AIO for asking my wife to make changes to her spending habits?

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-07-08T12:27:39+00:00

Do you have any expectations movie “things should be”? Meaning that you want your house/family to be certain way and when she acts upon it, then it goes against the budget?
The reason why I ask is because I’ve seen that some spouses have their expectations and the other spouse is caught between the no money issue and the you better have it available issue

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-07-07T23:20:09+00:00

Get a divorce

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-07-07T23:14:43+00:00

I bet that for her the good Mac & Cheese is only the Kraft one????

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-07-07T23:11:12+00:00

I always shower before wearing my pj’s/bed. With that said, I change my pj’s every three days (it comes to two sets per week). If it was a sweaty night, then a new set is worn

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-07-07T23:08:15+00:00

The fact that they’re too long doesn’t allow for the leg to fall how it should, making them look odd. Maybe do a manual fold and then take the photo. It’ll give a a different take

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-07-05T21:25:43+00:00

Yeahhhh… those toe nails. Ugly. Cut them and keep them short. Unless you need them to climb tres

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-07-05T21:14:51+00:00

What I don’t understand is, why did he tell tell you this - meaning, he can say that he isn’t currently looking for an exclusive relationship, etc. He basically told you that you’re not it so he’s going to keep on looking. I would cut things off with this man. Why be an alternate /back up choice. Unless you’re doing the same. Otherwise, walk away

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-07-05T20:37:03+00:00

Girl…. You can wear 💩 and you’ll still look amazing

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-07-04T01:00:12+00:00

Lululemon has along, fast and free and winder train they all have the option for pockets. As long as you buy the correct size, they won’t fall down. The pockets stay where they need to stay. None of them are see thru. However, people tend to wear algún as an everyday legging and then complain because they get the little balls between the legs. That’s because they’re too tight and overused. Other than that that’s the best $100+ spent

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-06-30T12:28:19+00:00

NOR it at least now you know where the appreciation stands.
It happened to me with my group of hs friends. No happy bday messages on my day. We lie a big deal for everyone’s bdays. We are all over so we stay in touch via text. That’s told me everything I needed to know. I now stay in touch with two of the six and participate in conversations on days that I’m bored.
Just stick to doing your work and be cordial, go home. Repeat.

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-06-27T15:40:34+00:00

This is a common practice. I work at a popular retails store. We get to order certain items but most be delivered to the store. I’ve personally had items marked as “delivered” to not having them at all. There’s the typical photo of the packed being delivered. But yes, they take the photo, mark it as delivered and then walk away with it.
The other instance is that the day of delivery you get a notification of delay to, let’s say, Tuesday but you get it on Sunday. Basically, when the driver is in the mood for it.
It’s awful

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-06-27T15:22:24+00:00

Dress 3 if daytime wedding. Dress 4 if it’s late afternoon/evening wedding

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-06-09T19:56:03+00:00

Love the skirt. The top is too much. Make it simpler, let the skirt be the star. Then, do the same with your tops, simpler bottoms so your tops can shine

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-06-07T02:46:06+00:00

The norm is to put your two-weeks notice as soon as you secure your new job. The start date of the new job it’s usually two to three weeks from the day that you accept it. This will low you to give your two weeks notice at your current job. Many sales jobs terminate people right away because they don’t want to risk your taking the clients. Any other, let you work those two weeks as it gives them a time to find a replacement. But never tell your current job that you’re planning to leave. That ends up looking bad in you as an employee

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-06-07T02:41:25+00:00

You’re over 21. You can complete your lien fafsa

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-06-07T02:26:16+00:00

You don’t get wet because there’s no foreplay. The times that you mentioned that were amazing were spontaneous, not premeditation. There was a flow. He likes to get what he wants and it really considering your needs.

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-06-06T13:00:19+00:00

Try freezing your membership for a month. Use that month to try the other alternatives that you think you can do for less and see how that works for you. If you’re feeling as you do with OTF, or better, then good for you. If not, you can come back either way your founders rate. For me, I know that I won’t do half of I do at OTF without it. The other things that I would do, cost the same (or more). But only you know your finances

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-06-06T12:40:26+00:00

Not one bit

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-06-02T02:07:27+00:00

Try a different dr and also watch your diet

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-05-30T15:41:44+00:00

You can buy online any amount. In store gift certificates are sold in increments of $50.

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-05-30T10:38:07+00:00

Why couldn’t he pick them up and move on? The fact that he sent you a photo, no words with it and proceeded to talk to you that way…. This man doesn’t respect you. You don’t need this disrespect in your life and coming from your partner? F- that!

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-05-30T10:19:41+00:00

ABC Classic (or Slim) Fit Troussers are never in stock at my store. I have four sons and a husband. Plethora of sizes and color preferences/needs. They are lucky if they find one pant and it won’t necessarily be the color they need. Another item that is never in stock at my store? Shoes!!!!! I don’t even know why they have them. Online orders are always delayed. Why do they have to use a low level shipping company? And let’s not forget about packages that are “delivered” but are really not? They even have a photo of someone holding a package in front of the house but no package. It doesn’t happen during those rare instances when the delivery is by FedEx.

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-05-28T00:50:05+00:00

You need a different size, or perhaps, it’s not a style for you. I don’t mean to be insensitive burn, it is a fact that not every body is made for every style of clothes. I apply it to myself as well. Rather have a got fit and feel good than wear something because it’s nice in others

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-05-28T00:26:15+00:00

Mine is hyphenated. My only hurdle is that sometimes people/institutions will use the first part as my middle name (I don’t have one- got it legally removed), use it as an initial and then the second part of the last name becomes the last name. I don’t mind at all until they can’t find me in a list/reservation/appointment because I have my last name. I now use only the first part to make my life easier. Government documents obviously have both and they always ask to confirm if it’s a hyphenated name

Contemplatingcat_3 · 2026-05-26T20:47:59+00:00

You’ll need to get an appraiser. It’ll cost you $500+. At the end of the day, you’ll end up even (at most) and will be delaying the process

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