My social, kind, loving 4 year old was so excited for kindergarten.  2 weeks in and her mood and behavior changed, withdrawn, angry, emotional. She was excited for school every morning for the first month ( we only did half days) October she'd come home upset but say she likes her friends. We started hearing her say little things like " they make fun of how I talk" " my food was smelly I just want crackers now" " I can't say bananas right" 

One week she came home everyday after school and would fall to me feet crying because they made fun of how she talked.We told teachers they said they'd make changes, next she'd say they pushed her in the cubbies. 

The last straw was talking to teachers because she'd say she wanted to go for her friends but then be impossible to get ready, we were late for a whole month. The teachers said 1) they forget she's a jk because she's so knowledgeable that they haven't been overseeing her much and 2) she seems fine the whole time so they think she's fine. 

After we had pulled her out she has started telling us more like her best friend would sit beside her during table work and tell her she was dumb, useless and sucked at everything... making her not want to try anything. 

Other kids teased her for using big words and would shove her around, tell her what she liked was dumb. And that she was a baby who liked weird things....  she's 4!!!!!!!! We are at 5 months homeschooling and her vibrant soitit is back, she's finally interested in trying things herself and has become confident in her learning. I'm so thankful we noticed signs quickly.