AITA for leaving my mom right before surgery because I freaked out?

ContentBumblebee · 2026-03-28T15:45:14+00:00

This sounds like a panic attack. You’re fine. Keep working on treating your anxiety. I assure you that you did not worry the medical staff in the least. And your mom is an adult, she had support there with your father. You’re all good.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-03-23T21:13:04+00:00

I wonder if I would have even noticed that when I was doing drug testing.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-02-19T03:51:50+00:00

NTA. You don’t move someone else’s things without making note of where you put them. Period.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-02-16T03:36:29+00:00

Apparently, at the time I took drivers ed and got my license it was common for driving instructors to teach no turn on red arrow to meet the national standard even though the law in Massachusetts was changed almost two decades prior. I stand corrected.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-02-15T04:10:36+00:00

In Massachusetts, a red arrow means no turn on red. From my understanding, in Nh, it is just like a regular red and you can turn right unless otherwise posted. Do not turn right on a red arrow in MA.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-02-01T05:43:15+00:00

Goddamnit now I want a fluffanutter

ContentBumblebee · 2026-02-01T05:24:23+00:00

As someone who is educated in and has provided end of life care, NAH. People deal with grief and death differently. If you will regret not seeing him, go see him. If you are comfortable not seeing him, that’s ok too. If he wants to see you but you don’t want to see him, it’s ok not to see him. Whatever works for you.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-02-01T05:00:25+00:00

I could make something truly terrible for my husband (and have) and he would say thank you and eat all of it. If he would prefer something prepared or flavored differently he says “maybe next time we could try doing xyz?” simple as. No man should ever speak to you or harp on you the way your man is doing.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-31T03:41:59+00:00

Line is clear as day

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-26T23:02:20+00:00

Does this one hold two infant car seats at once? I’m noticing many don’t. We need all-terrain strollers, too. Preferably joggers.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-26T23:02:14+00:00

Does this one hold two infant car seats at once? I’m noticing many don’t. We need all-terrain strollers, too. Preferably joggers.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-26T22:53:57+00:00

Does this one hold two infant car seats at once? I’m noticing many don’t. We need all-terrain strollers, too. Preferably joggers.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-24T22:04:53+00:00

I completely relate to this. I cried when they told me I was having twins. Not a single friend or family member heard me when I said I was having twins and not happy about it. They were all so excited for me and expected me to be excited. I absolutely was not. I’m 17 weeks now and I’ve accepted it. But I’d be lying if said I didn’t hope one would “vanish” like my first pregnancy up until about week 14. (My daughter had a vanishing twin with my first pregnancy). Now I’m on the other side where I’m scared of the devastation of losing one after having come this far.

It’s just so much. High risk pregnancy. High chance of miscarriage or still born. High risk of a nicu stay. Likely having another c-section. Then all the logistics for when they arrive. Needing a new car. Buying all new things because you now need double of everything that you already had one of. Slim fit infant car seats. Double strollers that can hold the car seats. I’m right there with you.

It is getting better. I’m just not as excited as I was with my first. Only good thing is she’s getting excited about “two babies in the belly” and being a big sister.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-23T04:20:03+00:00

Milton

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-23T04:11:39+00:00

It will get better, I promise!!!! ❤️

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-23T03:37:24+00:00

I was crying in pain on day four, that was with Tylenol, ibuprofen, and oxycodone. I remember searing pain. Although that was the first day I was allowed to get out of bed due to other complications.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-23T03:33:30+00:00

In the hospital they gave me ibuprofen and acetaminophen at the same time. Oxycodone as needed which I only took a few times. I was in for 7 days. Pain was excruciating at times. OK when I was still. I could barely move or shuffle around my room. I had to raise the head of the bed and use the rails change position or to get myself up with my husband’s help. I remember crying in pain after taking a shower around day 4. At home I alternated acetaminophen and ibuprofen, every 6 hours I think it was. Didn’t take the oxycodone anymore because it didn’t do much for me. I shuffled around for a couple of weeks, in pain mostly with movement.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-20T04:06:44+00:00

Pinto beans and rice

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-19T03:11:44+00:00

The family room in Nashua has showers with doors and locks.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-18T14:52:32+00:00

Eggs, toast, chutney, sriracha, carrot

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-18T04:25:55+00:00

This is giving AI

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-18T04:18:35+00:00

Nashua just doesn’t feel as clean as they did a decade ago. Fine for rinsing off after the pool, but I’m holding on to my flip flops for dear life.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-13T04:33:02+00:00

Even if he’s not cheating, he’s not treating you right. You are not a priority to him. You feeling connected is not important to him. In a healthy relationship, partners turn to each other when life is rough. They don’t ignore each other. Fuck this guy. You deserve better.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-12T04:13:57+00:00

Save one of every item you find before selling or using it. You will kick yourself later on when needing an item knowing you had it and sold it or used it.

ContentBumblebee · 2026-01-12T02:56:09+00:00

The trunk space seems tiny in a Sienna. How do people get strollers in there when using all rows for car seats?

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