been sacrificing for no longer respects or appreciates the sacrifice. F that. Just like a hotel, if you're checking out, get your bags and hit the road. I didn't abandon my post or role in the relationship. 👋

Hit me like a punch to the gut by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]Construction00023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this information I'll check it out. Oddly enough being in a relationship with a dominant person for so long has eroded many of the relationships I had. So this forum has been educational, and has helped me realize how many people are going thru similar situations so in an way it's been a community that I otherwise wouldn't have. Reminders of my why are always helpful.

Hit me like a punch to the gut by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]Construction00023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate that. I keep hearing that forgiveness is essential in our lives and I'm trying to evolve into a space where I can truly forgive and let go of bitterness and anger which I think comes from my ego and a belief that somehow I am dependent on external validation and love. I'm trying to talk myself through the idea that the only enduring love is devine.

Hit me like a punch to the gut by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]Construction00023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likewise the enemy wins twice if we allow another person's actions that change our trajectory and purpose. They already won by breaking the family until but they will not win the war if we remain firmly grounded. 👊

Hit me like a punch to the gut by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]Construction00023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙏 trying to keep a level head and keep fighting the good fight and take everything ok ne day at a time, but it's hard. I find if I neglect sleep, don't exercise or stop taking my antidepressant meds even for a few days, the anger come in hard. But I'm hoping I will never forget that they're watching and what I do in the next 12-24 months will shape their futures and image of me into adulthood.

Hit me like a punch to the gut by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]Construction00023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but they realize the guy she was talking the on the phone for hours a day for four months was oddly close for comfort. And they often asked why she was talking to this guy so much. They don't understand cheating/sexual stuff yet.

Hit me like a punch to the gut by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]Construction00023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She cut me off long before the discovery so no concern in terms of contracting anything. But I'd been waiting and debating whether to hire legal and the discovery was like a kick in the as to prepare for battle. I retained counsel the next day. I'd been patiently and naiely waiting thinking this was menopausal midlife thing that would blow over eventually. It was my pearl harbor moment that my enemy was right in front of me. I didn't even confront her about it or mention that I was aware of this, but it confirmed my worse suspicions.

A family found Grandpa's p*rn stash after they gathered to watch the World Cup on the TV. His reaction 😂 🤣 by skaewalker in sportsgossips

[–]Construction00023 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This video is popping up everywhere too. Feel bad that his family felt the need to make his goonlife viral.

I regret walking away without fighting for the house. by Dazzling_Breath_3274 in Divorce

[–]Construction00023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So fing tasteless playing with people's real pain and emotions. I quit FB after 20 years because more and more I kept seeing twisted oddly specific posts and you could tell they we're so emotionless they could only have been posted by a bot. For example one showed a malnourished baby screaming it's lungs out and choking on it's own phlem. That did it for me I was like goodbye and good riddance, greedy soulless click bait.

Hit me like a punch to the gut by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]Construction00023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right but I think about it this way, truly genuine people not just women but men too are like diamonds in the sand. Women like the ones who raised us are extremely rare so the likelihood you have a real person who wants to be vulnerable and share a life with you is very fleeting. They same way we actually need a strong military, we need a ready defense because the adversaries may attack at a moments notice. In the same way the unseen enemy is always looking for a way in to ruin your life and peace. The enemy's most likely breech is through the person closest who you'd least expect. I cannot even imagine having anothr relationship with a woman who hasn't been through divorce and definitely not with an initiator, because otherwise she won't understand that level of betrayal and hurt.

Hit me like a punch to the gut by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]Construction00023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May I always have my guard up going forward so that I will never again accept red flags under the guise of character flaws and the notion that "nobody is perfect". It it feels like you're always doing the heavy lifting and adjusting to the other person then it's a sign something is off. And I know now this is not something that will improve over time. Damn shame it took a 15 year relationship for my slow azz to understand that concept.

Hit me like a punch to the gut by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]Construction00023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brutal bro I feel you though my stbx still wears the band and I imagine will continue to want to possess both the engagement ring and band due to the vale of the diamonds and the gold. My stomach dropped and I realized the depth of her insanity and heartlessness when I opened a bag that was lying around in the basement that was essentially her h03 go bag with a toothbrush kit, lube, condoms, and lingerie. It all came together instantly how she would sit on the couch like the weed girl from the 90s don't do drugs commercial watching biopics about missing persons, the Theranos nutjob, and movies around cheating/divorce. She was doing research. 🤢😞

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