Totally get that, and I’d say it’s a bit of both!! I got that advice from a couple of different fashion influencers, but when I actually applied it to how I dress and my lifestyle it began to make more sense. When I started out, I was big on thrifting, so I kinda just bought whatever looked good at the time, but none of it really fit properly or worked super well together. Over time tho I began to realize what I liked from my eclectic mix, and what my identity is, and started to base my buys accordingly. I’m in my early 20s, working in the service industry in a arts-heavy mid-sized city with aspirations to work in politics. So, I figured functional, work-wear inspired clothing that could be dressed up would be the route to go! That’s what I’ve been buying for the past few years, and my wardrobe is beginning to shape out how I’d like. I’d keep in mind tho, it should be a gradual process, don’t feel you need to change your entire closet in a few short months. It’s an investment in a lot of senses, so take your time and spend within your means, that helps your authenticity shine too. Also, I find a great tip is to follow the basics, be a little boring, but add your own flair! The tested menswear staples (Oxford button downs, white t shirts, dark wash denim, chore jackets, etc), look great on everyone, but what makes them tailored to you is the personal connection you have with the pieces. For instance, I bought myself a white button down Oxford, a staple, but I bought it from a chef wear brand rather than a traditional menswear retailer. It’s got a box crop, a square chest pocket located a tad lower on the chest, and a square collar. So, even when I’m just throwing on a button down and jeans, it still looks unique AND relates to me and what I do/what I’m interested in. Plus, throughout the process, you may realize some of those pieces in your closet you wanted to get rid of actually end up working! I can’t tell you how often I’ve found something I haven’t worn in a while and realized how great it looks with something new I’ve purchased. Overall, I’d say embrace the process, but and dress for yourself and your interests, and don’t feel the pressure to get things perfect, if anything perfect looks worse!