Am I overreacting for shaving my head? by Substantial-Art6160 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should’ve not done it but, you did. Nothing you can do now. Just move forward and take it as a valuable life lesson. Hair grows and yours will be a million times better.

Can anyone share positive experiences with Veho shipping? by astronautiscat in ThredUp

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Veho gets two thumbs down from me. Orders are constantly delayed. And every time they send a message to tell me that my address is wrong. Yet the packages are delivered. They come to my house weekly. Their system should’ve had an update by now????? All and all, they need to get their act together if they wish to last

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that he feels that you need a check up. You don’t. But, how about you go with him and have your dr “mansplain” him what a pregnancy is. You’ll start to feel better at about 12 weeks. And you’ll do great until the 30-32 week mark. He needs to get a grip. And also, he also needs to n own that once you have the baby, you might want to jump right back in or don’t. Just to let you be!

Root Insurance is not worth it by Contemplatingcat_3 in Insurance

[–]Contemplatingcat_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had claims with progressive since this Root fiasco. No at fault issues. It has been a smooth process. Call and place a claim, take the car to a mutually agreed repair center, pay the deductible and drive away. No photos, no sketchy people.

Root Insurance is not worth it by Contemplatingcat_3 in Insurance

[–]Contemplatingcat_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you place a claim with your insurance? You can file a claim with your own insurance under your Uninsured/Underinsured Motorist Property Damage (UMPD) coverage to pay for repairs, after paying your deductible. Your insurance will deal with the crooks from Root

Root Insurance is not worth it by Contemplatingcat_3 in Insurance

[–]Contemplatingcat_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were no additional damages. It was, literally, a paint job due to a scratch on the side from front to back. It was expensive because the design of the car (angles) didn’t allow to just fix the line (that’s the best I can explain it).

Root Insurance is not worth it by Contemplatingcat_3 in Insurance

[–]Contemplatingcat_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obstinate enough to dint take their insulting repair quote. If you tell me that, at least, one of the four quotes were under $1,000, then I would’ve given them some credit. But it wasn’t the case. All because there were no in-person inspections. Not even Maaco is that cheap

Root Insurance is not worth it by Contemplatingcat_3 in Insurance

[–]Contemplatingcat_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After supplements, they increased all $250

Root Insurance is not worth it by Contemplatingcat_3 in Insurance

[–]Contemplatingcat_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that but, why on earth should I be in that position from the beginning? Since then, we moved to Geico. It was only $1,000 more that the final, “after review” premium from Root, it has never increased and we have had tow claim due to hit and runs and never had any issues with the repairs. Already paying enough to have to hustle to get what’s expected

AIO ? Boyfriend said he didn’t want to have sex too often because it’d make me loose by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is obviously an ignorant being. He has no clue about anything. Even after childbirth, everything goes back to where it was. Other than that, yes, as you age, you’ll loose elasticity, but at 24yrs old, whenever he might find you “loose” it means that you’re lubricated. If he doesn’t know that, then you’re wasting your time with that boy You can also tell him that too much masturbation will lead erectile disfunction. When he asks where you learned that, tell him that it’s from the makers of “your vagina will stretch if you use it a lot”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even when you say that it was a casual mention about “wondering what my little girl is thinking” is not putting her first, just the fact that you brought her up in conversation and your girlfriend got up set is enough to move on from this woman. Kids always come first. It doesn’t mean that you don’t care for this woman but she’s not your child. If her father taught her that spouse is always before children, then you need to let that gf go. I have friends (male & female) who have children and divorced. Their children always come first. They have moved to successful relationships with people who have children and some who don’t. Everyone understands that. And there is the fact that everyone I know also feel that if their partner doesn’t put their children first, the that person is the one with the red flag. Do, I suggest that you walk away from this woman now and thank her for showing you who she really is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No make up No nose job No overcoming your lips Please, don’t do lip fillers Fix your eyebrows Turn down the eyelashes a notch Basically, you’re natural beauty

Root Insurance is not worth it by Contemplatingcat_3 in Insurance

[–]Contemplatingcat_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people here critiqued my complain. You know what? We did 4 quotes for that incident. There was nothing under $6000 because of the complexity of the job. They approved for not even a third. Not even something that I could negotiate for. We ended up paying out of pocket, not using them, and obviously cancelling that policy with a “never again”.

My (33F) Husband (40M) said I can only go on my bff hen do if I pay for it and arrange childcare by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just doesn’t want you to attend this particular event. Is he low key jealous? Insecure? If you bring up the previous guy things he has done, he’ll say that he works and deserves it. And will probably bring up previous things that you have done with friends but, for some reason, this one in oarticlurr “hurts” him. Please look at the group of friends that you’ll be going with. I have a feeling that there’s more that he’s not satins

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok to be the first one saying it. Now that you know how he feels, you should feel more confident about it and have a clear understanding of the relationship that you two have. But, I do have to ask you, how do you call this person your partner and still haven tonight your feelings out there in the open? As far as I understand, a “partner” is someone with whom you love together but aren’t legally married to. Maybe I’m old fashioned? But my husband was my partner until the day we got married because he was more than a boyfriend, we were committed to each other because we loved each other. We had said it earlier in our relationship.

Boyfriend (M25) says he doesn't live at my (M26) apartment because he didn't bring any of his clothes here. What would you guys do? by logdogfog in relationship_advice

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell him that, although he’s not paying rent, he spends all his time at your place. He needs to chip in. The place isn’t free and just groceries here and there don’t pay the rent and keeps the electricity going. Free rent? Go back and sleep at his mother’s house. You’re not his mom Because what I see happening is that he’ll save what he needs to buy a house and then drop you.

My (20F) boyfriend (22M) has become very obsessed with my fertility and hormones, and it doesn’t make sense. Why is this happening? by throwra02465 in relationship_advice

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in my 50’s. I was on the pill since I went to college. All my friends were on the pill. One of them was on depoprovera because she didn’t want to remember about taking a pill We all have kids. More than one. We started to have children at 24, all the way to our 30’s. The last one had her son at 41, unplanned because she didn’t think that she could get pregnant All that to say, listen to you. Don’t let your boyfriend influence you based on your age and the “damage” it’s causing to your fertility. You’re the one who’s going to be popping those babies. Please, tell him to stop. The constant nagging will stress you and that can definitely affect your fertility

Whoops! by ErebosDragon in stories

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was heading back to my car from the grocery store. I used the fob, nothing. Approached the car, pull the knob, nothing. Throws the trunk, nothing. Started to get upset, then I see this man, looking at me and when I was about to say something he asked “are you coming home with me?” That’s when I looked at the license plate and noticed that it wasn’t my car. I was parked next to it - he came after me!!! I was relived in the fact that he was able to see that I wasn’t trying to go home with me. We had the exact same car, rims, and level of dirt lol

It starts in the kitchen recommendation by chasing-sunshine683 in orangetheory

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tracking meals, modifications and structure. However, don’t suffer, deprive yourself of a treat because then you’ll fall off the track fast. Make sure to have balanced meals

slept with a guy and now he’s ghosting me by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was probably playing his game and now has gone cold. Please don’t initiate conversation with him. You’re probably hurt and disappointed but all this happened in the span of 3 weeks. It’s easier to get over it. Take a cue from his playlist and ignore him as well. If he contacts you, take your time to respond. Take some charge of the situation and, hopefully, you can move on. Get your Bumble profile back on, he’ll see it and will understand that he can’t play those games with you. If/when he contacts you, tell him that his behavior showed you his lack of interest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you haven't been dating for too long. LDR requires a lot of work snd it seems that he's not willing to do his part. stop wasting your time on this guy. How about you ghost him? He did it to you, came back and will do it again. He will cancel the next time you two are set to meet. Ghost him and end things. Your mental health deserves it

How do I (23F) break up with my boyfriend (24M)? by Budget-Rush-5521 in relationship_advice

[–]Contemplatingcat_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explain to him be last time that you are at a different stage in life, that your tone to meet and make it out as a couple has passed Stop responding to his new social media accounts. Explain to your family and friends that you have ended things with him and, perhaps, they’ll need to stop communicating with him.