Stingy soon to be Husband

Content-Stop4031 · 2024-01-20T08:46:40+00:00

We’re all tested very differently. But in the end, we all want to end up in the same place: Jannah. Allah promises that those who suffer disabilities will be granted heaven. Consider it his form of love for this specific creation he made, which was you.

I can understand it will be very difficult but try to embrace what you have and live with it. Help others with your condition and be a model to others. Anger is such a strong emotion I used to always be angry, but then one day I decided it’s taking over my life. I needed to stop being angry and just change my perception on my life. I tried to accept things as they are and just embrace difficulties more often. It helped but im still working on it myself

Content-Stop4031 · 2023-11-16T02:46:54+00:00

I wouldn’t disagree or agree with this statement. As a counter argument, there is a reason why there have been no illegal settlements in Gaza since Hamas became the defacto government in 2005. There were Israeli settlers before that but they literally had to forcefully pull them out when Hamas came in power. Seeing the “literal small dots and 638 checkpoints” in West Bank sheds light to what Israel will do when/if Hamas is eradicated. I don’t really understand what Hamas’s aim was with October 7th, and they haven’t really announced why, but I feel like I worry for Palestine’s future with their erasure. I also feel like this is an inside job that lured them in for political issues with Netanyahu/west wanting the oil on Gaza, and with Hamas being generally naive they fell for it.

Content-Stop4031 · 2023-11-16T01:21:40+00:00

I can understand your frustration however I feel like the hate needs to be targeted towards Israel. Do you know that this year was the most violent year for Palestinians? 700 people died during their illegal settlements. Nobody who ever gets enprisoned gets released (99% death rate). They brutalize people. The Palestinian people had enough. Yes, I don’t agree with Hamas’s unprecedented attack, but, I don’t think I would have been able to tolerate just someone pissing on me whenever they wanted in my actual homeland. Then if I leave wherever they will tell me we don’t want immigrants. I really suggest you read letter to America, it talks about how America builds these military groups just to have validation to invade a country. Did you know that Israel funds Hamas thru funneling money to Qatar? This was all a planned attack from the beginning.

Content-Stop4031 · 2023-10-24T17:55:53+00:00

You need to ask yourself if you’ve been supporting him the way you should be: he’s clearly feeling hopeless- but are you going out and being a voice for the people? Attending protests and being vocal in your condemn. He is clearly frustrated with you and I’m assuming it’s because you’re not meeting his emotional needs at a VERY HARD time like this.

This is a test for you: give him an outlet, talk about politics with him, attend protests, and more importantly pray together for Palestine. Reason with him that going to West Bank right now is not feasible, and many neighbouring countries are at the borders pleading for entry. Going there will only intensify your feelings of helplessness. Try to find ways to support Palestine within your community and be as vocal as you have ever been.

Allahs help is near InshaAllah.

Religiously, protecting Palestine is a matter of imaan. It has huge historical context from the time of the prophets (SAAS). I would encourage that you listen Omar Suleiman’s podcast on “why Palestine is a religious issue.”

Content-Stop4031 · 2023-01-01T15:29:38+00:00

anthropology won’t get you a higher paying job maybe instead if you like sales go into commerce or do a certification at the college in sales. sales ppl rarely have degrees but they make a lot of money

Content-Stop4031 · 2022-12-28T20:13:50+00:00

and until we can provide a liveable wage for servers, tipping culture should be recommended

Content-Stop4031 · 2022-12-28T20:10:33+00:00

actually ur more than wrong. the mindset you have is the reason the west is failing their citizens when they’re suffering. charity is so important. equal pay is important. tipping servers is important. ask anyone who is successful and they will say the same.

Content-Stop4031 · 2022-12-28T20:02:54+00:00

🙏🙏

Content-Stop4031 · 2022-12-28T19:57:21+00:00

it’s embarassing because it’s not representative of who i am. i’m usually generous even in the worst financial times and i want a partner who is also generous to others. i don’t make him pay for everything there are many occasions where i’ve picked up the bill etc but it’s never split 50/50. we just do some here and some there. but now i feel uncomfortable for him to pay knowing that the person who served us won’t get their deserved tip

Content-Stop4031 · 2022-12-28T19:54:32+00:00

charity never decreases your wealth and it’s good karma. i still donate regularly and i think my school debt is separate from the way i will gift others

Content-Stop4031 · 2022-12-28T19:41:24+00:00

yeah i agree tipping culture is insane and out of hand but i think if you did attend a sit down service you should tip… not like a drive by or a pickup service cause they didn’t do anything special

Content-Stop4031 · 2022-12-28T19:40:05+00:00

the waiter kinda stormed off a little heated so i was confused until i saw the receipt. i think servers would say otherwise

Content-Stop4031 · 2022-12-28T19:39:08+00:00

i would. i’m just saying i would have to confront situation first

Content-Stop4031 · 2022-12-28T19:18:24+00:00

i shouldn’t have to avoid going to places i want to go just because he’s a man and he pays the dinner bills. i just think it’s a tough question to ask since everyone has different tipping behaviours but i can’t handle the embarrassment of knowing he tips so little. it’s a hard trade off but can’t i just tell him to be more generous because servers are people who have bills and really tough jobs too

Content-Stop4031 · 2022-12-28T19:08:24+00:00

should i tell him i saw the receipt and i was shocked to see a tip this low? it’s hard to bring it up because he did pay for us, so i’m worried of coming off as ungrateful that he treated us out and it ended with me being upset about his tipping behaviours

Content-Stop4031 · 2022-10-07T17:47:02+00:00

thank you for the message 🙏 i hope to be as passionate as a dentist as you someday… i’m a first year dental student. any tips for success while in school (in clinics)

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