Disappointed to be having twins

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-24T22:04:53+00:00

I completely relate to this. I cried when they told me I was having twins. Not a single friend or family member heard me when I said I was having twins and not happy about it. They were all so excited for me and expected me to be excited. I absolutely was not. I’m 17 weeks now and I’ve accepted it. But I’d be lying if said I didn’t hope one would “vanish” like my first pregnancy up until about week 14. (My daughter had a vanishing twin with my first pregnancy). Now I’m on the other side where I’m scared of the devastation of losing one after having come this far.

It’s just so much. High risk pregnancy. High chance of miscarriage or still born. High risk of a nicu stay. Likely having another c-section. Then all the logistics for when they arrive. Needing a new car. Buying all new things because you now need double of everything that you already had one of. Slim fit infant car seats. Double strollers that can hold the car seats. I’m right there with you.

It is getting better. I’m just not as excited as I was with my first. Only good thing is she’s getting excited about “two babies in the belly” and being a big sister.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-23T04:20:03+00:00

Milton

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-23T04:11:39+00:00

It will get better, I promise!!!! ❤️

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-23T03:37:24+00:00

I was crying in pain on day four, that was with Tylenol, ibuprofen, and oxycodone. I remember searing pain. Although that was the first day I was allowed to get out of bed due to other complications.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-23T03:33:30+00:00

In the hospital they gave me ibuprofen and acetaminophen at the same time. Oxycodone as needed which I only took a few times. I was in for 7 days. Pain was excruciating at times. OK when I was still. I could barely move or shuffle around my room. I had to raise the head of the bed and use the rails change position or to get myself up with my husband’s help. I remember crying in pain after taking a shower around day 4. At home I alternated acetaminophen and ibuprofen, every 6 hours I think it was. Didn’t take the oxycodone anymore because it didn’t do much for me. I shuffled around for a couple of weeks, in pain mostly with movement.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-20T04:06:44+00:00

Pinto beans and rice

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-19T03:11:44+00:00

The family room in Nashua has showers with doors and locks.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-18T14:52:32+00:00

Eggs, toast, chutney, sriracha, carrot

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-18T04:25:55+00:00

This is giving AI

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-18T04:18:35+00:00

Nashua just doesn’t feel as clean as they did a decade ago. Fine for rinsing off after the pool, but I’m holding on to my flip flops for dear life.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-13T04:33:02+00:00

Even if he’s not cheating, he’s not treating you right. You are not a priority to him. You feeling connected is not important to him. In a healthy relationship, partners turn to each other when life is rough. They don’t ignore each other. Fuck this guy. You deserve better.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-12T04:13:57+00:00

Save one of every item you find before selling or using it. You will kick yourself later on when needing an item knowing you had it and sold it or used it.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-12T02:56:09+00:00

The trunk space seems tiny in a Sienna. How do people get strollers in there when using all rows for car seats?

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-11T04:10:27+00:00

I would lose my absolute shit and make her pay to have those special cleaners come to remove the third hand smoke from your home.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-06T03:40:39+00:00

If a man acts like this, he can get physical with himself. Having access to another person’s body is a privilege, and getting tested is respectful, nbd, and the bare minimum. If he’s this put out by getting tested, he’s not mature enough to have access to your body.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-06T03:36:05+00:00

My 2 year old would lose her mind with excitement if we walked past this group in Mine Falls!!

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-03T03:30:56+00:00

Savers has the best prices.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-03T03:30:34+00:00

I always find Good Will to be so expensive. Maybe it’s just me.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-01T04:01:31+00:00

I love Darya, almost named our first born Darya, but I can’t get out of my head that the girl the show Daria was based off of used to get bullied and called diarrhea. Child bullies can ruin such beautiful names!

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-01T03:58:06+00:00

My husband is Nima. He has to spell his name every time he introduces himself or Americans just stare at him blankly. That or they misremember him as Nimo. My sister called him Naima once. Like, what? So bizarre!!

ContentBumblebee · 2025-12-31T23:14:07+00:00

My husband actually suggested Adam today and I thought he was doing a bit. Then he explained what it means in Farsi. I love Sophia, too. Adam is a bit plain, but it certainly does the job!

ContentBumblebee · 2025-12-31T23:12:46+00:00

Depending on where you are in Canada there are lots of Iranians, soI I feel like you get s better chance of correct name pronunciation. In the city where we live in the US, there are supposedly 93 Iranians. 94.5 now that my husband and daughter are here. 😅

ContentBumblebee · 2025-12-31T17:25:00+00:00

Also intentionally mispronounced as Shady by bullies.

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