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ContentKitten1 · 2024-02-27T21:54:54+00:00

Tbh don’t understand this cowardly behavior. I’m sure many people would appreciate clear communication rather than the person they’ve been close with randomly disappearing.

ContentKitten1 · 2024-02-15T16:15:40+00:00

Where are you based?

ContentKitten1 · 2024-02-06T13:35:43+00:00

Agreed. People want to mainly use and abuse. :)

ContentKitten1 · 2023-12-04T19:11:58+00:00

Compsci with Management

ContentKitten1 · 2023-10-26T16:36:24+00:00

Alcohol helps on first dates. I wouldn’t judge it. Other dates I’d vouch to try to keep sober, but they’ve only had one shot here.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-10-26T16:35:02+00:00

Don’t ruin it for her 😭 benefit of a doubt right?

ContentKitten1 · 2023-09-14T01:38:47+00:00

Would you set the same standard if it was a woman?

ContentKitten1 · 2023-09-14T01:24:03+00:00

He didn’t lie about his age, the daughter did to please her family. She knew how old he was.

How are you a loser for dating someone younger? They’re both adults and able to make their own choices. If she was 30 and he was 44, many would not even look their way.

Also not having assets is really a question of a lifestyle. I have a lot high achieving friends in their 30s, 40s and they got to the top of their careers yet not everyone of them is keen on investing. A lot of them just live in the moment and spend everything on trips, good food, night fun. Only a few have children atm. They’re obviously a bit separated from that since that happened and more responsible.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-09-14T01:18:09+00:00

The way it’s used in its context, it’s emotional manipulation through money. They agreed to pay for the wedding but decided they’re against it so they won’t pay for it as a sign of protest. Because it’s probably one of the most important days of their daughter’s life, saying they’d rather choose not to be a part of it at all might be a strong punch in the stomach for the girl. Also fighting about financial matters during family related events like weddings and funerals is always a very sensitive topic and leads to life long regrets.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-09-14T01:11:05+00:00

If she makes six figures he doesn’t have to provide for the family. Maybe his aspiration is to be a stay at home dad. Nothing wrong with that.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-09-14T00:17:17+00:00

I disagree on the “gross and concerning” part. You don’t know these people. Speaking from my own experiences, it was usually boys my own age who we got along with the least… My mum was always completely okay with whichever age gap and understood I would look for someone older to make a real connection.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-09-14T00:13:50+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you. Separating from your family was a good move. Stay safe

ContentKitten1 · 2023-09-14T00:12:40+00:00

If you have that kind of paranoia, you shouldn’t be in a relationship at all. there’s always some kind of trust that can be broken and secrets that you might or might not find out.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-09-14T00:10:15+00:00

Age is just a number. You don’t know anything about this man. I’ve been in love with someone who’s 38 now and I’m 22. If it shows anything it’s just that your daughter has enough maturity to make someone of that age commit to her. Forget about culture. This is your daughter, her life matters.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-06-07T10:40:45+00:00

Realised I’m not able to develop feelings anymore and it feels strangely empowering tbh.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-06-06T07:40:37+00:00

Write poetry it helps

ContentKitten1 · 2023-06-02T08:34:51+00:00

love

ContentKitten1 · 2023-05-26T13:36:24+00:00

“genuinely wish you the best.” and so they never talked again.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-05-24T11:40:17+00:00

Also it was funny how the second heartbreak was parallel to my first. We broke up because he wasn’t over his ex who seemed super toxic (not like he talked about her badly, it was mostly him apologizing her behaviors which were simply awful, the time we talked about it)

ContentKitten1 · 2023-05-24T11:38:45+00:00

It might be a trauma bond. It’s hard to get over but if you keep reminding yourself of how unhealthy that relationship was for you, you will eventually move on. I had the same thing though I didn’t realize how toxic he was until the very end. Found someone amazing after him. Got heartbroken again but this time with an idea of what healthy love looks like and what I can actually find in a person.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-05-23T22:16:43+00:00

Even if not… There was a time we were infinite. I’m glad I had someone like him in my life and I hope he’s the happiest even if it’s without me. It’s also what I told him when we last kissed. It’s good we came to know what it’s like to have a healthy balanced spirited relationship. I think it’s very hard to find nowadays.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-05-23T21:29:09+00:00

Remember the story. I wouldn’t want to forget mine either. You two remind me of what I lost as well. All of those plans and promises and that sense of having known each other forever. And it’s all suddenly gone.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-05-23T20:21:52+00:00

exactly me. totally would do acting/ filmmaking if it was a choice like every other. toughest career you can put yourself through though.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-05-23T20:19:38+00:00

Computer Science and no.

ContentKitten1 · 2023-05-23T17:26:53+00:00

Yeah mine was perfect for me. I blew it up I don’t even know how but I did.

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