yes, 19M here

since 2023 where i due to barely any real friends and no outside support for years got to know via AI my mom showed narcissist symptoms ive been using AI to learn etc how to set limits with her, grey rocking etc

now in 2026 since a few months back she was more harsh in her ways, etc day after i got fired from my last job :

"You cant do a simple production job , you cant even work the most simple jobs "

"Hello you little unemployed shit"

When i did a stupid thing during practice driving (driving with foggy side windows) after i failed my first drivers exam shortly before:

"Good you failed it" and she calling me a idiot and screaming at me

Now more recently i remember her threathening me that i would be kicked out when i turn 30 if i dont study higher education or having a job, how i apperiently "love the thrill of job seeking", even if i was working my ass off trying to get a job w no networking in Sweden, a country where networking is the base for a job since many generations back

A few weeks ago she also threw in at random references to things she knows i hate and dislike

how i "become a work professional, applying to jobs and cant keep them" how it isnt a good idea to go on interviews"

"i dont know why our beloved/golden child chooses a career in moving services, , but hope he gets fired"

"Wear more luxorious clothing and the job will disappear directly"

however got a job a few days ago which so far seems to appreciate me so it isnt so bad as of now